Getting over a 2 Year Relationship |
  |
| *kryogenix* |
 May 21 2007, 09:50 PM
Post
#26
|
|
Guest  |
They need to sticky something at the top with that advice. It'd eliminate the need for this forum.
|
|
|
|
|
May 21 2007, 09:57 PM
Post
#27
|
|
 Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 979 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 205,020 |
crawling back to the bitch makes you weak.
you wanna seem like a pussy to her? no. it'll just make her walk over you. |
|
|
|
|
May 23 2007, 03:14 PM
Post
#28
|
|
 hai, Im Philjay Group: Member Posts: 922 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 520,964 |
QUOTE(beaucoup @ May 21 2007, 10:57 PM)  crawling back to the bitch makes you weak. you wanna seem like a pussy to her? no. it'll just make her walk over you. i know that =.= i dont think i have the ability to... i dont even know.. =.= |
|
|
|
|
May 23 2007, 03:27 PM
Post
#29
|
|
|
Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 979 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 205,020 |
look, i had somewhat of a similar experienced. dated a guy for more than 3 years, he basically left me for another girl, and flaunted his new relationship whenever we talked. his reasoning was that i should just "get over it" and "face the truth."
i used to want to talk to my ex all the time. maybe it was for what they call "closure" (whatever that actually means) or habit, but i stopped. you think you don't have the ability the stay away from her, but you do. i stopped talking to my ex once i realized that IT MADE ME SAD. yeah, it took awhile for that epiphany but i eventually focused on ways to kill him. part kidding. ;) doesn't mean i'm over him yet (and it's been more than half a year) but i'm healthier. |
|
|
|
|
May 23 2007, 04:55 PM
Post
#30
|
|
|
hai, Im Philjay Group: Member Posts: 922 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 520,964 |
yeah like....... im healthier and all.
i know she makes me sad and i'm like trying to keep my self busy but... its just this like one thing i just cant keep her out of my mind.. |
|
|
|
|
May 23 2007, 07:48 PM
Post
#31
|
|
|
You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
QUOTE(br3aker4lyfe @ May 23 2007, 04:55 PM) yeah like....... im healthier and all. i know she makes me sad and i'm like trying to keep my self busy but... its just this like one thing i just cant keep her out of my mind.. Drink a little. It makes it feel better. |
|
|
|
| *MyMichelle* |
May 23 2007, 08:19 PM
Post
#32
|
|
Guest |
:O
I know which secret is yours. |
|
|
|
|
May 23 2007, 08:35 PM
Post
#33
|
|
|
hai, Im Philjay Group: Member Posts: 922 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 520,964 |
QUOTE(MyMichelle @ May 23 2007, 09:19 PM) :O I know which secret is yours. alot do. shush keep it to your self. |
|
|
|
| *MyMichelle* |
May 23 2007, 10:02 PM
Post
#34
|
|
Guest |
^ I didn't say it, and I don't plan to. :]
But, I mean... it basically says the same thing as this thread does. hahhaha I know it's hard to, but you will eventually. You just gotta remind yourself that it's a thing of the past, and you will never ever have it again. Optimistic, eh? |
|
|
|
|
May 23 2007, 10:25 PM
Post
#35
|
|
|
c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
you should find a hobby! lol. play counterstrike with me ALL DAY and ALL NIGHT! lol just a keeding. i don't play all day and all night...anymore.. :] lol. seriously. find a hobby. think of it as she's not feeling any pain not being with you anymore, so why should you feel pain? :) doesn't that make sense?
|
|
|
|
|
May 24 2007, 12:47 PM
Post
#36
|
|
 here, here, and here Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 |
You will eventually get over her
 . Point out all the things you don't like about her.Idk it worked for me. You will find someone new that will love you. Plus you have so many talents. You get one in no time  When you love someone And they break your heart Don't give up on love Have faith, restart Just hold on. I love that song =] |
|
|
|
|
May 24 2007, 06:41 PM
Post
#37
|
|
|
hai, Im Philjay Group: Member Posts: 922 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 520,964 |
lol mkay aimee~
|
|
|
|
| *steve330* |
May 24 2007, 06:52 PM
Post
#38
|
|
Guest |
Cut all romantic'ish music out from your playlists. Delete all links that could lead to her. Block her aim. Ignore her texts/calls. Before doing all this tell her she's a self idolizing piece of shit and she needs to focus more on something else and leave you alone. Following that comment, tell her everything you dislike about her (is she fat, big nose, ugly feet, stinky?) then tell her about the hot chick you met at the bar and how you think y'all could be going somewhere with y'alls relationship. But yeah after all that presume to block everything about her and go play a video game or something. Go running, physical exercise is a great stress reliever.
|
|
|
|
|
May 26 2007, 07:41 AM
Post
#39
|
|
|
hai, Im Philjay Group: Member Posts: 922 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 520,964 |
I feel like the BIGGEST Idiot. Okay so.. last night... I received a private call. Note that its around 1 AM-ish. So I pick up the phone and it ends up being my ex, the one I'm complety miserbale over. Anyways so, stupid me actually stays on the phone to listen to what she says.
At this point is when she started to just trample all over me with words. Saying how her bf was over her house..... how they kissed infront of her parents... how her parents like him more than me, apparently they said that to her after her bf left. blah blah what ever. So as she continues talking about this stuff it starts.. you know getting to me... I then tell her how I feel about how I HATE how she talks about her bf to me and I don't appreciate it. What does she do? She's asleep so she does nothing. I hang up and staying up till 5 AM just like.. thinking about all the crap she said on the phone that night. I regret answering that phone call... I was perfectly fine status before she called. And now I'm back to step 1 all over again. |
|
|
|
|
May 26 2007, 08:30 AM
Post
#40
|
|
 Member Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,965 |
you guys have not seen nothing yet my girlfriends parents want a restraining order on me and its bullshit they should stay out of her life ... they want it cause they dont like me and they dont want her to end up with me
but anyways I HATE THE GIRL for what she is doing to me but i love her so much more everytime i see her i want to kiss her hug her make sexy time with her but i dont no i guess i should just move on to even though i really cant its going to be hard man just i would say give it time but i wont even give my ex girlfriend time go out and get LAID maybe you will feel better |
|
|
|
|
May 26 2007, 11:05 AM
Post
#41
|
|
|
Member Group: Member Posts: 18 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 527,711 |
QUOTE(br3aker4lyfe @ May 14 2007, 05:48 PM) Okay so... I'm sure some of you read about that old post "my recent break up" Well.. its been a month and a few days now.. And... I have yet to get over her. It hurts alot. Especially when you I see pictures of her and her new BF all over like her pages and crap. As much as I try to move on, listen to music, talk to friends, talk to new girls. I still... can't get over it. And... I douno what to do. I mean I even got perscribed back onto my anti-depressant pills.   Go to a gay bar and hook up! A night of sweaty man-on-man lovemaking will cure any problem you have. |
|
|
|
|
1 User(s) are reading this topic (1 Guests and 0 Anonymous Users)
0 Members: