he's so jealous., ughh help. |
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 Apr 3 2007, 10:05 AM
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okay so my boyfriend, he's great and everything. but he's so jealous of every guy in my school. if they look at me, smile, or talk to me. he thinks they like me. and i don't know what to do.
he doesnt trust me at all. which he does have one reason to not. but that was aloooong time ago. and i want his trust back. so i can do what i want, & be happy. what to do what to do help me out? <3 |
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Apr 3 2007, 10:09 AM
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He's just a little insecure and seems to want to protect you from the other guys. I think you should talk to him about it and tell him that you're with HIM, and not anyone else.
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Apr 3 2007, 10:11 AM
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oh trust me
i have. he won't listen to me. he basically said "it's them, or me." |
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Apr 3 2007, 10:12 AM
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Ah, I've been in the same situation as you. I guess he's just a very jealous person. Well, you can always try to get him to see your point of view. Does he have anything girl friends?
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Apr 3 2007, 10:14 AM
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QUOTE(My Cinderella. @ Apr 3 2007, 7:12 AM)  Ah, I've been in the same situation as you. I guess he's just a very jealous person. Well, you can always try to get him to see your point of view. Does he have anything girl friends? no. he doesnt even wanna talk to any other girls. he just wants me. even though i've told him i thought it was okay to talk to other girls. except a select few i don't like. :) |
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Apr 3 2007, 10:15 AM
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Well, he should understand that not ALL your friends are going to be girls. It's not like every guy you talk to you want to go out with.
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Apr 3 2007, 10:18 AM
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QUOTE(My Cinderella. @ Apr 3 2007, 7:15 AM) Well, he should understand that not ALL your friends are going to be girls. It's not like every guy you talk to you want to go out with. see! you understand where i'm coming from [i think] i just wish he'd understand. he's mad at me right now. [gay] i'm at school, btw rofl :) |
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Apr 3 2007, 10:20 AM
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It's up to you what you want to do. If you want to continue talking to them, be my guest.
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Apr 3 2007, 10:21 AM
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QUOTE(My Cinderella. @ Apr 3 2007, 7:20 AM) It's up to you what you want to do. If you want to continue talking to them, be my guest. well i havent talked to them but i kinda want to, but then i don't. i dunno. but thanks for talking to me <3 |
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Apr 3 2007, 10:29 AM
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 [BRITT;;] Group: Member Posts: 764 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,210 |
QUOTE no. he doesnt even wanna talk to any other girls. he just wants me. even though i've told him i thought it was okay to talk to other girls. except a select few i don't like. :) wow. i went through the EXACT same thing. it went on for a while, but after a while he didn`t like not talking to girls. idk. we broke up, not over that. we`re still really close, probably going to get back together sometime soon. but you should really talk. ;/ like why he would think any guy likes you and even if they did that you wouldn`t go with them. |
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Apr 3 2007, 10:32 AM
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QUOTE(Brittany Rachelle @ Apr 3 2007, 7:29 AM) wow. i went through the EXACT same thing. it went on for a while, but after a while he didn`t like not talking to girls. idk. we broke up, not over that. we`re still really close, probably going to get back together sometime soon. but you should really talk. ;/ like why he would think any guy likes you and even if they did that you wouldn`t go with them. thank you for replying :) well the reason he doesnt trust me so much. is about 3 months ago. i talked to another guy behind his back. i was going to break up with him [my boyfriend] and go out with the other guy. but i didnt. it was so long ago. and he stilll won't trust me. =/ |
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Apr 3 2007, 02:14 PM
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QUOTE(cheerupxemokid @ Apr 3 2007, 10:32 AM) thank you for replying :) well the reason he doesnt trust me so much. is about 3 months ago. i talked to another guy behind his back. i was going to break up with him [my boyfriend] and go out with the other guy. but i didnt. it was so long ago. and he stilll won't trust me. =/ 3 months might not be a long time to him. i can understand why he would do that, but it really isn't fair for you, its not like every guy likes you and wants to date you. maybe you should try talking to him be straight forward saying that you want his trust back, but you also want to be able to talk to other guys and not have to ask for his permission. |
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Apr 3 2007, 02:46 PM
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it's scary when relationships enter this stage.
someone fucks up, trust is out the window. he/she gives you another chance, but that chance is revenge in disguise. THEY WONT TRUST YOU FOR SHIT!!! you will feel guilty for f**king up, and you will do everything to earn their trust back. you will give up your pride, dignity, happiness, etc. for the sake of "love" this will remain in your conscience for a while; if you hadn't f**ked up, you wouldn't be in this situation, yadda yadda yadda. Look. You messed up. You apologized. He said he'd give you once last chance, but if he turns into a jealous fiend who would yell and cuss and trip over the most ridiculous things like an old man waving hi to you; LET IT GO. It is not worth it. Guys become that way because their PRIDE is on the line. If he really loves you, he'll choose YOU over his PRIDE. If he remains acting like a jealous freak, DROP HIM. You already apologized, you tried to gain his trust, but i'm sorry to say this but he will always have that void in him. he will always doubt you even if he says he doesn't. Once a guy gets possesive and obsessed... shit gets scary. You become their property. You lose your humanity. Maybe I'm overexagerrating.. but I'm still healing from my wounds. I went through this at a LARGER SCALE and it got reallllly bad. I hope you figure things out and it works out for the best. |
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Apr 3 2007, 03:58 PM
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 BABESTARR Group: Member Posts: 600 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 442,634 |
he sounds like one of those dominent guys, who'd lock you up just so no one can see you...and so he can keep you all by himself...i hate guys like that..i want a relationship thats equal...if you love him, i guess the only way to cope is put up with his jealousy....but then you can just tell him wassup, and talk it through with him...yan'kno??
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Apr 3 2007, 04:38 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
well
since you talked about breaking up with him, why don't you just break up with him now? could you please stop typing like that? |
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Apr 3 2007, 07:53 PM
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He's over-protective, enough said. Keep it up and you'll be in an abusive relationship (if not already) in no time.
Why are you even staying with him? |
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Apr 3 2007, 08:06 PM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
I wish my guy showed a bit jelaousy =\
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Apr 4 2007, 12:19 PM
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 Photoartist Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,363 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 399,390 |
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