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 Jul 8 2007, 06:32 PM
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so theres this girl and i really like her. i mean ive liked people before but i never had the guts to tell them but she made the first move and now im sprung. the problem is ive never had a real relationship because i always push people away before they get to close. i dont want to get my heart broken but then again i think we have something good going. should i go through with it??? or should i break her heart before she breaks mine?
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Jul 8 2007, 06:41 PM
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 Peggy. Group: Member Posts: 2,508 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 214,025 |
Well, she dropped you hints right? Be a man and ask her out!
 It's a great opportunity for you! Don't push her away before you even get to be close with her. |
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Jul 8 2007, 08:23 PM
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Yeeeah pretty much if you go into a relationship thinking it's a race to hurt each other your going into it the wrong way.
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Jul 9 2007, 12:10 AM
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 AttacKATTack! Group: Member Posts: 697 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 536,660 |
QUOTE(yobaka3 @ Jul 8 2007, 08:23 PM)  Yeeeah pretty much if you go into a relationship thinking it's a race to hurt each other your going into it the wrong way. Agreed. Um... Relationships aren't a game to see who can break the other person's heart first and be victorious. If you're scared to get into a relationship because you're afraid she'll break your heart, chances are you're not ready for a relationship. If you really like her enough to take that chance, go out with her. If you don't think you're ready, tell her you're not ready and give it a couple more years. 
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Jul 9 2007, 12:15 AM
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Maybe this is a chance for you to learn how to finally go through a relationship. Not all relationships end in heartbreak; some are actually mutual heartbreaks. Of course, there will be the leftover feelings to deal with, but still. You haven't even gotten there yet. You just gotta remember to live for today. I mean, what if she leaves and you never get the chance to be in a relationship with her?
It is better to love than to never have loved at all.  Think about it, and decide by yourself whether you really want to pursue this relationship. Try to look at yourself and measure how much you really like this girl. |
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Jul 9 2007, 12:45 AM
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 i go RawR! Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,635 |
Take a chance.
 Who knows what'll happen. If you think that you two have something good going, then just go for it. It's a risk that you'll just have to take and see what happens. :)
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Jul 9 2007, 02:06 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(xKatt @ Jul 9 2007, 01:10 AM) Agreed. Um... Relationships aren't a game to see who can break the other person's heart first and be victorious. If you're scared to get into a relationship because you're afraid she'll break your heart, chances are you're not ready for a relationship. If you really like her enough to take that chance, go out with her. If you don't think you're ready, tell her you're not ready and give it a couple more years. Agreed. |
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