Your thoughts/experiences, about.. unwanted erections/boners Options

[Castaway]

Ok.. unwanted erections/boners really suck..
There was a topic on this a long time ago here:

http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...boners&st=0

I wanted to know what you girls think about this.
If you don't mind, mention your age please. i'm more curious about what girls under 20 think about it. but if you're over 20, go ahead and post :)

-Do girls usually notice?

-Whats going on in your mind when a guy is kissing/hugging you and you feel it?

-How do you react to it while you're kissing/hugging/etc?

If this becomes a problem, should a guy talk about it to his gf?

Guys:what are your experiences?


[edit] i wasn't sure if this was the right place to post this.

[NgocQuyen]

mm i'm 16 about to be 17. my guy gets them when we kiss and stuff, but you know...uh..yeah...
before my boyfriend like the guy that STOLE my first kiss has like a hardcore boner when we kissed and i was like..uh.. >< lol:)

[Castaway]

comon people, don't be shy lol. it is a uncomfortable topic to talk about though so i understand.

[transcendentalis...]

I'm 16.
I don't know if I usually notice, because my guy friends don't really let me know how often it happens... haha. But I've noticed a couple times :X

If I'm letting a guy kiss me or hug me, it means I definitely like him a lot... and if he gets a boner, so what? It doesn't make a difference in who he's in, does it? I don't kiss easy and I don't hug easy. If I do, it means I handpicked you out of every guy I've ever seen, known, or heard of... so my opinion's not going to change of that person because of something he can't completely control. Nothing all that different really goes through my mind.

I don't react to it. I just keep doing whatever the hell I'm doing or I do whatever the hell I want until I get uncomfortable, or until he gets uncomfortable. And if I feel like being a tease, may God help you. I've only done something that silly once or twice.

It's not really that touchy of a subject...

[LittleLulu]

since i wouldn't be phsyically intimate with anyone who wasn't my boyfriend at the time, and knowing that some things just occur naturally, i really dont see the problem. Reaction? carry on with whatever we were doing.

i'm 16 almost 17.

oh and yes, we do notice. :)

[lalalalala12345]

i usually notice if a guy has a boner...if ist my bf it will start to kinda turn me on but ill just continue on what im doing too.

[ashleybby]

hahaa
i can always tell when my bf gets a boner
i think its funny.
and i continue what i was doing, but sometimes i...help him out with it? lol

[RyanWasHere]

I don't know about you guys, but I can control my hard-on's...

[xhidethedetails]

-Do girls usually notice?
Most of the time I do notice..

-Whats going on in your mind when a guy is kissing/hugging you and you feel it?
Well If I'm letting a guy kiss me and be intimate with me then I somewhat or do have feelings for them so It would sorta turn me on. =]

-How do you react to it while you're kissing/hugging/etc?
Depending on my mood, let my hand slide down there.

[Espi]

Just a coomon boner

[pinayprincess]

I don't know about you guys, but I can control my hard-on's...

LMAO; i never heard of a guy who could do that ha

[trulyandnever]

16.

Do girls usually notice? I never did. But I can be naive, so dot.

Whats going on in your mind when a guy is kissing/hugging you and you feel it? ... hot.

How do you react to it while you're kissing/hugging/etc? ... hot

If this becomes a problem, should a guy talk about it to his gf? Ahah, nah.. its okay.

I'd say, it isnt that much of a problem. Unless its permanently there or something.
In a way.. if the weasel decided to pop while your kissing/hugging, wouldnt it serve as more of a compliment?
Seeing as you "turn him on" so much... in my opinion anyway.
If nothing was happening and it was just "there"... lol xD
I'd probably tease the guy/BF horribly. All jokes aside though, its hot :)
Apparently its normal to have uhh.. "morning wood?" is it? When guys wake up anyway... I wouldnt know

[deplorable]

im 16...

do girls usually notice??? yeah.its sorta hard not to...
but i dont really react to it. although sometimes it can be a turn on...
and i dont understand the problem aspect. i know that is sorta taboo, but it really shouldnt be...

[EmoEyelinerx]

Do girls usually notice?Yes they do.

Whats going on in your mind when a guy is kissing/hugging you and you feel it?Uh I would just kinda laugh in my head but Its not really a big dead. Guys cant control them. Its not their falt.

How do you react to it while you're kissing/hugging/etc?Just act normal.

If this becomes a problem, should a guy talk about it to his gf?It wouldent hurt.

[Castaway]

oh cool. it seems like most of you don't really care or take it as a compliment/turn on.
i was just afraid that the girl in my situation might think differently. like oh this guy just "wants some" and that's all that is on his mind..

she could still think that but i'm glad to know other peoples opinion on the problem/situation.

thanks for your responses

[*steve330*]

Oh man its horrible when you're walking up to turn a test and you get a raging boner at that time. Then you sit in your seat for another 20 mins hoping it goes away. Then you try to fold it either down your leg or up so you can tuck it under your belt.
Then there are times when you are just walking through the hall and it happens, and you all of a sudden are checking something out in yourbackpack that is conveniently located in front of your crotch til you get to a seat you can sit down in.

[Castaway]

LOL i've experienced the going into the backpack to hide that area..

i've been able to control unwanted erections to a certain point. if it's out of nowhere, i can make it go away easily. if it's due to something like.. hugging or making out then it is like 100 times harder.

[JustAnotherTeena...]

15.

-Do girls usually notice? Yes, sometimes. Depends on what kind of pants they're wearing, how noticable it is

-Whats going on in your mind when a guy is kissing/hugging you and you feel it? I don't mind...usually turns me on. &I think it's funny when my bf gets a boner. :]

-How do you react to it while you're kissing/hugging/etc?
Either ignore or...help him out ;] Depends on my mood. Then sometimes I'll just tease him

If this becomes a problem, should a guy talk about it to his gf? Why would it be a problem?

[fathomlessdame]

i'm 16...

-Do girls usually notice? idk about you but i dont go looking at guy's dicks...i dont pay attention

-Whats going on in your mind when a guy is kissing/hugging you and you feel it? lol, i get horny.

-How do you react to it while you're kissing/hugging/etc? i smile and keep on doing what i'm doing

If this becomes a problem, should a guy talk about it to his gf? uh why not?

[fathomlessdame]

i'm 16...

-Do girls usually notice? idk about you but i dont go looking at guy's dicks...i dont pay attention

-Whats going on in your mind when a guy is kissing/hugging you and you feel it? lol, i get horny.

-How do you react to it while you're kissing/hugging/etc? i smile and keep on doing what i'm doing

If this becomes a problem, should a guy talk about it to his gf? uh why not?

edit:srry for the double post... internet sucks

[x3yeahbaby]

its nothing a guy can do about it.
when im kissing a quy and i feel it. its nothing he can do its not my fault i turn him on =]

[*ersatz*]

My boyfriend gets one like every time we kiss and I always notice and I always laugh. But that makes him more comfortable with it every time if I just laugh about it, so it's OK.

If someone gets a boner with you, it's a compliment.

[Cujiine]

Well my friend's experience was funnier. She was at the park with her boyfriend and she sitting in his lap making out and he got a boner but didn't want to say anything and she felt it but just thought it was his cell phone and so now whenever we're around him we'll always start laughing when he pulls out his cell phone I was with my first bf and I was at a birthday/graduation party that he threw and me and him were playing foosball and my friend and her boyfriend (mentioned above) were playing too and it was girls against guys and I accidentally nail my friend in the whoops and yeah then when my friend tried to do it to my boyfriend, she stopped and started laughing all hard cause he'd been staring at my chest and had a boner.