how long did it take you to say "i love you" Options

[lalalalala12345]

iv been going out with my bf for almost a month now. we still havent said it eventhough we both really like eachother...

[deplorable]

uh. i cant quite remember. i think it was shortly after we had gotten serious. but it was really nice when we did. we were on a park bench around 10 at night ( we were at a fundraiser) and i just got this reallly intense but calming feeling. and i knew at that moment that i loved him. so i said it and he replyed back.
whats really cute is that way before all that before we started going out he and i were working on a school project at my house. i live on a REALLY big property and there is a pond in the backyard (by pond, its more like a mini lake) we were walking around for a break, when he sat me down and said "claire, i like you. im not madly in love with you, but i like you." it was so cute, and he was so nervous. i tease him about that now...

[teeners4]

neither of us had said it yet. we've just hit 5 months. in our previous relationships we've said it but didn't mean it. like my ex had said it to me 3 months in and i said it as a reflex response but i didn't mean it and it went downhill. same with him. we're both young, 18 (maybe it's not young to you but it is!) and we're still finding ourselves. we both haven't experienced love yet so we don't want to say anything we're not sure of yet. but we are going to university together next year so we'll see =)

i do love him as a friend and same with him. and sometimes i feel like yea i do love him but i'm not sure yet. i don't want to say something and regret it the moment i say it.

[cupcakex]

We said it after about four months.

[SyntaxIsSexy]

Well, we were dating for a couple months &then we made it official... I first told him three months after being official... so I guess five months?

[Hamnah]

Urgh.
My ex said it to me..
About 5 minutes after he asked me out.
I said it back.
Which i regret deeply.

[*stephinika*]

He said it first after a few days, which I know, soon, but there was a history beforehand in a way so yeah...and yes, I said it back. But generally I'd think that's too soon but it was under different circumstances. And we've been together for almost 8 months now.

[scenebob90]

Probably about a month or so.
but i had liked her for a long time before hand,
and we were together all the time.
:)

[*steve330*]

Psh the day before I asked her out. I had been spending 4-5 hours a day w/ her for the past 2 months though. Still, I shudda waited a lil longer lol, as I din get the response til a couple months later

[dancingkait]

my boyfriend and i started saying it after just about 2 months and we've now been together for 5 and counting

[*Intercourse.*]

Uhm half a year? Maybe not even that long?

It really differs from person to person and how much the relationship had progressed and how well you two know each other and how well you know yourself and what love is. Or what you think love is

[*AngelicEyz00*]

Hm, I've still never said it to anyone. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 20 months and we haven't said it to each other yet. We're both perfectly fine with it, though. Just trying to make sure.

SEON HO SEON HO SEON HO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My boyfriend and I said I love you just before our 3 months. It would have been later, but under the circumstances, it just came out. I wasn't sure when I was going to tell him

And might I add that I find it annoying when people say they love each other when they've only been together for like a month.

[itsthatgirl33]

it was 4 months or so into our relationship. he said it first, i thought it was a joke ... then i said it back. i'd been feeling it for a little while. & we're still happy together at a year & two months.