That's beef on my block!, confrontation 64. |
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| *JoanOfArc* |
 May 18 2007, 11:25 PM
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When it comes to hearing rumors or having a friend or people you know backstab you, are you the kind to confront them about it or just let it be? Are you the "rather have the original source" or the "I don't need them in my life" type?
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| *steve330* |
May 18 2007, 11:34 PM
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I like to be sneaky about it. I find things about them they don't want others knowing, and I mutter it around them to make them worried. That or I just completely blow them off, and when they go "wtf whats wrong with you?" I just go all out on them.
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| *StanleyThePanda* |
May 18 2007, 11:48 PM
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I'd have to basically go with Steves answer. If they wanna be immature, then w/e. I definitely just kick them out of my life. And when/if they ask why, I'll straight up tell them.
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| *stephinika* |
May 19 2007, 12:20 AM
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It depends what it is about I guess. I've done both.
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| *kryogenix* |
May 19 2007, 12:25 AM
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QUOTE(brownsugar @ May 19 2007, 12:41 AM)  Confront, confront! That's like one of the only things I don't use tact at ALL with. Like..if I hear it, I will be in your face in less than a minute. If you're gonna be a bitch, don't be a fake bitch!  I guess that's the only option when you can't delete what people say or suspend them offline when you know you're wrong. |
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May 19 2007, 07:03 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion.  Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
I normally just cut them out of my life, really. And if they ask what's up, I'll tell them what's up... |
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May 19 2007, 09:41 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 7,149 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 213,509 |
I'd ask around my group of friends, then I'll probably just be like, hey I heard you were talking about me and deal with it there.
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May 19 2007, 10:43 AM
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 The more things change,The more they stay the same. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,319 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 442,600 |
Both.
Depends on who it is and what they said. |
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May 19 2007, 11:33 AM
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At first I would try to ignore their bad behavior, figuring it's not worth it to have a fight. But if it got really bad, I'd want to know why. It would depend but I'd most likely give them a second chance and put them "on friendship probation." If they did it again, I'd basically stop talking to them as much but not officially cut off all ties.
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May 19 2007, 02:17 PM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
I just let it go. It only happened a few times and its always stupid stuff, not worth getting to the bottom of.
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May 19 2007, 02:45 PM
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 zen-nation Group: Member Posts: 186 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 488,292 |
Yeah, agree with Toya^^
I have done both, but it all depends what they did/said etc. If it immaturity I will let them know.  Some dudeA gave my number to some other dudeB and made him prank ME! Right infront of me.. like I am that stupid to notice what was going on.. I scared the shit out of dudeA by confronting him infront of like 150+ students in class. I found it immature.. and we weren't talking anymore.. nor were we friends anymore.. just don't need that when we're in university.. I guess some don't like growing up  But on a serious level.. it depends on what they done. |
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May 19 2007, 04:04 PM
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 long time no CB. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,889 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 493,502 |
I confront them.
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May 19 2007, 04:39 PM
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 The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
It depends on the persons involved and the overall situation. I guess overall I confront but in a calm, cool manner rather than yelling and shouting out with my arms doodling every where. It's just not me.
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May 19 2007, 09:05 PM
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 Home is where your rump rests! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,235 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 451,969 |
QUOTE(freeflow @ May 19 2007, 12:17 PM) I just let it go. It only happened a few times and its always stupid stuff, not worth getting to the bottom of. x 1,000,000And I feel bad for not understanding the title at all. 
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May 19 2007, 09:10 PM
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i'm so bored. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,261 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 473,614 |
I blow them off. If they had any real problem with me, they would be brave enough to say it to my face. People who spread rumors and shit like that don't even deserve to be confronted about it. Why dwell in that sort of crap when you can just let it go?
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May 19 2007, 09:34 PM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
i usually keep it inside. then i can use it to blackmail them later.
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May 20 2007, 01:09 PM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
I usually just let it go.
I tried leaving two of my best friends out of my life completely, and it just really didn't work. We just kept doing hurtful stuff to each other. And all it really led to was a "friendship" circle my teacher had with like 7 of the girls in my class because we were all fighting and on different sides & whatever.  But, we made up and we're the best of friends again. We confronted each other, and it really helped. I wish I could confront people like that everyday, but I just..don't. I try to forget about it. |
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May 20 2007, 01:24 PM
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 chinky Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,566 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,437 |
nothing's over until i say it is.
least, that's how it goes in my dreams. |
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May 20 2007, 05:50 PM
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i would drop hints at first. then after a few days, i confront them about it.
nowadays, i think i just confront them straight up. there are days where i would just let it go. it's not worth getting a fight over. besides, i trust certain people. |
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| *karmakiller* |
May 20 2007, 06:51 PM
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I am NOT a confrontational person, and it's hard for me to hold grudges. Life goes on. A lot of my friends find it odd, because I'm very sarcastic and talk a lot of crap to people, but I'm not the fighting type.
The only thing that really bugs me is when I have to listen to my friends complain about other friends. And they always sit there saying "I'm gonna beat her ass" and they don't even talk to them. |
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May 20 2007, 07:06 PM
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 vivacity Group: Official Member Posts: 3,183 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,247 |
I'm not the person to get all uptight about it. I just kind of leave it as it is. I mean, as long as I know people who care about me, that's all that really matters right? I also hate it when people try to act all hardcore on you when they hate you; when they talk crap about you behind your back to everyone they know, thinking they'll get the world to hate you.
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May 20 2007, 07:09 PM
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 Krista. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,380 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,319 |
QUOTE(steve330 @ May 18 2007, 11:34 PM) That or I just completely blow them off, and when they go "wtf whats wrong with you?" I just go all out on them. That's pretty much what I do. If it's something stupid and not worth confronting them about, I'll wait until THEY make it something worth confronting about. Then I tell them what's up.
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May 20 2007, 08:25 PM
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depends on who. and my mood
sometimes ill confront them in front of people talk to them and make them feel stupid. or if they backstab me just for fun and popularity i wont give them the satisfaction of me being sad and just tell everyone he/she is not worth my time fussing over(: |
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| *steve330* |
May 20 2007, 11:23 PM
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Ah yeah, mood plays a big part. If I've had a pissy day I won't hesitate to chew their heads off.
I kinda like being in that mood because I think really quickly and win like every argument I get into. |
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