What do you think of Internet relationships? |
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 Apr 13 2007, 10:18 AM
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Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,876  |
Well there is this girl that I like and she has told me she even likes me. When we started to hang around each other alot which was basically everyday at school she told me that she kinda met this guy over the internet. At first I was like *ok*. Then she told me though that she *loves* the guy and stuff. The thing is though is that it's been 4 months since they last talked. He won't respond to any of her phone calls or e-mails. So you know we started to hang out more and we talk on the phone for around 6 hours a day and stuff. Then she tells me sometimes she feels like she's cheating or it feels wrong for her to like me because somehow she still likes the other guy even without talking to him for so long. Like i don't know what to do even her friends think this is really stupid and stuff. It's like he has clouded her mind or something and there is absolutely no way to get through. I care so much for her and I somewhat told her how i feel, but the truth is everytime i try to tell her how I feel 100% i just end up telling half of it. Yesterday she told me she needs time and stuff cause she doesn;t know what she wants and that she is confused. I told her i understand cause i dp but i know she cares for me cause she told me. I just don't know what to do? I really hate this guy now for doing this. I'm trying my hardest to help her and maybe start a relationship later down the road. You guys/girls have any ideas of what i can do. Much appreciated
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Apr 13 2007, 10:31 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
Wow... that really sucks for you.  You sound like you're a nice guy for this girl, but I think she really does need her time right now. Though I don't really believe in internet relationships, she needs to think about what she really wants... so back off a bit until she realizes whether or not this internet relationship had meaning for her. If she doesn't choose you in the end... maybe she didn't deserve you? I don't know. I'm sorry, this must be a really bad situation to be in. I''m sure her friends are trying to talk her out of it though...? |
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Apr 13 2007, 11:19 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,821 |
You fag.
Your mother told me you went to an all boys school and won "Biggest Flirt." |
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Apr 13 2007, 11:24 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,822 |
He also won "Best Couple."
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Apr 13 2007, 11:24 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,876 |
...thank you for stepping on my heart that is obviously broken right now...much love man
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Apr 13 2007, 11:54 AM
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 The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
Internet relationships can work but only if they progress from soley being on the internet. Like eventually if a couple move onto texting and even phoning each other then sure it can work.
As for your situation, give your friend some time. She's confused and probably hurting alot. She wants to be sure of what she is doing. Best thing you can do is what your doing right now. Supporting her and being there for her when she needs you. Things will be alot clearer in time. |
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Apr 13 2007, 12:08 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,876 |
me and her always keep our promises to each other and i promised i would always be there for her and help her along the way. I intend to keep it with everything i have.
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Apr 13 2007, 12:14 PM
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The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
QUOTE(JonathanK @ Apr 13 2007, 6:08 PM)  me and her always keep our promises to each other and i promised i would always be there for her and help her along the way. I intend to keep it with everything i have. And I'm sure she will really appreciate that. Having you there will give her alot of strength. Stay optimistic and hopefully things will work out. |
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Apr 13 2007, 04:20 PM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
Three words: get a life.
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