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 Apr 19 2007, 07:36 PM
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Newbie  Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 518,363  |
Okay..I have a problem..I have asked several people what I should do because im sooo confused && they all tell me to stay && work it out..maybe you can help me...heres my sit.
Me && my bf have been together 2 years...he is the BEST bf...he does everythin a girl wants her man to do && doesnt complain..hes considerate, romantic, sweet, thoughtful, great in bed..haha..all tha good stuff...well lately my parents have been goin through a divorce && ive had several really bad issues appear inmy life in the last 7 yrs..well lately its all been hittin me pretty hard all at one time, && I seem to not realize it until after i doit, that im taking it out on him. Which is NOT fair...&& to top it off, I cant control my moods..Little things piss me off && my moods shot for tha day..no matter how bad I would like to be happy...&& its effectin mine && his relationship in a negative way....idk what to doo.....i dont want to hurt him anymore..but I dont wanna lose him either...any comments on this?? -Ash |
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Apr 19 2007, 10:19 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
COMMUNICATION IS KEY.
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Apr 20 2007, 03:51 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
Talk to him about your whole situation, and how it affects you emotionally as well; not only just to him but to everybody else, too. Then try your best to watch your mouth... because letting your parents' divorce affect you substantially could drive off the guy you like... |
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Apr 20 2007, 06:09 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
here's a little bit of advice for you:
don't cut off the source of problems, fix the actual problems themselves. don't just break up with him because you guys have some problems. of course there are going to be problems. ur in a relationship. a committed one too, if u've been going out for two years. i would suggest maybe taking a break? or better communication skills between the two of you. does he know what you're going through? do you tell him how you feel? maybe you'd feel a lot better having him console you about everything and being there for you, instead of just accidentally releasing the deluge of emotions that you have upon him. i hope everything works out the best for you. -dustin |
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