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 May 28 2007, 03:17 PM
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My boyfriend went away for a little while about a week ago. I can't see or talk to him for at least two weeks. This morning I woke up and I was freaking out because I thought he had called and I missed it. I know he isn't going to call but I feel like I should be expecting a call. Does anyone have any suggestions for me to stop feeling like I'm going crazy?
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May 28 2007, 03:18 PM
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Oh, try not to reply with 'break up with him' or 'forget about him'. Thanxx
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May 28 2007, 03:45 PM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
Maybe you should calll him?
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May 28 2007, 03:54 PM
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I can't. He doesn't have a phone where he's at. :[
By the way, sorry for double posting at first, I couldn't find the edit button. X[ |
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May 28 2007, 03:54 PM
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 RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
I think your making a big deal over nothing.
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May 28 2007, 03:58 PM
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Well, I can't see or talk to my boyfriend for probably a year ... and I keep thinking he's calling when he's not, I am just asking if anyone has any suggestions on how to get my mind off of it.
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May 28 2007, 04:00 PM
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A year? That's harsh. Just keep a phone w/ you @ all times then. When's he getting back? Just wait shit out? Does he have an email you can contact him with?
I know the feeling, every time my girlfriend leaves the country I can't talk to her for weeks and it always sucks. |
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May 28 2007, 04:01 PM
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RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
QUOTE(xburnoutx00 @ May 28 2007, 03:58 PM)  Well, I can't see or talk to my boyfriend for probably a year ... and I keep thinking he's calling when he's not, I am just asking if anyone has any suggestions on how to get my mind off of it. Find someone to hook up with while he's gone, crude, but affective. |
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May 28 2007, 04:02 PM
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 Tasty. Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
damn thats hard...
well does he have any access to a comp or something? why doesn't he have a phone? if there's no way of comunicating i would just chill out and take some time off to yourself. you're not going crazy, it's normal to feel helpless in this situation. but hey if there' no way of communicating (except if he calls) then you're just gonna have to stick it out. hey absence makes the heart grow fonder right? |
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May 28 2007, 04:09 PM
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Well, he's in this program [I don't know if anyone has heard of it], it's called Teen Challenge .... it's a rehab center and blah, well he can leave anytime he'd like, but I don't think that will happen because of his parents. He doesn't have access to a computer or a phone. I suppose he could write letters, but he doesn't like to. They won't let him have any contact with friends or family for two weeks because they're afraid he will want to come home. I do keep my phone on me all the time, I am just afraid that he will call me during school and I won't be able to answer.
I'm also afraid that when he comes back, he won't love me anymore. Is all of this normal? |
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May 28 2007, 04:12 PM
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RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
I guess it's normal if you get overly paranoid and don't trust your partner...I went to rehab and it only made me love my girlfriend more...those places are hell.
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May 28 2007, 04:18 PM
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2 weeks? Wait it out. If you still don't hear anything, write him a letter. If he really cares for you he'll write back. It's a tough situation, but you gotta stick through it.
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May 28 2007, 06:41 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
you should find a hobby. haha play Counter-Strike! ooh ooh! you should do a DIY something and surprise him with it when he comes back! like something that will take you a while, but not a LONG LONG time. like a welcome back present! :)
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May 28 2007, 07:04 PM
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idk but it sounds to me you cant trust him? or you just really miss him [well duh]; just hang out with your friends and keep your mind occupied in the mean-time....
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May 28 2007, 07:32 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
You can't trust him. He's going to cheat on you. Break it up.
PS I don't really like you... |
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May 28 2007, 07:33 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 310 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,834 |
Haha, I don't even know you. Whatthehell ?!
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May 28 2007, 07:45 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(steve330 @ May 28 2007, 05:18 PM) 2 weeks? Wait it out. If you still don't hear anything, write him a letter. If he really cares for you he'll write back. It's a tough situation, but you gotta stick through it. Yea^, I agree completely. Lol I feel the same way when im going out with someone. Like I think he called and I didnt know or something. I totally freak out. Sometimes I just try to pre-occupy myself and invite a frined over or go watch tv or something. ^Dont take it personally that girl or guy idk lol doesent seem to like anyone. |
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May 28 2007, 11:39 PM
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go out and do something to get your mind off of it.
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May 29 2007, 11:05 AM
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You should be worried. If I was there, I would be all over him. My skills are second to none. He would never be with a girl again!
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May 29 2007, 02:58 PM
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QUOTE(Le_Britt_Scot @ May 29 2007, 11:05 AM) You should be worried. If I was there, I would be all over him. My skills are second to none. He would never be with a girl again! uh huh ....  well some of you helped... thanxxx :] |
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