Once a cheater, always a cheater. Options

[NgocQuyen]

i tried to believe that it wasn't but in my most recent case, it is true. there'd better be someone out there to change it. :|

[popoberry]

yeah cuhz if they say they won`t cheat again . they would just want that person back .

[y0urelectrikk]

I agree w/ the statement. My ex cheated on me with some girl w/in the first week of us going out. He said he only went out with her because she said she was going to kill herself or something. So I gave him another chance.. about 3 months later.. he cheated on me with a different girl. We broke up.. 3 months later, he came back to me, and I'm so dumb and gave him yet another chance. & guess what! he cheated on me again. We arent together anymore.. but by the end of the relationship he told me he cheated on me 6 times.. including once with a guy >.< After that 9 month relationship, He got a new gf within less than a week. I know of a few times he's cheated on her. Then he got another girlfriend, while still going out with that girl. So he cheated on both of them. He broke up with the first chick.. and is still with the other one. No doubt he's cheated on her.. she lives an hour away from him.. and quite honestly she's probably the ugliest girl I've ever seen. I'm not even sure if it is a girl.. its just a big blobb of lard haha. Whatever. Moral of the story.... Once a cheater, always a cheater.

but then again. He's only one heartless a-hole, although I'm sure there are plenty more out there.. there's got to be a couple who don't continue to be assholes.

[AngelinaTaylor]

Sleeping with someone else... I'd be crushed, completely. But if he was truly and deeply sorry, maybe I could forgive him - hell we all make mistakes, we're human. However if he was having another relationship, no way in hell I could take him back. For me feelings are more important than physical urges, no matter what.

Oh wait, I don't think that was your question. Umm... some people change, some people don't. If you truly love the person, you'll be less likely to give into cheating. There are always exceptions, of course... you had a major fight, you got drunk, things got out of control, etc, even though that's not really an excuse. I've cheated before, I admit it. I was insecure and I wanted to get back at him. But I would never do it in my current relationship, ever. I think I've changed and have more self control now.