sisters., more like a confession.. Options

[SilentD]

does this topic go in this thread? bleh. anyway...

i love my sisters. they're all i have left. we're the DOUBLE stuft oreos. yes..double. and you'll learn why.

but im the middle child and i feel like im the one who got all the bad shit and flaws. im the ugly, fat, double-chinned, pale, acne prone, big-flat-nosed one. i can probably add more to that list, but i think i feel sorry for myself already...

we're all in relationships but everytime we meet new guys (or girls for my lesbian sis), or even when we're just with friends, they always get the attention. and sometimes, they just laugh at me about it. of course i'm ok with it, but now that i start thinking about it..i just feel like crying.

sometimes, i wish i would just wake up looking better than them. i don't know..i was never really concerned about image..but i feel too ugly to not care anymore.

[fathomlessdame]

aww. don't think like that. honestly, your not ugly. yeah you might not be the prettiest of your sisters on the outside but i'm sure that inside of you it all makes up. the kind of people you want to be around and get to know arent gonna give a shit what you look like. and even tho i dont know you, i'm sure if we turned you inside out so everybody could see how much of a good person you are, you would get a ton of attention.

looks dont matter, its the personality that counts. don't beat yourself up!

(did i help? i hope i didnt make it worse..)

[dustbunny]

you know what, you look great to me. NORMAL girls feel like this all the time, i in fact have so so so sooooo many issues with myself i dont want to even get started. stupid bigass pores and gargantuan calves. besides, no one out there is even near perfection, so i am sure you excel in many areas while your sisters also have flaws. just because your flaws may seem more prominent does not mean in any way that your sisters are "better" or whatever. you must have talents in certain areas that your sisters admire you for! although i do not know you that well, i don't think it would be far off if i also said that you must also have a wonderful personality. and in the end, that's still what really counts. i feel similar, although i am an only child and of course this is different from your situation, i have BEAUTIFUL FRIENDS. and by beautiful i mean the girls that are my friends are like GORGEOUS. what sucks the most is that they're very well ENDOWED for ASIANS and im just like..great way to break the stereotype and leave me here feeling all flat and crap. they're all REALLY pretty and i'm not just saying this to make myself feel ugly or anything, it's just the truth. sometimes i can get over it, sometimes i can't. i want to say more but i have to go cause my mom is yelling at me and my foot is numb. anyhow, i'd just like you to know that your shining personality will prevail in the end. besides, i like your bag better.

[SilentD]

aww. don't think like that. honestly, your not ugly. yeah you might not be the prettiest of your sisters on the outside but i'm sure that inside of you it all makes up. the kind of people you want to be around and get to know arent gonna give a shit what you look like. and even tho i dont know you, i'm sure if we turned you inside out so everybody could see how much of a good person you are, you would get a ton of attention.

looks dont matter, its the personality that counts. don't beat yourself up!

(did i help? i hope i didnt make it worse..)

well, when you said that i may not be the prettiest of my sisters on the outside...it kinda made me feel bad, but i think i know what you meant...lol. dont worry, you didnt make it worse. im just glad even people i don't know think im a good person. i'll try not to beat myself up. thanks for the reply.

you know what, you look great to me. NORMAL girls feel like this all the time, i in fact have so so so sooooo many issues with myself i dont want to even get started. stupid bigass pores and gargantuan calves. besides, no one out there is even near perfection, so i am sure you excel in many areas while your sisters also have flaws. just because your flaws may seem more prominent does not mean in any way that your sisters are "better" or whatever. you must have talents in certain areas that your sisters admire you for! although i do not know you that well, i don't think it would be far off if i also said that you must also have a wonderful personality. and in the end, that's still what really counts. i feel similar, although i am an only child and of course this is different from your situation, i have BEAUTIFUL FRIENDS. and by beautiful i mean the girls that are my friends are like GORGEOUS. what sucks the most is that they're very well ENDOWED for ASIANS and im just like..great way to break the stereotype and leave me here feeling all flat and crap. they're all REALLY pretty and i'm not just saying this to make myself feel ugly or anything, it's just the truth. sometimes i can get over it, sometimes i can't. i want to say more but i have to go cause my mom is yelling at me and my foot is numb. anyhow, i'd just like you to know that your shining personality will prevail in the end. besides, i like your bag better.

awww i cant help but laugh. i know what you mean about having people around who are just more developed. i mean...my little sister is more endowed than i am! and goodness, the girl has model potential. i always brag about my little sister being pretty, but i always wish that i can be her instead.. except for the attitude that is..(she's a bit of a bitch...)

i do wish that people would stop acting as if only beautiful models should exist. i never thought media would affect the way i want to be. but it is starting to now. grr..

btw, thanks =)

[dustbunny]

no problem really, i feel like this all the time and i have issues with finding someone to rant to. it often gets mistaken for a way to get compliments, which is really annoying because when i complain about myself it means things are bothering me. I'm not trying to fish for COMPLIMENTS; it's really just that i KNOW i have issues with myself, and i need to talk it out. the media plays a large role in this i must say but at the same time, we can still prove to everyone out there with our personalities that that is what truly counts.


/edit 101 POST YAY! okay i know a pretty pathetic number..

/edit again. oh yeah and about your sister hhaa i didn't want to jump to conclusions and say she was probably a bitch but..i guess..well yeah! i hope she won't come and kill me if she reads this!

[luxuriate]

To be honest all of them are fat. And kind of funny looking so theres nothing you need to worry about dear. You all are equal!

[lorrytruck;]

^ oh, wow.

to be honest i think you look better than your sisters.

[EmoEyelinerx]

I agree with everyone except luxuriate.

[xburnoutx00]

To be honest all of them are fat. And kind of funny looking so theres nothing you need to worry about dear. You all are equal!

lmao. The way you said that was funny.

But I don't think it's true.

I am the middle child, too ... so I kind of understand where you're coming from but you're all gorgeous so I don't think you have anything to worry about.

[davlatboy]

I bet you've never seen like these before:
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[SilentD]

no problem really, i feel like this all the time and i have issues with finding someone to rant to. it often gets mistaken for a way to get compliments, which is really annoying because when i complain about myself it means things are bothering me. I'm not trying to fish for COMPLIMENTS; it's really just that i KNOW i have issues with myself, and i need to talk it out. the media plays a large role in this i must say but at the same time, we can still prove to everyone out there with our personalities that that is what truly counts.


/edit 101 POST YAY! okay i know a pretty pathetic number..

/edit again. oh yeah and about your sister hhaa i didn't want to jump to conclusions and say she was probably a bitch but..i guess..well yeah! i hope she won't come and kill me if she reads this!

yeah..i dont want people to think im fishing for compliments, but i think they know that im telling the truth.

oh man..i forgot that she has an account here. well i dont know if she actually has an account...i just know she goes on here for myspace help. i doubt she'll ever look through the forums though. she's not the type. so dont worry..lol.

To be honest all of them are fat. And kind of funny looking so theres nothing you need to worry about dear. You all are equal!

yeah..umm.. that makes me feel a lot better.
so how do you look like?? *rolls eyes*

^ oh, wow.

to be honest i think you look better than your sisters.

thanks. my boyfriend says that too. lol. but duh? <--- not the kind of eyeroll i gave luxuriate.

lmao. The way you said that was funny.

But I don't think it's true.

I am the middle child, too ... so I kind of understand where you're coming from but you're all gorgeous so I don't think you have anything to worry about.

i guess you just quoted luxuriate in a better way? lol. i dont know..thanks for not agreeing with him/her.

I bet you've never seen like these before:
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go to hell. it's a good vacation spot.

[vietbabiiix3]

i think we all feel that way sometimes whether it's towards our friends or someone in our family. it's really hard, but i think that you and your sisters are very beautiful and each one of you has a unique quality that makes you outstanding from each other. =)

[*steve330*]

Not to down you more, but instead of complaining about it on a forum, you can go out and run *shrug*
I mean it might suck at first, but from the pictures it doesn't look like you're genetically screwed. I once was, well, big. I weighed oh 220 lbs, and lost 40 lbs over a summer and since then I've been good about what I eat etc (for the most part). So just diet/run. Go to a dermatologist and get something for your acne, and bam that's gone so long as you wash on a regular basis. I used to have horrible acne too btw, almost bad enough to get acutane.

Sorry I didn't come with things to try to sugarcoat things, but I figured constructive criticism would do you better.

[*MyMichelle*]

I know how you feel. I'm the oldest, but I'm the shorter, pudgier, small-eyed sister. I mean, guys have liked me, but a lot of my guy friends and people I don't know drool over my sister. :T

I just try to be grateful for what I am. There's really not much more you can do other than try to not let your jealousy (for the lack of a better term) get the best of you.

[*steve330*]

^I'm listening :)

[YaGurlSukedMe2SL...]

Stop comparing yourself to other people. It will never do you any good. Need me to elaborate?

Why are you knocking on people's replies? You certainly didn't make this topic for everyone to feel bad for you, and compliment you and tell you how pretty you are right? So don't expect it. Let people say what they want--you asked for help. As long as they are being respectful about it, you need to do the same.

I don't think you have that much of a problem with your self-image honestly. I mean your pictures are in your avatar..and in your signature. You seem pretty comfortable with yourself.

[cherry90]

male perspective!!!! expect it 2 b very confusing and altho sum bits ma seem a bit hiurtful please dnt take them that way i dnt intend it!!!!




ok well first of all y compare ya self at all!! all it does is cause depression!! snap outa it!!

acne easliy sorted go docters if u majourly worried!! as for weight runnin and sit ups r very good for sorting that remedy!!

if u have a majour problem wid how u look do sumthing about it !!thats the best advice any one can give!!

we all are a product of genes and environment!! genes u cnt do jack bout!!
environment u can! sort wat ya eat!! sort wat exercise u do!! simple!!

as for boys dw bout it! 2 b honest ur not alone in the fact of havin nicer sisters and boys slobbering over them!! im sure most boys can say theyve been out wid a girl who has a hot sister!!! dw bout it!! if its looks they go for ur better off wid out them!! u need a guy who goes for the whole package rather than just ya tits!!! simple

hope this helps!

[SilentD]

brownsugar is right. i seem pretty comfortable with myself. i usually am. that's why im ok with putting up pictures where i feel i look good in. i guess the night i posted this, i was really upset with myself...with how i took care of my body. then my sister said something that made me feel so ugly so yeah.. this thread was the result of it. i feel kinda bad about it now. but i guess there will always be days when i feel really ugly.

sorry. i wasn't trying to be mean to any of you. my bad. we are all entitled to our opinions right? thanks for all the replies!

forgive me?

[fathomlessdame]

we forgive you! :)

we all sometimes have bad nights

[SilentD]

we forgive you! :)

we all sometimes have bad nights

thank you very many.
i hate bad nights. lets party