so there's this girl...... Options

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One of my good friends, recently told me that she's starting to think she might be bisexual/lesbian - leaning more towards bisexual. Now this isn't too rare of an occurance to me, girls questioning their sexuality often talk to me and ask me for advice(I'm a lesbian)... but something told me she was telling me this for another reason. I soon found out that I was right. Part of the reason she was thinking this was because she was attracted to me. Which was great for me, I mean, I had had a crush on her for awhile.

But there was one problem. She has a boyfriend. Well, more than a boyfriend. She has a fiance. They've been together almost 3 years now. As you can guess with any relationship that's been going on that long, they have problems, but the fact still remains that they love each other.

So I convinced myself I had no chance with her. I mean, she may be attracted to me, but nothing's going to happen. She's in love with him.

but she's said things that have made me start to question that... she keeps saying things like "If I'm still with him..."

and then today, she said something that's really making me wonder...

We're in a painting class together, and we're supposed to think of an idea for a painting. Her idea was a girl holding hands with a guy but desperately reaching out for a girl....


My main question here is if I should try to tell her how I feel and that I'd like to be in a relationship with her.
She almost makes it seem like she's just waiting for me to do that... but as much as I want that, I'm afraid to break up her relationship with her bf...
and besides, it feels almost like I'd be taking advantage of her "curiousity." I know what its like to question your sexuality. I know how desperately you want a solid confirmation sometimes. I know that if she didn't feel she needed that confirmation so badly, she prolly wouldn't have even considered breaking up with her bf....

but at the same time, I want to say if her relationship with her bf isn't strong enough to withstand this, it was bound to happen anyways....

I dont know.

what should I do?