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What the hell is he thinking?
runforfun529
post Jun 6 2007, 08:49 PM
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So, I've been having problems lately with my boyfriend. The basics: He's 18 and I'm 17. We've been dating for nearly 7 months. We haven't had sex but done basically everything leading up to it. He's going off to college next year about 2 hours away from me.

Our relationship followed the path of rocky in the beginning then smooth sailing, but it it beginning to get rocky again. We haven't broken up but it seems as though he wants to do so. He doesn't have any problem with me, and says he is happy with me- I'm perfect, that kind of thing. But, I'm only his 2nd relationship and he's not sure if I'm right for him without any other experience. His first relationship shouldn't even be called such because she only dated him because she wanted attention (this is what she admitted).

Anyway, he says that if he would have dated a few more people before me, he would be much happier because he would know what it were like. But he's not sure if MAYBE there is someone better out there for him (even though he continues to say that he can't think of any other trait I could possess).

I kind of see where he is coming from, but at the same time I don't. I understand that MAYBE there is someone better out there, but maybe not. If he's happy with me, he should continue to date me, even if there's a chance he would be better off with someone else. If he happens to find this person, he can break it off with me, and go for them.

Any advice you have for me, or him for that matter, would be greatly appreciated.
 

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