Yeah...so....i need some advice please, its about my internet boyfriend >.> dont flame me Options

[fagget]

wow, thanks for the obvious one line answers.

atleast lostgrl16 put some time into her answer.

and seriously...you all that are like INTERNET LOVE = BAD! stop, ive heard it all. I know teh risks. the question was after two years should i continue to wait, now should i just dump him cause he might some old fat guy

which by the way he is rather heavyset. these are some of the pictures hes shown me and ive seen him on cam.


before you ask, thats his NEICE, not his daughter....

AHHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA

[*chaneun*]

EWWWWWW

[salcha4u]

Hahhah

[fagget]

I just realized you said "he might be some old fat guy"
I'm not sure about the old. But the um, other, uh.

[Beunique]

Look be honest with him. tell him that you are interested in meetting other people over the internet. if he's mature about it then he'll accept it. and you should talk to the new people. get to know them and make sure to tell them that they arnnt the only ones you're talking to. so as i was saying ask the people if they would be able to make the tripsp to visit you. and i mean u shouldnt be limited to one peprson... :)

[Rachel]

AHHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA

Well we don't know what she looks like so lets not judge....

[Smilessss]

wow yeah its natural for parents to not let their "daughters" go visit their "boyfriends", as its the same for me, but my parents lets my boyfriend visit me and sleep at my house, which means they trust us completely, but like at night i have to sleep in my parents room with them,while he slept in the guest room and yeah why not let him visit you? (":

[*icecreamisyummy*]

my family was planning on moving to florida, so i went through aol's member directory adn searchedfor someone from that area to ask about the school what there is to do there etc. well we ended up not moving but the following summer i got the chance to go to that town and stay at my moms friends sisters house and spend about 3 weeks there. well it so happened to be that the guy i had been talkin to for the passt 7 months lived right behind the ladies house. we never had a cahcne to meet up or anythign cuz the ppl i was stayin with were very strict about guys. so i would go online when he was home and tell him to go outside so i could see him and he would do it. one day we went to the mall and what do you know he was there too but i wasnt sure if it was him or not so when i got home i checked my email and found one from him sayin he saw me at the mall and blah blah.

we continued to talk online and a couple times on the phone and went on cam.

that summer i joined my schools band and found out that they were takin a band trip to florida i was so excited. so we met up and spent the whle day today. he even watched me march in a parade at magic kingdom in the pouring rain.

that same year he was tourin around the US with DCI (drum and bugle corp) and had a competition where i lived. i watched him performed and we hung out afterwards. that was our first kiss

i was in me senior year was tryin to find a college down in fl and my mom suggested university of tampa since she has fam there and wanted me to have someone asorund to help. well what do you, he had moved to tampa with his mother. so i went on a college visit and we got to hang out the same nite.

after that he kinda back away for a few months. then we started to talk every nite and one day i asked if he waned to com visit me on his spring break. he did and ever since then we've been together and i just moved to tampa. we're plannin on mo ving intogether by next month.

this all started around thanksgiving my freshman year in high school. Now im in college. all im sayin you can def find the love of your life online. and the good thign about it is that you dont fall for him/her because of their looks but for somethign much more something that it takes couples that meet each other in the streets a while to figure out.

and yes there are the weird perverts online. but you just gotta be careful. never go meet up with them by yourself. have friends or someone you trust that knows the situation with you.