Is there something Wrong with me?, is it that im too f***ing ugly? Options

[Mini]

you have high standards. stop basing stuff off of looks, but rather personality. i can almost bet that anyone you meet that is 'hot' is not going to be worth your time and you're going to question why you liked them in the first place, guarenteed.

Uh, I don't agree with you.

That's just simply generalizing attractive people and saying none of them have personality or depth.

I can see what you're saying, but you're just assuming that she's shallow for wanting to date a cute guy. And obviously, that's not the case.

Also, it's not people's faults that they judge a person based on looks. It's just the way we humans evolved because we, as organisms, would want to bear offspring and pass our genes down.

An attractive person would technically have "good" genes to ensure the survival of YOUR offspring. Why? Because attractive people have a higher tendency to mate and produce viable, good offspring.

ANYWHO, looks play a factor. Just face it.

[*steve330*]

But I can see what you're saying. It's not people's faults that they judge a person based on looks. It's just the way we evolved because we as orgasms would want to bear offspring and pass our genes down.

ORLY?

I would agree with what spencer said, and he did say almost which makes it not absolute. Most 'hot' people tend to be full of themselves, but then there are always the hot ones that don't think they're that hot but really are.

[Mini]

ORLY?

I would agree with what spencer said, and he did say almost which makes it not absolute. Most 'hot' people tend to be full of themselves, but then there are always the hot ones that don't think they're that hot but really are.

LOL! Freudian slip, I apologize. HAHAH.

I did edit it though but I was too LATE. Damn it.

Honestly, I think there are more attractive people who tend to have a bad self image of themselves and constantly worry about how attractive they are. That's why most people are so vain sometimes.

And I'm just saying this because I have a bad self image of myself too and I might just be biased.

[xtwitchyx]

I think you're just having a bit of bad luck. I've attracted a couple of ugly guys before. Well one was ugly and perverted, but the other... He was really ugly and psycho. Otherwise the rest of the guys I attracted were pretty cute, just too stupid and skanky. I can't say that about my current boyfriend though. He's pretty cute, sweet, and sane.(Thank god.)

So yeah, don't worry about it. I'm sure good luck will strike eventually.

[Mini]

You know what?

Maybe, you're just NOT taking the initiative to introduce yourself to cute, smart, emotionally stable guys.

PEOPLE! You can't expect people, especially ATTRACTIVE people, to COME up to you and hit on you. That's not how it works.

Use the ugly guy strategy. Hit on as many people whom you're interested in and it'll work.

Sheesh.

AND DON'T EXPECT YOUR LUCK TO CHANGE. That is just wishful thinking.

[S-Majere]

Maybe you've just got a really high opinion of yourself. I know now that Johnny Depp was never going to come into my college and sweep me off my feet. Someone else did.

[Mini]

Maybe you've just got a really high opinion of yourself. I know now that Johnny Depp was never going to come into my college and sweep me off my feet. Someone else did.

Well, he could've if he met you and was "exposed" to you.


HAHAHAHHA <3

[S-Majere]

Actually, my phsycho-babbling friend - that may be true.

/exposes self

NOW SWEEP ME OFF MY FEET, GODDAMNIT!

[Beunique]

i have tried out the ugly guys!!

one ws super sweet but then he got obsessed. so i dont know about him.. lol and i do put looks aside. a lot of the times. so im not shallow. i mean is it so bad that i want to beb withsomeone attractive looking?

and yes maybe i will use the ugly guy approach toward the cute ones.. :)

[Gigi]

well maybe.. but why is it that ugly people are ganging up on chicks? its seems like all the cute ones are taken :( wow its sad.

its a conspiracy..

Haven't you heard? Guys are like toilets. They're either taken or full of shit.

[*Moderator*]

You can't expect every one of them to be drop dead gorgeous. Looks aren't everything. I'm not saying that they don't matter but, what good is a hawt guy but for one thing?

[demolished]

Maybe you have a great an ideal appearance and personality that attracts "ugly people". Generally "ugly people" prefer someone who doesn’t look like a total slut and flashy.

Maybe, "hot guys" are attracted to skinny sexy curvy chicks that you aren’t. You may not fit their standard.

Study shows that women are able to have a longer lasting relationship with "ugly/average" people than an extremely attractive man with great model-like features.


Generally, hot people date hot people.

[upoverdown]

i have the same problem.
and i'm not totally unattractive.

just learn to love it,
you'll find a great one some day.
it does happen.

[*SinfullySweet*]

The cute guys that you're around arn't attracted to you...

Exactly. You cant expect everyone to be smokin'

[megli808]

nothing wrong with you.i think that you just have bad luck, and anyways, i've once dated an ugly guy (idk why i did) but he was really sweet and he was one of the nice-est guys i've dated...then he moved away..=(

[mysticalazxn]

No one want to be ugly. We can't change it. When an ugly guy talk to you don't run away. Give him time to present himself. You don't have to date him. Friend is good enough.

[Beunique]

well i found a guy that likes me and i like him.. and i like how he talks to me and hes cute :) so i guess when i stopped looking i found him