Help; I really don't know where this is going., using me. ><; Options

[x_ica]

So, there's this guy, he goes to a different school. I practically got into a big huge fight with my this "supposedly" friend because of him. & Saying that i shouldn't be leading him on, which i'm not. He likes me, i like him but it seems to me that he's only using me. I feel such a "bootycall", he'd be like. . "Where are you?" "Can i come over?" & once he gets what he wants or if i tell him no, he just goes away and talks to me like. . the end of the night or the next day. His bestfriend tries to comfort me saying that it seems like he doesn't know what he wants & he could be playing me and using me to get some. It's funny, because it's coming from his bestfriend. & I hack his comments from girls, and his comments to girls, it's so flirtacious. I can't trust him, I really just wanna drop everything. He's changed my Christian ways and i feel such a disappointment. How do i let him down easy ? Or anything. Because it's hurting me too. . But i know in the long run, it'll hurt me longer especially when even he doesn't know what he wants. I asked if he wanted me or this other girl, and he said he doesn't know. He said he'd rather stick to dating. This is messed up, i don't wanna be a one-night stand kind of thing. He said he'll prove me wrong, that he will be able to hang with me without doing anything, he said he'll come to my house everyday to prove me wrong & yet he didn't come. His bestfriend came to my house to see my bestfriend and he would rather play ball. Oh wow, amazing. I don't know what to do. Got any advice ? Thanks in advance.

[MeanBastard]

Gimme your number, I need booty calls.

[Mystic Eyes]

Since he doesn't know what he wants, you have two options.

1) Stay in contact with him in a friends capacity until he does know what he wants. Thats if you want to stick around.

2) Let him go since it could take a while and in the end there's no promise that he will want you after all this.

I think you should let it go. Find happiness somewhere else. You can still be friends with him if you want. You never know, maybe in the future you two will be back together again. Anyways hope it works out.

[EmoEyelinerx]

I think you should dump him. Its not right for someone to lead/use someone. The longer your with him, the more you get your feelings get involved. Plus, if he dumps you, your going to feel even more pain.

[cupcakex]

Forget about him, he sounds like an ass. He's just using you, if he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, &only you.

[HelloSunshine]

Forget about him, he sounds like an ass. He's just using you, if he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, &only you.

Ditto.

He's using you. Even though he says he's "not sure what he wants". It seems perfectly clear that all he wants to do is use you. I mean, he says he'll prove it to you by coming to your house, and he doesn't show. It's kind of like, what gives?

I think you should tell him something like, "It's not working. You don't know what you want, and I feel like you're just using me."

Forget about him.