Advice Please Options

[breakitdown247]

For all of you out there that look at these things, maybe you can give me some help.


The person I like is my one of my best friends. I just think that if I asked her out or if she knew I liked her things just wouldn't be able to feel the same as they are now.

Advice please?

-Hunter™

[popoberry]

i don't think you should go for it. i mean no offense, people who were best friends from the start are gonna feel awkward in the middle of the relationship.. but yea go with your instincts man :)

[sweetest-emotion]

alrighty, well heres my thing:
i'm basically in love with my best friend. i've liked him for 2 years and we've been the best of friends the whole time. i told him i liked him during x-mas break, and i found out that he liked me too, just the timing wasn't right. since then, we've actually been better than before! we talked more, flirted a lil, and we got to be even closer. well we kissed about 2 weeks ago, and we've hung out since then and hey nothing's been wierd! so here's my advice:
if you and this girl are really close, i think it can work. just let her know how you feel. you never know right! plus you don't want to ever think "what if?". and if she's the best friend you say she is, she shouldn't feel wierd around you. if she does and it gets awkward, just talk to her! trust me, it's better that you get this off your chest. and hey who knows, she may have the same feelings for you, she might just have had the same worries as you did! just assure her that you don't want to ruin the friendship, you just wanted to tell her because it had been killing you. she will understand. just go for it!

[luxuriate]

Been there done that, she doesn't like you fosure because you're already like a friend
Tell her to f**k herself, go die and burn in hell right, then become an a-hole and find some real b-i-t-c-h-e-s

[lilJdawg]

That's a risk that you're willing to take. She probably secretly likes you but is waiting for you to make a move on her. If she's your "best friend", she would understand and she would probably just accept it. I mean a best friend wouldn't act wierd over that little situation right?

As for me, I too, have fallen for my best friend. Well, he liked me a really long time but he never brought it up cuz he thought that it would ruin things & I might not feel the same way as he felt about me but once we got that out of our systems, I didn't even know that I had these feelings for him until he had confessed his love for me. We've known each other for 2 years now and everything's perfect. Nothing has changed.

So, this is all up to you.

[Kimbo137]

I would say flirt a little and feel it out first. Try and hang out just the two of you and see how it feels. If she feels awkward THEN, leave it alone. If she flirts back with you when you're hanging out, I would go for it. But there's always the possibility your best friend is a tease. If she is, I wouldn't waste my time in the first place, but I guess that's something you know in the first place, being her friend and all...

[EmoEyelinerx]

I would say flirt a little and feel it out first. Try and hang out just the two of you and see how it feels. If she feels awkward THEN, leave it alone. If she flirts back with you when you're hanging out, I would go for it. But there's always the possibility your best friend is a tease. If she is, I wouldn't waste my time in the first place, but I guess that's something you know in the first place, being her friend and all...

Agreed.