Confused Options

[eiltranna]

Sorry for the long post! I'm extremely confused about lots of things. I broke up with my boyfriend of two months at the beginning of May. He was my first boyfriend and I'd been thinking whether or not it was the right thing to break up with him. Then there's this other boy.

On Wednesday, this other boy (we'll call him Bob) asked if I'd like to go to Friendly's before school on Friday since school didn't start until about 11:30 that day. I told him I'd probably be sleeping and asked who all would be there. Just him and me. I said no thanks because I'd obviously be sleeping as much as I could. ((A bit of a background note, I've known Bob since 7th grade (now in 10th grade) and had a crush on him off and on, but only suppressed it since I was sure he would've asked me out by now.))

Saturday comes and he calls around 5:30ish asking if I'd like to go to the movies later to see Pirates 3. I'd seen it the night before, but figured what the heck. We go in and eventually end up going to another theater since that one was sold out. On the way to the other theater he asked what time I had to be home and said he wanted to bring me someplace after the movie. He also asked whether or not I had a boyfriend (obvious clue there). We end up seeing Shrek 3 instead of PIrates 3.

During the movie, he asked to hold my hand. After the movie, we get back into his car and he takes me near this really expensive housing development area (except back in the woods, haha). We walk about ten minutes and get to this area where he set out a blanket, candles, and drinks. He even gives me a flower (which I accidentally ended up demolishing >.<). Apparently, his plan was to let us look up at the stars, but the canopy was blocking the view a bit. So instead, we just talked about random things. The time came for me to leave, since I had to pick up my sister.

It was all really cute, thoughtful, and romantic. But where does this leave us? I'm assuming he wants me to be his girlfriend since he went out of his way to do this. We haven't talked since Saturday since I forgot to give him my cell number, but I plan on calling him today or something.

Should I call him, or wait until tomorrow when we go back to school and talk to him about it?

[pinayprincess]

THAT IS SO CUTE... well if you broke up with your boyfriend, try to make a new one with this kid; if u really liked your ex, then patch things out [but realize you have to give him the real excuse why you broke it off]

[tokyo-rose]

I think you should definitely talk about this on the phone. If this is going to turn into a relationship, this conversation shouldn't be in a public place like school. Maybe you could meet up for a while after school to talk in person. Whatever happens, good luck! He sounds great.

[sweetest-emotion]

CALL HIM!!!
this guy went TOTALLY out of his way for you and he's probably dying for you to call! i wouldn't be surprised if he's waiting by the phone now...lol. geez i wish a guy would do that for me! but hey you guys are young so don't take everything too seriously. it sounds like you really like him, and it looks like he finally got the courage to ask you out. it's your turn to make the move now! he did the asking out, now you need to start the talk about a relationship! it looks like this could be good, so hey go for it!
i wouldn't wait until school, this kind of stuff is private and so i would call him tonight. goooood luck!

[NgocQuyen]

awwh that's so cute! lol i think you should call him and tell him that you had a good time with him and what not. lol just talk to him. he sounds like an open guy and he's willing to express himself to you, so just give him a chance.
what's all this about an ex-boyfriend? it's your decision on who you like and want to be with more. :)

[*steve330*]

Just be like
"MEET ME AFTER SCHOOL! FLAGPOLE! Or @ the coffee shop, I'd like to hang out with ya :)"

[hotsoup]

This situation really depends on a few things, such as:

1. Are you really over your ex? If not, then you need to figure that out first.

2. Are you ready to date again? If this guy is as nice as you say he his, you don't want to turn him into a rebound guy. That could really mess things up.

3. Always be thoughtful of what you're doing and how you are feeling.

[panther]

thats not that cute, he wants ur pussy. lock it up!

[SarahxJoy]

Well, where do you see yourself happy the most?

With this new kid, who sounds really sweet and sincere, with everything he went through to set up a possible him-asking-you-out (though it's obvious that he will). Or taking a few days/weeks to wonder if breaking up with your ex was the right thing to do.

Since your ex was your first boyfriend, then I guess re-visit to what you were thinking when you broke up with him, and why it is you did it in the first place.

If you do decide to take a chance with "Bob", then yeah, callll him! Being on the phone and talking with him has a lesser chance of interruptions, and it gives you a kind of privacy that being in an open, public place like school wouldn't be able to provide. :)

Good luck, and hope everything goes well!

[LennonLime]

this guy sounds pretty great, I'm not gonna lie.

It also sounds like he's taking the plundge,doing these romantic things and hoping you'll like him the way he likes you.

but yeah, take a chance with bob! CALL HIM!

[EmoEyelinerx]

Thats sooo CUTE I wish someone would do that for me >.< If you still have feeling for your ex you should try to patch things up. I think you should give the other guy a chance because he seems like he would treat you right and seems to really like you. Call him. If you dont it would kinda be like leading him on I guess..?

[concreteangel]

I think that this new kid sounds awesome. You should try giving him a try. And if you dont like how things go at the beginning you can always try patching things up with your ex.

[eiltranna]

We played a game of phone tag. >.< I called while he was at work and he called when I was asleep (I got to sleep really early for a kid my age >.<). However, I finally got to texting him and met up with him in the halls. So we are together in a relationship it seems. =] Since I don't have a job, he suggested I apply to the place he works so we could see each other more and whatnot.

Just thought I'd let everyone know what happened.