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A Lesbian Friend..., would you feel comfortable?
Would you feel comfortable if you friend was a lesbian?
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SimplicityGirl
post Mar 25 2007, 01:25 PM
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Yup. One of my good friends is a lesbian and she's one of the coolest people I know.
 
mitsue_mango3
post Mar 25 2007, 11:13 PM
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more like the other way around for me! i wish my freinds were lesbians, too.
 
elaboratedream
post Apr 1 2007, 09:03 PM
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I only have like... 1 or 2 straight friends.
 
shortnsweet88
post Apr 1 2007, 10:48 PM
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I wouldnt mind at all. I'm pretty open to that kind of stuff. I sure as hell would not judge her.
 
whenshesdancing
post Apr 2 2007, 12:06 PM
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well, it's there choice. so whatever floats their boat! wouldn't change them for the world.
 
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post Apr 3 2007, 04:15 PM
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At first i would feel uncomfertable becuase they could be like checking you out when you dont know it but after awhile i would get use to it
 
misoshiru
post Apr 3 2007, 04:41 PM
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^ Like other people said, that's just like having guy friends. They could be checking you out without you knowing it also. rolleyes.gif

I go to an all-women's college and there is a large lesbian/bisexual community. It's really not a big deal.
 
elaboratedream
post Apr 4 2007, 10:51 AM
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QUOTE(XxBrookxX @ Apr 3 2007, 5:15 PM) *
At first i would feel uncomfertable becuase they could be like checking you out when you dont know it but after awhile i would get use to it


for the most part, (there are a few exceptions) lesbians dont "check out" their straight friends.
We aren't any more interested in straight girls than other straight girls are. We know they're sort of "off limits". And for the most part, we aren't terribly attracted to straight girls either.

Believe it or not, lesbians aren't sexually attracted to every girl they see. I know, shocking!

QUOTE(tincannnnn @ Apr 2 2007, 1:06 PM) *
well, it's there choice. so whatever floats their boat! wouldn't change them for the world.


Thank you for being supportive

...but there's one part of what you said that really bothered me.

It's not our choice. We dont choose to be gay. Its just how we are. I in no way chose to be a lesbian. Now, I wouldn't want it any other way, but I fought it for years. I became the biggest homophobe you'll ever meet. The thought that I could be anything but straight terrified me.
And I know so many other people with similar experiences.
 
Shelley_Mackenzi...
post Apr 7 2007, 08:16 PM
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I know...3 lesbians, and not many people realize that lesbian/gay people aren't attracted to every girl/boy they see. just like you aren't attracted to every guy you see.
 

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