Dear cB, I have a confession to make. Options

[*souperstition*]

I think about things. Like, sometimes I'm responding to a topic on cB, and like.. I read over it before I press the submit button. I know, I know, weird, but I think about these things! Like, for instance, if I'm going to come off as rude and if that's a sacrifice I'm willing to make to prove a point. I think about whether or not my words make any sense, and I think about how much it would suck if nobody read or responded to it. I check to make sure I won't seem like an idiot, and I think about whether my post has anything to contribute to the topic.

I've come to terms with the fact that I have a problem, and well.. I was just wondering.. has anyone else experienced this? =\

[*stephinika*]

Yes, but not quite to that extreme. I worry about how I'll come across sometimes because over the internet and text sometimes people take things the wrong way, but I don't stress over it too much.

But in general, I definitely think a lot which leads to me having issues falling asleep. Its terrible.

[shiftieeyedpnoi]

Your problem can be solved in 5 easy steps.

1. Quit the forum.
2. Get a rebound forum.
3. Call CB and re-engage contact.
4. Ask CB out for coffee.
5. Start posting again.

- CEP

[*alovesopure*]

^

Not to that extreme, but yeah sometimes.
I do tend to think a lot, and usually end up thinking too deeply into things that really are very simple. heh.

It's nice to see you, btw, Miss Dannnii

[*souperstition*]

Man, the weird thing is that I don't even necessarily think a lot.. but I've recently found out that it's considered strange to think at ALL before posting! I just wanted to see if I was the only one.

Hi Lucy.

CB, I know this might be a bit forward and I'm skipping a few steps, but.. would you like to go out for coffee?

[iDecay]

Lucy isn't here, Dani.

And I overthink the wrong things. I underthink the wrong things.

[*alovesopure*]

^ I think she called me Lucy.

[*souperstition*]

OH MY GOD KARA I'M SO SORRY HIIIII

[*Sandraaa*]

Not at all. I'm really lazy so no, I've got better things to do.

[stormbringer]

yeah, but only on long posts.. on short posts I dont think about that as much.

[Crash2]

I check mine before clicking submit, mainly just to check for typos and stuff.

[*Elba*]

I don't think much, really

[HakunaMatata]

OMG IT'S DANIIIIIIIIII!!!

So recently I've become exteeeeeeeeemely self-conscious when I hit 'Add Reply'. The regular ol' fun post is easy to post, but there have been plenty of times where I type out like three paragraphs and then I just end up erasing it all.

In fact, I just erased a whole shaz-load right now just for this reply,

[Jeng]

No I just type and then read over to look for typos.

[*superstitious*]

CB, I know this might be a bit forward and I'm skipping a few steps, but.. would you like to go out for coffee?

Are you ready for that coffee commitment? It's a pretty big step. o.O

I do the same thing, Miss Dani. I've just come to a point where I don't have the time to think as much about things. :[

[x_curse_of_the_c...]

i used to but i then i went to rehab so not anymore. yay!

[*SayBloodyMary*]

Dani, on behalf of cB, not only will we go for coffee, we shall EVEN get ice cream after.

Oh, and HI.

[arghrawr]

Yes, indeed I do. GO THINKERS!
Make sure cB gets you sprinkles on your ice cream. Not the cheap stuff either.

[*Insurmountable*]

I know exactly what your talking about Dani.

Although now I just don't care as much...You can't make everyone happy and as long as you made yourself happy and you think your post is up to par is all that matters.