Help, please?, My mom's kinda homophobic but.... Options

[RyanWasHere]

I dunno really, I'm in a bad mood.

[Chicago]

i say you tell her.. she should like you for who you are,
not for you's in your bed with you. im sure she'll understand

[*MyMichelle*]

LMAO even SeonHo called you (RyanWasHere) out! hahahahahah

[RyanWasHere]

LMAO even SeonHo called you (RyanWasHere) out! hahahahahah

Once again please calm yourself down little hyper Asian.

[*davinci*]

Hahaha. Damn. Ryan, you need to chill.

To the original poster, just let your mother know. It may take a while to build up the courage but the longer you put it off, the more unsure you become about wanting to tell her. You won't know her true reaction until you tell her. She may even be supportive of you. Good luck.

[cupcakex]

MyMichelle, he doesn't even deserve the title of forum troll. Something much lower in the forum monarchy. Can't think of anything bad enough, currently.

Ryanwashere, you're doing whatever you can to get people to notice you, and you think you're funny. Well, it's obvious you're not funny, but unfortunately you're getting the attention you're so desperate for. Personally, I think you're just making youself look like a huge tool. And, I wish more people could ignore you. =\

[XRosesXAreXBlack...]

**Trying to pretend that the current argument isn't actually going on.**

@Chicago: Hahaha! :D Thanks.

@davinci: My mom, supportive?Eh, I guess it could happen...Thankies. ^__^

[*Mercy*]

Hmmm my opinion is a little different from the others.I am bisexual,And my mum is a f**king homophobic/nazi catholic.I have yet to come out to her.

Homophobics are very very hard to try and get their opinions to change.Reason being that they literaly have a "Phobia" or strong hatred/dislike for homosexuals.Even if you did try and explain..they still will no longer see you as the same daughter they will see you as "one of them".Its a sad truth.

This is my main reason why i have yet to come out.But then again i have never had a good relationship with my mum.
So thats jsut my advice about it.If you have never really had a great relationship with your mum in the first place,or if shes really really overprotective.Its best not to come out jsut yet.

But you can always try if you feel ready too and dont care what the hell she thinks.

[EmoEyelinerx]

Obviously you think there is something wrong with being bisexual because if you thought it was ok you would have told her, stop being a hypocrite and tell her or stop making out with girls.

I agree with the first part, I mean you would have told her if you wernt worried about being bi.

If your completly sure your bi tell her. If she doesent want to accept it she doesent have to but thats the way you feel.

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[*kimjaydot*]

Your her daughter she should love you no matter what. And at least your bi.. I dunno

[XRosesXAreXBlack...]

@Mercy: I definately know what you mean in that second paragraph.No matter how I explain it to her, I know she's going to look at me differently from the moment I tell her. :/

@XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX: It's not that I'm ashamed of being bisexual.I'm completely happy with who I am.I'm just afraid of what she'll do, she is my mother after all.

@tilanguyenar: ??

@kimjaydot: Ha, thanks. :]

I think I'm going to tell her.Not now, but sometime soon.Once again, I really appreciate the help. =]

[*steve330*]

Once again please calm yourself down little hyper Asian.

Once again you make yourself look like a presumptuous ass wipe. Calling her a little hyper Asian is a condescending way of addressing her, and not even knowing her you make yourself look quite high on the ignorance scale.

While some people are classified as homophobic, a lot of them are just slapped that term because of the views they take towards gays/bisexuals based on society's norms. A lot of them can have their mind opened up to the idea or even acceptance of the people if just talked to.

[*JoanOfArc*]

I think you just need to sit her down and talk to her. She's your mother. She might not be happy with it, but she can't disown you. Besides, who knows. She might not take it the way you say she will.

[*steve330*]

Actually she can disown her. Adoption is always an option.

[AimeeLynn]

Once again please calm yourself down little hyper Asian.

ROFL.

Just don't tell her until you are really ready. Plus I guess she will be really confused because you are bi and not just lesbian. [if you know what I mean].Since I know my parents are homophobic too and would be so mad. She'll make you want to go straight. I'm straight so I never went through this. In my religion is against that but honesty I don't mind it.

When you are ready just sit down and talk to her about it. She would probably disown you. no offense but they can't change the way you are.

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[XRosesXAreXBlack...]

I don't think she would go as far as disowning me, we've got a decent relationship...idk I guess I'll find out what happens when I tell her.

[xburnoutx00]

lolzzz @ this thread.

[AimeeLynn]

I don't think she would go as far as disowning me, we've got a decent relationship...idk I guess I'll find out what happens when I tell her.

Yeah, if you have a good relationship with her I'm sure she will have your back. Unlike my mom, She would never understand if I was.

[RyanWasHere]

Once again you make yourself look like a presumptuous ass wipe. Calling her a little hyper Asian is a condescending way of addressing her, and not even knowing her you make yourself look quite high on the ignorance scale.

While some people are classified as homophobic, a lot of them are just slapped that term because of the views they take towards gays/bisexuals based on society's norms. A lot of them can have their mind opened up to the idea or even acceptance of the people if just talked to.

Please take this time to stop overanalysing everything I post, yes it does make you seem like a douche who has never and will never get pussy, I fully agree that I am an a-hole, but that in no way stops me from getting laid, unlike your know it all "let me tell you a thing or two" attitude, so get over yourself, please.

[Dreamers]

Wow.. That Ryan guy is... well.... full of himself....

To original poster: I agree with everyone else, just give it time. It'll be hard, you'll get nervous, but in the end, telling her is better than keeping secrets. ^_^
G'luck. ^_^

[pedophile]

@lol lollipops: I'm not so sure about never telling her, because I don't really want to keep it a secret forver...((I'm sorry if I'm not making any sense right now.>__<))

I didn't mean never tell her, I just meant that maybe it'd be better that you'd tell her some other time or something.

She might not be happy with it, but she can't disown you.

Yes she can.

Please take this time to stop overanalysing everything I post, yes it does make you seem like a douche who has never and will never get pussy, I fully agree that I am an a-hole, but that in no way stops me from getting laid, unlike your know it all "let me tell you a thing or two" attitude, so get over yourself, please.

WOW, a guy like you can get laid?! So I'm not hopeless after all!!!!!
BTW, YOU NEED TO GET OVER YOURSELF, NOT VICE VERSA, KTHXBAI

[RyanWasHere]

Wow.. That Ryan guy is... well.... full of himself....

Confidence.

WOW, a guy like you can get laid?! So I'm not hopeless after all!!!!!
BTW, YOU NEED TO GET OVER YOURSELF, NOT VICE VERSA, KTHXBAI

If you got half the pussy I pull you would understand.
& yes I absolutely love myself, and my life.

[pedophile]

Confidence.
If you got half the pussy I pull you would understand.

Sorry, I don't dig vaginas

[RyanWasHere]

Sorry, I don't dig vaginas

Your missing out.