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Do you believe in second chances?, Do you?
Do you believe in second chances?
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babygurl_xtacy
post Jun 30 2004, 11:41 PM
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i did give someone a second change.. they still didnt treasure that.. so.. it really depends how u feel toward him/her and if u believe u guys can work things out
 
conster
post Jul 1 2004, 01:26 AM
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i think it depends.. it depends on how long its been since the break up.. depends how he/she is.. if he/she is the same person u first fell in love with.. did he/she change.. for better or worst? lol
 
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post Jul 3 2004, 02:11 AM
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QUOTE(conster @ Jul 1 2004, 2:26 AM)
i think it depends.. it depends on how long its been since the break up.. depends how he/she is.. if he/she is the same person u first fell in love with.. did he/she change.. for better or worst? lol

^ exactly what i was thinking.
 
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post Jul 3 2004, 02:15 AM
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Yeah second chacnes depends. I guess there is a fine line between the chances that you get and the chances you want. OFten times I wish I could get another chance with my ex. I think if you really like someone a second chance always exists...
 
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post Jul 3 2004, 12:59 PM
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it definitely depends on what they did. be careful, once a cheater...always a cheater.
 
laur3nw
post Jul 3 2004, 08:29 PM
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it all depends on what the guy did to you
 
miss_tragedy
post Jul 3 2004, 10:19 PM
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Yeah, I believe in second chances.

With the boyfriend I'm with now, we went out last year before school started for about 2 weeks. The next year, about the same time, we started going out again. I didn't think it would last long, but its been going strong for over 10 months now.

I never thought that me and him would of gone out again. Hes used to be one of the people who liked a lot of girls, but didn't really go out with them or keep up a relationship. Heck, his longest relationship before me was for 29 days, and he didn't even really like them.

Me and him are eachothers longest, and pretty much eachothers first "real" love. He means the world to me and vice versa.

Sometimes, second chances can happen unexpectably, and you might not think it'll work out, but it does. And I'm glad it did. biggrin.gif

Sorry if I sound so sappy. lolo. happy.gif

- L i Z

(Happily in love with Randy biggrin.gif )
 
xoterezza
post Jul 4 2004, 10:47 PM
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Yes, but their's a difference between being tolerable and being a pushover. You need to know where to draw the line. Sounds so cute with miss tragedy and her boyfriend though..good example of second chances working out _smile.gif

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post Jul 5 2004, 09:41 AM
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it depends on if i could trust him again or not....
 
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post Jul 14 2004, 01:08 PM
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it depends happy.gif
 
miss_tragedy
post Jul 14 2004, 01:23 PM
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QUOTE(xoterezza @ Jul 4 2004, 10:47 PM)
Yes, but their's a difference between being tolerable and being a pushover. You need to know where to draw the line. Sounds so cute with miss tragedy and her boyfriend though..good example of second chances working out _smile.gif

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Awwww, thanks. blush.gif

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post Jul 14 2004, 01:51 PM
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if the person really loved u then u shouldnt have broke up in thje first place, unless its they tell u they made a mistake ..... i guess u should give it another shot.... other wise NO!
 
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post Jul 14 2004, 01:53 PM
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Yeah I do believe in second chances.. all the time.
i guess thats just how I am. everyone makes mistakes & stuff so yeah. but if the guy dosent give me a chance to give him another chance then its over
 
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post Jul 14 2004, 02:36 PM
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Depends on the situation.

If the guy cheated on you, nope. Sorry, but I'm not attracted to jerks. If it's because you fighted and broke it off just like that, then I guess I would. Especially if I still liked him. tongue.gif
 
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post Jul 14 2004, 02:39 PM
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Depends on what really happened to make us break up. But overall, I believe in second chances.. ermm.gif
 
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post Jul 14 2004, 07:24 PM
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depends wht they did
 
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post Apr 7 2007, 10:35 AM
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well, do you still like him? if u guys broke up because of sth stupid, sure why not. if he did something unfaithful to you then its really up to you. if you bother thinking "if there are second chances" then 70% of your heart feels that you want to get back with him. but.. couples break up for a REASON, unless the reason is really lame, most of the time, if you get back with him, the reason will come back again and you guys might break up again .

like my situation, i was with my ex for 9 months on and off going? we were together for 4 straight months and then.. it was just on and off. the reason was that we didnt see each other and we just had lame excuses. back then i didnt care because i really liked her . and yes i do believe in 2nd chances. however, i gave her my 2nd chance, even my 3rd, even my 4th, and at the end, she cheated on me while i was gone . hmm yeah. ask you friends.. see how they feel about it.
 
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post Apr 7 2007, 10:39 AM
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Usualy its a no.But some occasions ill give another chance.
 
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post Apr 7 2007, 01:40 PM
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Depends on the situation really...with my current boyfriend, if we were to break up, and if he were to ask for a second chance I'd give it to him because I know him well enough to know that he wouldn't do things on purpose to hurt me.

But for stuff like cheating...nah. I doubt I can forgive him if he were to do that.
 
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post Jan 9 2008, 01:18 AM
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Yeah, I do. Everyone makes mistakes and can change their ways especially if they put their heart into it. Just be certain that they do deserve another shot and won't just waste your time by not even compromising. Some people will never change, not even for themselves.
 
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post Jan 9 2008, 10:59 AM
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It may not make sense to my friends, but I would take him back in a second.
 
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post Jan 9 2008, 11:00 AM
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Depends. But if you broke up with them once for some reason, would it ever really work again?
 
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post Jan 9 2008, 11:12 AM
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Yes and no.

If my trust were utterly betrayed, then absolutely not.
 
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post Jan 9 2008, 11:23 AM
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Probably not. I don't really do second chances, especially if someone completely screws me over.
 
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post Jan 9 2008, 11:24 AM
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Not anymore. _smile.gif
 

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