So confused! Help! Options

[EmoEyelinerx]

Ok me and ex went out for a little over a month We had (like other couples) our ups and downs. He was a GREAT boyfriend. In between classes he would always stop at my locker to give me a hug and kiss and would call and text me everyday for hours. He was charming, funny, cocky and one of the closest boyfriends I ever had. The problem is that we broke up around 30 days ago. He went out with about two girls since then. I still talk to him in school and by text. I never got completely got over him and I just cant FORGET HIM. I really want to go out with him but im not sure if he still likes me. Almoast everyday when I see him I just feel like crying because we were so close (yeah, I know one month I shouldent have all thease feelings but I do) and it makes me sad that during classes I dont get a hug and kiss from him. I especially get jelous of him when hes dating another girl I dont know what to do if I should like tell him how i feel, ask him out, write him a note, ect.

Please help im so confused

[x_ica]

Why did you guys break up ? People break up for a reason. That's really messed up if he did leave you for another girl. You guys have broken up for about a month & he already dated two girls after you ?

Are you sure you want that, it could always happen again. I think that you should give it some time. Or talk to him, ask him straight up what he wants from those girls & crapp. And especially from you because no one wants you to get hurt. You deserve better than that.

People are sweet at first & seems so perfect but that dies down after awhile. It's just trying to get you hooked on something then leave you.
It's pretty amazing how many guys are that way.

So, my advice.
Talk to him first & see what happens. Don't rush into things.
After he tells you what he wants, then figure it out from there.

[EmoEyelinerx]

Becuase I told my supposity "BFF" that I liked another guy like 1% and she told this one girl and she told him, so we broke up. I talked to him about it and stuff and he said it was ok. Hes liked me since we broke up a little because when we talk sometimes he will ask who I like and I tell him "you". But sometimes he will say another girl but he still always says he likes me a little.

[x_ica]

Well, i really think that's up to you.
on what you wanna do.
ask him what he wants also.

He can't have both girls.
Um, take a chance.
You may never know.
If you get hurt again, then you'll know it was never meant to be.
& We just all learn from our mistakes right ?

[MeanBastard]

More time. More time...

[Mystic Eyes]

It sounds like you two were great together. Maybe get him on his own and talk to him about how he feels about you and then take it from there. If you truly like him then you should try your best to be with him again.
All the best.

[EmoEyelinerx]

We were and everyone at our school knew it^. Today I wrote him a note in school saying that I liked him and stuff and he replied but hadent in the note said anything about me. Everyone in my grade pretty much found out about us writing notes to eachother, even this one girl stephanie came up to me and said I cant go out with him. I was like uhh and just walked away and some other people were asking if we were getting back together, and I was like uh im not sure. Does that mean anything? Also, he asked to write him back so I did and I wrote some things like saying people were saying I cant go out with him blabla. I told him to write me back (it was the end of the day so I will get it monday), text or call me later.

[Mystic Eyes]

Not sure whats up with other people saying you two can't go out. Take no notice of it now. And wait to see what his reply is on that note.

[HelloSunshine]

^ Agreed.

That girl can't really tell you not to go out with him. It's not like he's hers. It seems like you two still have a chance. But, you really should get to the bottom of whether or not he likes you. Straight out ask him. Like, "Look, I really need to know if you still like me or not." Or, maybe something less agressive

[EmoEyelinerx]

Today he was acting like total idiot so I tryed not to talk to him much..I wrote him a note in one of my classes and gave it to him, and at the end it said WRITE BACK but he never did. Hes so confusing becuase sometimes he acts like he likes me, but other times he acts like he barley knows I exist..im thinking about sending him a text tonight that says someing like she^ said: "Look, I really need to know if you still like me or not." Im so confused what to do becuase I want to move on but I just cant seem to let him go..

[*MyMichelle*]

Why don't you just talk to him? ._.

I mean, he's probably over you (sorry to be blunt) if he's already dated 2 other girls. :/

[marzipan]

I sort of agree with MyMichelle. If he really still liked you, he would have at least tried to remain faithful to you and NOT have gone out with 2 other girls. Maybe he just doesn't take that kind of thing seriously, but I wouldn't count on him still wanting to go out with you.

It takes time to get over guys. Seriously, I know how you feel. I used to be so close to a guy and when our relationship died, it made me sad just thinking about how close I used to be with him.
It just takes time.
Hope things work out. It sounds pretty dramatic with all these people getting involved in your business. ._.;

[EmoEyelinerx]

The thing is though is that after he went out with those other girls we started talking more and he TOLD me that he still had feelings for me.

[Mystic Eyes]

I'm 50/50 on this. I still think he likes you but is perhaps confused. But yeah send him that text and take it from there.

[EmoEyelinerx]

I sent him the text last night and it said "Ok, I need to ask you a really quick question. Who do you like?" I forgot he had his texting taken away..sooo I think im going to just write him a note tomorrow that just says "Who do you like? Write back." So he has no way of advoiding it :)

[Mystic Eyes]

^Good Idea. That way he can't avoid the question. Good luck.

[EmoEyelinerx]

He wasnt here today soo... I guess its gunna have to wait until thursday (im going on a field trip tomorrow)

[LittleLulu]

i'd hate to be a party pooper, but honestly when guys truly care about you they'd go out of their way for you. it sounds to me as if he's already moved on. There's a difference between him acting like he likes you, and him just being flirty. But don't be discouraged, the only way to know if there's still a chance for you tow to rekindle your old flame is to ask him.

hope everything goes well for you. And worst comes to worst, there are still alot of guys out there. A 1 month relationship will seem insignificant in the long run.

:)

[alysaphobia]

Two girls in thirty days? Sounds sort of like a player...
Sorry.

I wouldn't go after him... because it sounds like he doesn't have any real feelings towards you.
But if you're desperate, you should just call him or approach him face-to-face, not write him a note or a text message; things like that can be easily misleading.