Getting over a 2 Year Relationship |
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 May 14 2007, 05:48 PM
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 hai, Im Philjay  Group: Member Posts: 922 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 520,964  |
Okay so... I'm sure some of you read about that old post
"my recent break up" Well.. its been a month and a few days now.. And... I have yet to get over her. It hurts alot. Especially when you I see pictures of her and her new BF all over like her pages and crap. As much as I try to move on, listen to music, talk to friends, talk to new girls. I still... can't get over it. And... I douno what to do. I mean I even got perscribed back onto my anti-depressant pills.  
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May 14 2007, 05:54 PM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
You're not going to get over her just like that. Long relationships usually take longer to recover.
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May 14 2007, 06:18 PM
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 Photoartist Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,363 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 399,390 |
Two years is nothing when you've got so many years left ahead of you.
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| *pixiedust!* |
May 14 2007, 06:24 PM
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You mean antidepressant pills.
Stop visiting her pages. Just cut everything off. |
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May 14 2007, 06:31 PM
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 You say you eat fucking hearts for breakfast. Group: Member Posts: 662 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,026 |
QUOTE(pixiedust! @ May 14 2007, 4:24 PM)  You mean antidepressant pills. Stop visiting her pages. Just cut everything off. I agree. It will help so much to remove her from your life for the time being, so you can start relearning life without her. It's really hard, I definitely know that, but in the end, it's all posi, because you can get closer with other friends and concentrate on yourself. Not her. |
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May 14 2007, 06:39 PM
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 we go a-drowning Group: Member Posts: 964 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 519,725 |
its gonna take time to sort yourself out.... as for looking at pics of her.... why would you do that? block it all out. dont go looking for trouble.
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May 14 2007, 06:58 PM
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hai, Im Philjay Group: Member Posts: 922 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 520,964 |
QUOTE(deplorable @ May 14 2007, 7:39 PM) its gonna take time to sort yourself out.... as for looking at pics of her.... why would you do that? block it all out. dont go looking for trouble. I didnt. She sent it to me. |
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May 14 2007, 07:11 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,614 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,903 |
What a bitch move. I say stab her in the face and then take a picture then send it to her computer..
.. No one would see it. Clean get away. I agree with the other people though. It will be hard but you need to block her out of your life. |
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May 14 2007, 07:16 PM
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hai, Im Philjay Group: Member Posts: 922 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 520,964 |
I'm trying but I end up crawling back to her...
And then get like.. a emotional smack in the face. Attempt to forget her .. end up crawling back its like a cycle. |
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May 14 2007, 07:54 PM
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QUOTE(br3aker4lyfe @ May 14 2007, 6:58 PM) I didnt. She sent it to me. Then don't open anything she sends you. Don't pick up her calls, don't listen to any messages she leaves if she tries to contact you at all, don't open her text messages.. etc. What's nasty about this is this is what my ex (who I am definitely not over...) is probably telling himself. Or at least, that's what he'd be telling himself if I was trying to contact him... but he'd open it anyway. 
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May 14 2007, 08:27 PM
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 Yup thats my girlfriend. Group: Banned Posts: 665 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 513,693 |
U got it bad. In order to get over it let Usher be your therapy. Listen to
Let it  , U don't have to Call. and throw in Chris Brown - Wall to Wall because once you go out and have fun the girls going to be coming from Wall to Wall after you. 
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May 14 2007, 08:35 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
QUOTE(br3aker4lyfe @ May 14 2007, 7:16 PM) I'm trying but I end up crawling back to her... And then get like.. a emotional smack in the face. Attempt to forget her .. end up crawling back its like a cycle. It's alright dude, I know where you're coming from. I might be in your situation soon, but I hope not... It hurts, and it'll keep hurting. I think the only way is to start talking to new girls. If you're in high school, it'll be hard to keep away from her. But if you're in college, then just.. stay away.. EDIT : I just read you tried talking to new girls already. Just keep yourself busy. Don't have idle time... or else you'll jus tthink about it. and it'll just hurt you more.. and more.. and more.. |
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May 14 2007, 09:09 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 51 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 523,770 |
When the police pulled up, my daddy was doomed. He was arrested and taken to jail. He was charged with possession of a controlled substance. He was an a-hole and a loser.
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| *My Cinderella.* |
May 14 2007, 11:41 PM
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You need to think. Do you wanna be stuck in the same rut or do you wanna be able to pick yourself back up. I know it sounds hard but you gotta pick up the pieces where you fell apart. Block yourself off from her and go off with your friends. Remove and hide everything that reminds or leads you back to her until you know you can control how you feel.
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May 15 2007, 04:47 AM
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Aww! *hugs*. It's OK to feel like this still. I mean, it was a 2 year relationship, and it's only been just over a month since you broke up.
But like others have told you - try and block her out of your mind. She sounds rather cruel in my opinion; sending you pictures etc. so it's not worth staying sad. Move on and be happy! I wish you luck. 
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May 15 2007, 11:15 AM
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 The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
Like puppy chan said, try blocking her out. Hang out with friends and do things to keep your mind of her. You'll soon forget her.
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May 21 2007, 05:34 PM
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hai, Im Philjay Group: Member Posts: 922 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 520,964 |
bleehhhhh
guys. I still crawl back to herrrr it suxxxxxx and hurtsss |
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May 21 2007, 05:45 PM
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 Krista. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,380 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,319 |
 Don't go all gaa-gaa and crawl back to her...that won't really help. At all. You don't really want her to see you acting like that. When you get out of a bad relationship, don't sink even lower. It doesn't help how you feel.From what I've read from your other thread that you posted, she doesn't really seem worth it...she seems really inconsiderate. I'm sorry if I sound blunt, but thinking too much about how much you like her and crawling back to her won't help. I know it hurts, but just don't spend all your time thinking about it. Hang out with your friends more. Take up a hobby. Do something that won't make you think about her. I read what you said about how you'll attempt to forget about her but keep crawling back. Realize that what she did to you was really inconsiderate. I think you deserve better than that. I hope things really work out for you. I know how a broken heart feels, and it's not fun. |
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May 21 2007, 05:47 PM
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hai, Im Philjay Group: Member Posts: 922 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 520,964 |
QUOTE(marzipan @ May 21 2007, 06:45 PM)  I'm trying so hard to stay strong lol.... |
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May 21 2007, 06:02 PM
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Mine lasted about 3 years...almost 4 and its been a year now...and my feelings havent lessened..im still trying to figure things out. and time doesnt seem to be helping me heal. it does hurt a lot...i know. we still see each other and it feels like nothing changed and then reality hits and you realize they're really gone. getting over someone is never easy and thats a given. & in the first few months, it will be devastating but you will pull it through. they suggest i stop talking to him but i could never put myself through it. but now i think maybe if i stop it could help me. just that i dont have the persistency to live with it yet if i ever stopped and it does bother me that i dont. im still trying to figure things out myself...and maybe when i find the answers i'll let you know how to get over it lol..but in the meantime stay strong( i know your trying but i'll tell you again anyways ). =)
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May 21 2007, 06:05 PM
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hai, Im Philjay Group: Member Posts: 922 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 520,964 |
QUOTE(Dreamerx @ May 21 2007, 07:02 PM) they suggest i stop talking to him but i could never put myself through it. but now i think maybe if i stop it could help me. just that i dont have the persistency to live with it yet if i ever stopped and it does bother me that i dont. im still trying to figure things out myself...and maybe when i find the answers i'll let you know how to get over it lol.. Woooo finnally... some one is relativly in my shoes <3 |
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May 21 2007, 08:20 PM
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Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
*waves* Hi, PJ. I can relate. It's hard. It's really hard, I know. Every time I crawl back I end up hurting myself and crying.
Do you want to be happy? If you do, think about that before talking to her. I know you can' go out and play any sports right now, but as soon as your leg gets better, go out and do it. It will help. |
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May 21 2007, 09:23 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 405,860 |
WELL!...try getting over a FOUR YEAR RELATIONSHIP, it hurts more than two....try losing it to a girl that was like your best friend...
QUOTE(br3aker4lyfe @ May 14 2007, 06:48 PM) Okay so... I'm sure some of you read about that old post
"my recent break up" Well.. its been a month and a few days now.. And... I have yet to get over her. It hurts alot. Especially when you I see pictures of her and her new BF all over like her pages and crap. As much as I try to move on, listen to music, talk to friends, talk to new girls. I still... can't get over it. And... I douno what to do. I mean I even got perscribed back onto my anti-depressant pills. |
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May 21 2007, 09:36 PM
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Throw some D's on that bitch to get over it.
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May 21 2007, 09:45 PM
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 chinky Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,566 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,437 |
^ That's like the best advice ever.
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