saving sex for marriage.., what do you think? |
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 Sep 8 2004, 09:20 AM
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lols..wow chu guys have some interesting opinions...anywho...i think it really depends....cuz like..if i happen to fall in love at this age,which i dont plan to, but things happen
 , maybe...just maybe.....i might not wait tyll marriage.....but im catholic and its gonna take alot to do that and me not feel guilty so i best be in love with that do0de  ....but other then that....i really plan on waiting tyll im married guys..  x33 QuyEnNiEe // babehh x q |
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Sep 8 2004, 09:42 AM
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 because i'm worth it Group: Member Posts: 990 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,643 |
as long as it is good, it`s good ;]
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Sep 8 2004, 10:54 AM
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 The Illustrious Mari C. Group: Member Posts: 586 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,671 |
sex isn't an important factor for me right now, but at this point, whatever happens, happens, but I've never planned to remain a virgin until marriage, so I'm gonna be a virgin until whatever happens....
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Oct 3 2004, 09:41 PM
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i would have sex b4 marriag eb/c i don't want ot get pregnet at a young age and have my parents kick me ou to fthe house and also you bf will leave u
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Oct 3 2004, 10:42 PM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
QUOTE(LiNHy POO @ Aug 11 2004, 10:51 AM) im going to save myself... i was brought up to believe that you should be pure... and that's the best gift you could ever give your hubby. i agree 
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Oct 4 2004, 12:42 AM
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I am going to try to save it for marriage. Let's see if I can stay virgin throughout college.
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Oct 4 2004, 12:54 AM
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 oNe tReE hiLL Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,188 |
im gonna save it for marriage. because, it would just seem so much better doin it the first time with the person you love, and will spend your life with, because in high school, there are one night flings and stuff and you wont kno if your love for each other is real and stuff and ppl would just end up gettin hurt
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Oct 15 2004, 06:43 PM
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 ParisTexas Group: Member Posts: 12 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,861 |
I am waiting until I get married. Definately. It's the right thing to do, and plus who wants to be with a girl that's been with another guy? That just seems....eeeh. not my thing. I want to give everything I have to my husband on our wedding night.
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Oct 15 2004, 07:08 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
QUOTE(slurp @ Aug 27 2004, 11:25 AM) i think virginity is probably the most precious thing and i thought about saving it till marriage but if the right person comes itd be tempting eh? its a reproductive organ, not a f*cking flower |
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Oct 15 2004, 08:18 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,102 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,162 |
i'm planning on saving it, but if the right time comes before, who knows?
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Oct 22 2004, 02:34 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 734 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,507 |
QUOTE I'll save it. Its the right thing to do. Same.. |
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Oct 22 2004, 06:34 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
I would save myself till after marriage. I'd wait for the right guy and then I'll do it.
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Oct 24 2004, 04:33 PM
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most girls would change their mind when they reach to hs. yeah, many say they'll wait to marriage, but when you;re in the moment getting so close with your bf, i dont think most girls could control doing it. mayb they could for a while, but sooner or later i think you'll jus normally lose it.
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Oct 25 2004, 04:14 AM
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im saving myself for marraige.....sure those sexual feelings would be nice now im nineteen.....i think for he most part im proud of sayin im nineteen and a virgin because most girls put out...wayy too soon.....its more of controlling yourself...ive seen a lot of heartache.....because taht guy they.......had sex with leaves....
its not about that piece of paper that makes the sex .....its that.......one guy you marry.is the only one hats gonna..........get freaky with you....and only he would know your delicate spots....versus a crap load of other guys knowwin your P**sy spots......its more respect to myself than anything else.....i know a guy cant get that from me...because im worth more than...some few moments..ofpleasure... plus its a real emotional involving........thing..........peole that have ssex once before marriage have the tendency to have sex..again and again........with different people..to where it ends up meaning...not something important..some people get luck and stay with there girl or guy......i guess youcould say those are blessed.....because at way things are with guys and girls now..people just want an easy.....''get laid'' |
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Oct 25 2004, 01:31 PM
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hi,i'm HUONG.=] Group: Member Posts: 237 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,739 |
i'm saving it for marriage..
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Oct 25 2004, 06:36 PM
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 *dazzle Group: Member Posts: 357 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,071 |
I'm saving myself for marriage. I made a vow to God about it. I know I can keep it. Besides, in my religion - Catholic - it says you have to be a virgin at the altar. But not a lot of people believe in it. It's up to the person.
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Oct 25 2004, 06:44 PM
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QUOTE(tallaznkate @ Aug 11 2004, 4:48 PM) i'LL SAVE FOR MARRiAGE. i THiNK iT'S MORE MEANiNGFUL THAT WAY AND i'M SURE MY HUSBAND WiLL APPRECiATE iT. But I don't think he'll appreciate you typing in all caps. |
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Oct 25 2004, 06:56 PM
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 mmm hmmm Group: Member Posts: 1,591 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,325 |
QUOTE(mz anita xP @ Oct 24 2004, 4:33 PM) most girls would change their mind when they reach to hs. yeah, many say they'll wait to marriage, but when you;re in the moment getting so close with your bf, i dont think most girls could control doing it. mayb they could for a while, but sooner or later i think you'll jus normally lose it. haha yea.. exactly. And if not during your high school years. Then maybe in college. But kudos to those who can wait! 
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Oct 26 2004, 04:02 PM
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waiting. yea..i think it's more meaningful..like a special gift for that person ur gona be with for the rest of ur life...i hope i dont get divorced..id be pissed hahah
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Oct 26 2004, 04:40 PM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ Oct 25 2004, 4:44 PM) But I don't think he'll appreciate you typing in all caps. haha good point. but yeah i'm not sure about saving it for marriage, but i agree on saving it until you're sure you're ready, as well as your partner and make sure that you're ready for the consequences and are safe about it. and don't do it just for the sake of doing it, but out of love for one another. before or after marriage. |
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Jun 9 2007, 09:33 AM
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I've always been raised that waiting for marriage is the right thing to do. I would listen to my older friends talk about loosing their virginity to some guy, and think how they could do that. Keep in mind that was when I was 12 and hadn't had a boyfriend.
Now that I'm 16, and in a serious relationship, I find it harder to hold on. I must admit, I put myself in predicaments where it's hard not to loose it. There have been opportunites to have sex, but we haven't taken that step. I still really do want to wait for marriage, for fear of things that could happen if I don't, but I realize it might not be possilbe. My will power isn't strong enough,and I find myself in moment where I want to give it to my boyfriend. So yea, I want to wait for marriage, but no, I don't think I will. |
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Jun 9 2007, 10:20 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 530,918 |
Nah marriage isnt like it used to be....its not as important as long as ur ready and u love the person then its perfectly ok!
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Jun 9 2007, 11:05 AM
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Oh, no don't click these, don't, please!!!:
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Jun 9 2007, 12:25 PM
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 just another girl Group: Member Posts: 490 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,136 |
mm well i will most likely wait til i'm married or until i am out of school and have a decent job
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Jun 9 2007, 12:29 PM
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 long time no CB. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,889 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 493,502 |
I'm saving it.
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