stick to one or no? |
  |
 Apr 13 2007, 12:10 AM
Post
#1
|
|
 fo`shizzLe  Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 422,719  |
do you think you`re faithful to your gf or bf? let's find out.
|
|
|
|
|
Apr 13 2007, 12:45 AM
Post
#2
|
|
 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
I didn't vote. Simply because I think the choices are at the two extremes, and I don't like that. It's almost as if staring at them implies that you're cheating and not being faithful.
I'm faithful. I'd never dream of going out with another guy other than my boyfriend. But hey, when I see a cute guy, I DO think to myself that he's cute. I don't ogle at him or anything, but in my mind I will admit that he's cute. This is not cheating on my boyfriend. This is just normal reaction. I don't consider it cheating if my boyfriend thinks that a girl is cute when one does walk by. It's only natural. I don't think that staring at hot guys/gals is being unfaithful. There are other ways to gauge that. |
|
|
|
| *kryogenix* |
Apr 13 2007, 12:48 AM
Post
#3
|
|
Guest |
not if she's a nappy headed ho, ugh i hate them.
|
|
|
|
| *StanleyThePanda* |
Apr 13 2007, 01:01 AM
Post
#4
|
|
Guest |
QUOTE(SimplicityGirl @ Apr 13 2007, 1:45 AM)  I didn't vote. Simply because I think the choices are at the two extremes, and I don't like that. I agree, it was two extremes. I did end up voting though. I wouldnt stare, but that doesnt mean I wouldnt find someone else attractive. And if I did find someone else attractive, that wouldnt make me unfaithful unless I acted upon that attraction. Make sense? [I dont know if I worded that correctly... Oh well.] |
|
|
|
| *suddenly she* |
Apr 13 2007, 01:08 AM
Post
#5
|
|
Guest |
QUOTE(starsinparadise @ Apr 13 2007, 12:10 AM) do you think you`re faithful to your gf or bf? let's find out. Your reaction to a cute person isn't the only thing that gauges how faithful you are... But anyway! I might pause for a second or two, and move on. Usually I already know the cute people at school so it's not like *whoosh* DANGGG. And if I don't, we usually get to know each other pretty quickly. It's not just limited to cute guys, since I pretty much talk to almost everyone. Besides, my boyfriend and I are almost weirdly open and we do start conversations and randomly burst out saying things like "I MET A CUTE GUY/GIRL TODAY" and... yeah. |
|
|
|
|
Apr 13 2007, 05:27 AM
Post
#6
|
|
 The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
Nope, I don't stare. If i'm with someone then one of the reasons i'm with them is because their cute. It's strange but once i'm with someone I don't find other people attractive. People are just people at that point.
|
|
|
|
|
Apr 13 2007, 04:44 PM
Post
#7
|
|
 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
QUOTE(SimplicityGirl @ Apr 13 2007, 1:45 AM) I'm faithful. I'd never dream of going out with another guy other than my boyfriend. But hey, when I see a cute guy, I DO think to myself that he's cute. I don't ogle at him or anything, but in my mind I will admit that he's cute. This is not cheating on my boyfriend. This is just normal reaction. I don't consider it cheating if my boyfriend thinks that a girl is cute when one does walk by. It's only natural. I'm single, but I agree. Thinking that a person other than your boyfriend or girlfriend is attractive doesn't consecrate cheating. If that were true, every taken person would be cheating on their S.O. at least once a day. |
|
|
|
|
Apr 13 2007, 04:52 PM
Post
#8
|
|
 Home is where your rump rests! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,235 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 451,969 |
QUOTE(StanleyThePanda @ Apr 12 2007, 11:01 PM) I agree, it was two extremes. I did end up voting though. Makes sense. I wouldnt stare, but that doesnt mean I wouldnt find someone else attractive. And if I did find someone else attractive, that wouldnt make me unfaithful unless I acted upon that attraction. Make sense? [I dont know if I worded that correctly... Oh well.]  I think when you enter a relationship, you lose a lot of those 'priveleges' you have when your single, like playfully staring at someone you think is cute. Of course, you can get a lot in return, but when you step out of being single, it doesn't mean that suddenly you can't think that someone is cute or even flirt, but everything just needs to be curbed. |
|
|
|
| *xcaitlinx* |
Apr 13 2007, 09:35 PM
Post
#9
|
|
Guest |
i just ignore the guy because i honestly think that my boyfriend is the most handsome man ever, so i have no reason to stare or look.
|
|
|
|
| *Monochrome.* |
Apr 14 2007, 07:35 PM
Post
#10
|
|
Guest |
I look but I ignore them.
|
|
|
|
| *My Cinderella.* |
Apr 14 2007, 08:21 PM
Post
#11
|
|
Guest |
Well, I can't really help it if I see a cute boy. But its not like I'm going to leave my boyfriend for that boy.
|
|
|
|
|
Apr 15 2007, 01:19 AM
Post
#12
|
|
 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
QUOTE(My Cinderella. @ Apr 15 2007, 9:21 AM) Well, I can't really help it if I see a cute boy. But its not like I'm going to leave my boyfriend for that boy. ^Agreed.Finding somebody else attractive does not equal infidelity. |
|
|
|
|
2 User(s) are reading this topic (2 Guests and 0 Anonymous Users)
0 Members: