2 Situations Options

[alcohol_bandages]

Problem #1:
My friend keeps touching me where I don't want him too!
And I don't say anything anymore because even if I do,
he continues doing it.
He has a girlfriend.
I have someone who I like.
I don't like him like that.
He knows that.
It's getting irritated.

Problem #2:
I'm pretty much still great friends with all of
my ex-boyfriends.
Except for one.
We've been fighting ever since I broke up with him
because he wanted me to do things I wasn't comfortable doing.
A couple days ago I IMed him on MSN saying the usual.
"Hi!"
"How was your day?"
etc...
Then he starts ranting how I need a boyfriend
so I can leave him and this other guy alone.
(The other guy appologized and really had nothing
much to do with it)
He said some other stuff too,
but whatever.
Anyways, today he proceeded to go to my friends
(who he knows I talk to every day and would
take me over him)
and tell them he thinks I've gone out of my mind,
that I'm crazy, mental, nuts, etc...
So I call him out infront some people today.
And he deleted me off his friends list on myspace
(Which I was honestly planning on doing, but
he beat me too it, whatever)
I know for a fact he's going to go to even more people
and call me even more shit and try and turn people against me.
Which is going to cause major backstabbing and fighting
which I'm not ready for.

What should I do?

[*Intercourse.*]

well I think this could possibly be moved to relationships

Problem #1: Ignore him. I had the same problem a while back and the only way to deal with it is just start ignoring him and don't go near him and when you want to talk and stuff and he tries to touch you, you move away and tell him not to touch you. If he gets mad, then he gets mad and eventually he'll get over it and talk to you again.

Problem #2: Honestly, its your ex-boyfriend. Personally I wouldn't care what my ex-boyfriends said about me to other people, of course I really don't care what others think so maybe that's my problem. You know if people really want to go out of their way and believe him then its their time wasted, don't stress over it and just move on.

How old are you anyway? Sounds like some middle/early high school drama that when you get older and finally the others around you start to mature up they just go away and you never have to deal with drama again.

[Mystic Eyes]

Problem 1: Ignore. If that fails. Kick him where it hurts.

Problem 2: Your ex is being stupid and is getting back at you. So if he starts making stuff up about you, then explain to others that he is and not to believe him. If that doesn't work then move on. People have this nack of believing rumours instead of actually being open minded. As long as your good friends don't believe him then it's all good.

[EmoEyelinerx]

Problem 1#: Try to ignore him and if he keeps invading your personal space tell him that is makes you feel uncomfertable. Im sure he will stop then.

Problem 2#: Its your ex-boyfriend! All ex's usually say all this shit about their ex-girlfriends when they break up. If he starts to make things up about you then you have to tell others that its not true. Im sure most of the people will understand.

[elaboratedream]

Problem 1: Tell him to stop, if he doesn't, ignore it. If he still doesn't stop and it really bothers you, you always have the option of reporting him for sexual harassment.

Problem 2: It's your ex. Of course he's gonna be a bastard to you. Its only natural. Ignore it.

[deplorable]

for both situations: if both guys dont smarten up, buy yourself a good old fashioned iron knuckle.

[loveylovely]

I've kind of had a type of situation before like number 1. this guy at my school liked me, or i guess he still likes me, so he always used to touch me where i didn't want him to. then i started getting creeped out by him because of what I heard from my friend and what people said about him. I started ignoring him, but it's been about 2 1/2 months since I did and he still tries to get my attention in class. He can't get a hint.. but yeah, I'd just say ignore him until you never have to see him again, and if that doesn't work, don't be friends.

And for Situation #2, follow your instincts.

[cupcakex]

I'd have to say everyone's given you good advice.

With the first situation, you should just tell the guy to back the hell off. If he doesn't, make sure you're never near him. Or, if you're always around him, ignore him. Or, talk to someone.

With the second situation, ignore him. He's just doing whatever he can to get your attention. Move on.

[PuppyChan]

Problem #1: Just ignore him, but if he keeps at it then HURT HIM XD.

Problem#2: Your ex sounds rather childish to me. Try your best to ignore him, and explain to others that he is in fact making stuff up and trying to hurt you. Don't worry, I doubt you'll lose many friends over this....they'll understand. Forget about him and move on. *hugs*

[RAWRstephishere]

1. Thats sexually harassment.

2. Start yelling at him infront of all of his friends. And be like "Why are you so obsessed with me?? stop stalking me!