why doesn't my bf..., do the most romantic things anymore? |
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 Jun 11 2004, 02:12 AM
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Newbie  Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,655  |
 ok, my bf always used to give me surprise hugs, hold my hand, and always comfort me in any sort of way, but some reason, he doesn't do any of that stuff anymore.. why?am i supposed to make the next move? or is he?
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Jun 11 2004, 02:18 AM
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 Master Debater Group: Member Posts: 1,066 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,719 |
Maybe he already got what he was after in the relationship and just stopped trying...or he's not as enthusiastic about the relationship as before...or he's still doin the same stuff but you're takin it all for granted.
I dunno. Try asking him. |
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Jun 11 2004, 02:18 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
That's happened to me before. It coz you've reached a new level in your relationship. Where things are more serious.
You passed the fun part and now it's like the talking part. I think. >< But you should talk to him, tell him how you feel and stuff. |
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Jun 11 2004, 03:13 AM
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 t a c o s Group: Member Posts: 1,187 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,122 |
he likes guys now. i'm sorry
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Jun 11 2004, 03:34 AM
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 crazy*CHRIST*ian Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,518 |
Yea, i think i agree with winter and wildgrifin.. i mean .. dating sucks, but not cause us *women* arent good at it.. its just that we expect diff. things .. We expect him to know what we're feeling, and to ask us whats wrong, but the truth is, he gets tired of asking, and sometimes its like you guys (the relationship) is in a rut.. Dont worry, You guys will work through it.
 things are just hard right now 
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Jun 11 2004, 04:52 AM
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 jesus freak Group: Member Posts: 378 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,748 |
QUOTE(hair products @ Jun 11 2004, 3:13 AM) he likes guys now. i'm sorry  haha yah. could be a possibility.  anyway, try talking to him. =P and see whats wrong. Communication is impt. in all relationships you know =P |
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Jun 11 2004, 07:21 AM
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 Im bouncin off the walls again Group: Member Posts: 60 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,995 |
QUOTE(hair products @ Jun 11 2004, 3:13 AM) he likes guys now. i'm sorry wtf?! jus try talking to him... |
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Jun 11 2004, 07:58 AM
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 Miss Alice Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454 |
heyyy i saw an episode like this on daria!!! okay well, your bf may be really comfortable with this relationship, so he doesnt feel like he has to do romantic things anymore. plus if you think about it, if he does romantic things ALL the time, it'll kinda lose itz meaning rite? if he does romantic things every once in a while, itz more meaningful.
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Jun 11 2004, 08:48 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
i agree with wildgriffin .. you should talk to him about this and see what's going on ..
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Jun 11 2004, 12:15 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
well after he feels comftable now... there is no need to impress you with that... or maybe he juss gave up.. but talk to him
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Jun 11 2004, 01:00 PM
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Sorry to say, but I think he just doesn't feel like it'll do anything anymore.
... - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Jun 11 2004, 01:10 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
I go with the he likes guys theory.
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Jun 11 2004, 01:10 PM
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 <3~Tara~<3 Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,491 |
juzz let him knoe dat he has changed he's prolly not even aware of it.
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Jun 11 2004, 01:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,281 |
QUOTE(mglbaby @ Jun 11 2004, 1:10 PM) juzz let him knoe dat he has changed he's prolly not even aware of it. i agree on that.. it happend to me once.. just try talking to him.. tell him wat u really feel 
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Jun 11 2004, 03:26 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
maybe now that he has you he doesn't feel the nee dto do so anymroe.. i think u shoud talk to him about it and tell him how u like the things he used to do,...
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Jun 11 2004, 08:43 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
i'm guessing one of 2 reasons
1) now that he has u, he no longer needs to try, and is getting lax, so he doesn't do those 'little things' conciously anymore. just gently remind him, and he'll probably notice it himself and correct it. i think that's y a lot of girls play hard 2 get, cuz once a guy has somethin, it's just doesn't seem valuable to them anymore 2) he's losing interest i'm hoping it's the first one |
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Jun 11 2004, 09:15 PM
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QUOTE cuz once a guy has somethin, it's just doesn't seem valuable to them anymore that is sad, i'll be mad if he does... but it seems like that long time relationship, couple really easy forgettin' to appreciate each other. |
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Jun 12 2004, 10:23 AM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
QUOTE(Winter @ Jun 11 2004, 2:18 AM) That's happened to me before. It coz you've reached a new level in your relationship. Where things are more serious. You passed the fun part and now it's like the talking part. I think. >< But you should talk to him, tell him how you feel and stuff. yep. You should talk to him about it. or just become romantic yourself.
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Jun 12 2004, 07:56 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
some guys get sick of it and let the girls do their moves now...
or sometimes guys are sick of it that they do everything all romantic that they just want to take a break from it... so dont wry it's not like he doesnt want u no more, but u never know if he ignores u and have a depress in his face that means he wants a break up... so yeah look at his face more..and try to think wat hes up to... and the best solution is talk to him about it |
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Jun 12 2004, 11:36 PM
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 =P Group: Member Posts: 207 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,290 |
yeah my boyfriend was sweet for the first month, but after that he got comfortable knowing that i dont like him for the materialistic things. i mean they are nice, but it's whats on the inside that counts. after some guys realize that, they stop trying so hard to impress you because he knows that he already has you.
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