Do you think its bad luck to get a tattoo, with a boyfriend,girlfriend,fiance's name? Options

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Just wondering because on friday i wanted to get my boyfriend of 2 year's name tattoo'd on my pelvic area but everyone's saying its bad luck... What do you think?

Should i go with matching tattoo's or the name? idk!



edit// i wanted to get the name and our day

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Ive been in one relationship before him and that lasted 2 weeks. Im 18 going on 19 in two months, he's the only person ive ever loved and im probably pregnant with his kid.

I want to marry him and i want to be with him forever.

No kidding.

20 years i see myself with him.

[*Steven*]

You really shouldn't be getting preg at that age oO but I won't lecture on that lol.

I wouldn't get it there. When you get old you'll get saggy. The tat will sag. You probably won't want it when you're older (but who knows, you might). I think tat'ing names of people that aren't like super famous religious icons is kinda dumb, because what happens when something goes wrong in your life and you aren't with your boyfriend anymore and you meet a new guy. He'll always have to know that you have your old boyfriend's name tattooed on you.

I wouldn't, simply because it's not going to hurt you not to have it, but it could hurt you TO have it down the road.

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^ why shouldnt i be pregnant im startng my sophmore year in college december and what i want to do only requires an A.S? ill be done with school by the time my baby is 2 months.

?? im financialy stable and im in love.

[brooklyneast05]

i'd say no, don't get their name on u. why? because it's unnecessary. and i'm talking from personal experience. i got matching tattoos randomly for the hell of it because we were bored. i realize that u think ur going to be together forever blah blah blah, but things change. when i got the girls name on me, we were engaged, and now i'm not...unexpected things come up. maybe u wouldn't regret it but i'd say don't even risk it. i think ur too young, i was a sophomore, financially stable, in love, thats changeable whether u think so or not.

[BOOGERSHAHA]

will you really change your opinion of what we post?
i'm pretty sure the consensus on this issue is a big fat "NO DON'T GET IT."

it's hard to have a baby while you're in college...is it community college and are you still living at home? what do your parents think of the situation?

[*Steven*]

^ why shouldnt i be pregnant im startng my sophmore year in college december and what i want to do only requires an A.S? ill be done with school by the time my baby is 2 months.

?? im financialy stable and im in love.

Because you're quite young and there are tons of things. Do you want me to state my case regarding pregnancy at 18 years old?

If you're going to for sure get one, at least wait til after your pregnancy to avoid stretch marks where you get it.

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well i dont' know.

i have a tattoo that says "rick" on my ass that i regret. and i don't even know a rick.

[*SayBloodyMary*]

I don't know if it's bad luck, but it's incredibly stupid.

LOL.

That is actually the EXACT sentence that came into my mind when I read her post. Uncanny.

Seriously, there are much better ways to show your love for him, that won't leave you feeling a fool if it does go wrong. Go for a picnic every weekend, or find 'your song' and dance to it. Means more than a silly ink blob anyway.

[heyyfrankie]

first problem, he's only your boyfriend.
second problme, it's only been two years.

don't you think that getting his name permanately (for the most part) put on your body is a bit much for such a short relationship. I say short because most people wouldn't do that kind of stuff until like...marriage or smoething really serious.

i just wouldn't risk it.

If you're going to for sure get one, at least wait til after your pregnancy to avoid stretch marks where you get it.

that's a really smart thing to say. Never woulda though about it. this sounds sarcastic but i'm actually seirous.

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Hmm you all have good points.

Yes it actually does make a diffrence because when and if i get it i know exactly what people will think.


so.. how about MATCHING tatoos. not like a name or anything just a cute little something and we both get one?

* i said i MIGHT be pregnant, not that i was

[heyyfrankie]

i would much rather opt for the mathing ones. Therefore IF anything happens, you won't be shelling out $90183 for a laser treatment to get his name off your body ASAP.

&btw, if you ARE pregnant, i hope everything works out.

[*Steven*]

Matching tat's wouldn't be nearly as bad, but be careful of placement. Girls with tat's right above their ass.. *shrug*
But yeah, matching tat's wouldn't be as bad because it could be symbolic meaning anything really.

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ehh. its just something we were going to do for funn.

i wasnt going to get it right above my ass either. more like on my pelvic area somewhere personal not everyone could see, just a me and him kinda thing.

[*Steven*]

Ah kk, well I would still do symbols if anything, as names can easily come and go and are pretty concrete, while a symbol is up to interpretation.

[*Elba*]

DO NOT GET IT

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DO NOT GET IT

LMBO. greeeeat.

[Rachel]

ehh. its just something we were going to do for funn.

i wasnt going to get it right above my ass either. more like on my pelvic area somewhere personal not everyone could see, just a me and him kinda thing.

That area will still stretch over time, if not when you're pregnant.

I am glad you are leaning more towards matching, because honestly, getting his name is one of the stupidest things you can do. And I know now you think you are completely inlove and that nothing will go wrong, but hell I was with my last boyfriend for a year and a half and I was so in love with him and then all of a sudden it blew up in my face. (But I have a much better guy now anyway rambling...)You may think it's forever, but sometimes it's not.

[*Elba*]

That area will still stretch over time, if not when you're pregnant.

I am glad you are leaning more towards matching, because honestly, getting his name is one of the stupidest things you can do. And I know now you think you are completely inlove and that nothing will go wrong, but hell I was with my last boyfriend for a year and a half and I was so in love with him and then all of a sudden it blew up in my face. (But I have a much better guy now anyway rambling...)You may think it's forever, but sometimes it's not.

Yeah, better safe than sorry. You'll feel stupid if things don't work out. Of course, I wish that they do work out and you marry him and stay together forever.

[*Sandraaa*]

Let me see; you're going to get the name of your boyfriend of 2 years tattooed in your pelvic area? DANDY. So what happens when your next boyfriend sees it? Don't tell me you're going to remain with this guy forever ... me don't buy bull.

It's incredibly unwise. Only a fool will do that.

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^ what makes you think ill have a next boyfriend?

[*Sandraaa*]

I hope you don't after you get the tattoo but since we're leaving in a fcuked up world, you might get another boyfriend. You know, nothing is everlasting.

[*Mercy*]

I think its a pretty bad idea seeing as hes only your boyfriend and it hasnt really lead into anything else...

But if you really really want to do it,maybe go for the matching tattoo thing just so that incase it dosnt work out and your new boyfriend sees it..you can make up some bullshit story or something..

ps.If you did put his name somewhere on your body the pelvic area isnt a good idea because it kinda takes away the meaning of it.I dont know thats how i kinda see it.

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Hmm. my mom just said it was a stupid idea but that if i really wnated to then i should so i would LEARN from my own mistakes and not anyon else's.

[*Elba*]

I think you should learn another way. I wanted to get my ex-boyfriend's name tatted on me. I thought I was going to be with him forever But it ended up not working out... and thank god I didn't get a stupid tattoo. Now with my current boyfriend that I have been with for over two years, I love him to death, I want to marry him, blah blah blah. However, there's no way in hell I would get his name tatted on me. Why? Because shit happens. In the end, it may not work out--no matter how hard you try or how much you want it to.