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 May 23 2007, 05:45 PM
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Alright guys so this is what is happening honestly i never thought i would ever be on a site like this but here i am. My girlfriends parents hate me were both 17 and they dont like me because back last summer my girlfriend got drunk and ended up in the hospital and they blamed it on me. I left the party 2 hours before she ended up in the hospital she wouldnt leave with me. another thing that happened was october 18th 2006 my girlfriend got into a accident and i was driving in front of her they also blamed it on me. i dont no what i have to do but recently my girlfriend and i have been fighting a lot of some reason i mean i think everyone goes through like a stage of fighting but its getting very physical. she ripped off the middle armrest in my car and started beating me with it all because i needed her attention and so i took her phone so she would pay attention to me. the other day she was at my house and she got me really mad i told her to leave and it was over but she wouldnt i got so mad i punched two holes in my wall. she then went back and told her mom that i did this but she didnt explain to them that she wouldnt leave me alone. now were broken up and her parents want a restraining order on me its not even her but its her parents. there feeding me this shit about how there scared for there daughters life
I no she loves me and i love her more then anything in this world thats why i punched the hole in my wall because i knew if i ever hit her i would probably end up killing myself. This girl is my life we have been together for a year i have known her since 6th grade and we have always had a thing for eachother i dont no what to do im stuck im really depressed and her parents are dangling in front of her college there telling her if she goes out with me they wont pay for her college. I have to be with this girl she is my life. i need help fast please help me out. I told my girlfriend i dont like her parents we were fine with that i told her baby im here for you not for them i just love her so much i dont no what to do |
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| *steve330* |
May 23 2007, 06:18 PM
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Sounds like her parents are Catholics, you have anger/common sense problems, and she's being a girl.
Enter is your friend, make that into easier to read paragraphs. Anyways, give her space, talk to her when things have calmed down. If y'all are really meant to be yada yada things will work out. Her parents will have no say over what y'all can and can't do in less than a year. If you can wait, good job, if not, find someone else. |
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May 23 2007, 06:58 PM
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 we go a-drowning Group: Member Posts: 964 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 519,725 |
ive had friends in past experiences...
ok. bad news. ANY relationship that develops physical violence insnt a good one. and , no offence, but how do you plan to spend the rest of your life with this girl if you throw a little tantrum over her not leaving you alone. come on. grow up. err. and she seems a little outta control ( psycho is a better word) you both seem immature and unprepared for a relationship- anyway, go with steves advice, if you really feel like you want to pursue the relationship any further ^^ oh and steve, darling, i resent the "just being a girl" statement.^^ |
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May 23 2007, 07:05 PM
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WOW... going to her mom, okay thats one thing, but with all this stuff that her parents think of you-- shes basically making u look like a mad man; u need to talk to her... even though ur broken up; shes too caught up with what she thinks, shes not aware of what you are thinking of and what you want to do to help the relationship
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| *steve330* |
May 23 2007, 07:27 PM
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Deplorable you can exempt yourself because judging by your past posts in other threads you seem to be a tomboy :)
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May 23 2007, 08:16 PM
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Hmm,I think that both you and your girlfriend might have anger issues. The best way to resolve this is probably just to sit down and talk it out. Also, I think her parents are a bit on the mental side. You should talk to them and explain everything. Well, hope everything goes well for you two :/
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| *MyMichelle* |
May 23 2007, 08:18 PM
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Look, if you're gonna get in the way of her college and you still pursue this relationship, you need to consider your priorities. About her, that is.
She's only 17. You both have more than what you have already lived to find someone else. |
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May 24 2007, 02:35 PM
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 The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
It's annoying when parent over react and get involved but thats the way it is with your current situation.
You need to sit her down with you and have a one to one with her. Explain to her, what you have to us. Also it's good to get everything of your chest when speaking to her, tell her everything and then let her do the same, while you listen. Hopefully things will then perhaps get better. Also you need to control your temper, it's not immature at all but dangerous. Hope it works out. |
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May 24 2007, 04:00 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(x___F0RG0TTEN @ May 23 2007, 09:16 PM)  Hmm,I think that both you and your girlfriend might have anger issues. The best way to resolve this is probably just to sit down and talk it out. Also, I think her parents are a bit on the mental side. You should talk to them and explain everything. Well, hope everything goes well for you two :/ Agreed |
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May 25 2007, 08:45 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,965 |
Guys i have been trying to talk to her they wont let her talk to me and there is a restraining order on me starting this upcoming tuesday but i cant let this girl go she means to much to me
her best friend told me its her parents that are doing this im having all her friend help me out im talking to her best friend and some another girl she talks to all the time and one is helping me but the other one stopped i dont no what to do she is amazing and my friend and his girlfriend are going through the same thing and i have been talking to his girlfriend about what to do. should i let her keep everything i gave her? buy her flowers send a apology letter? i love this girl im willing to violate the order of protection to even hear her voice we have been going out on and off for a year but this is the 3rd time her parents got into our relationship the second time my girlfriend stopped them. she told me she wants to be with me. im ready for her. she told me she wouldnt let her parents break us up i just have no clue what to do any more |
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May 25 2007, 09:34 AM
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You should just leave her alone so next time her lil drunkin ass go to the hospital, who the parents gon blame other than here? She seems like the typical teen who drinks and act stupid, not ready for a commitment. Find someone more mature
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May 25 2007, 07:02 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,965 |
im so over her i tried to talk to her today give her something back and she just called the cops she is a dumb immature bit** and i wouldnt get back with her if she paid me life is tooo short im about ready to get back in shape and start working out and im going to dip my wink in anything that moves hahaha<--- ricky bobby
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May 27 2007, 10:29 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,965 |
alright now im having another problem im talking to her friend just like trying to find out why she was doing this and shit. and i cant stop thinking about the girl like i have dreams about her alll day i think about her even when im playing halo3 beta of gears of war when i watch tv or even when im on the computer
i dont no what to do i hate her so so so so much for what she has done and i dont want to be with her cause she is doing all this but i love her so much more then i hate her what should i do im going nuts over here |
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