so u thought u were in love... Options

[andyisasian]

okay, so we grow up daily. we change daily, our opinions always differ, sometimes from the day before, sometimes from the month before, sometimes from years before. either way, it changed.
and what do we do about it? we usually learn from it.

for an example ::

you meet someone, and you think they are just ahhh so amazing. so you find yourself just wanting to get to know them and find out what their motives are and what their input is on what you have to say. wow, you think. this person is just so incredible, i think i'm in love.
and next thing you know you are spending all of your time with this person, they are the one person who can make you smile on a bad day, the first thing you think of in the morning, the last thought before you sleep. this person becomes your everything, and you think, oh, it's freaking love. then next thing you know, this same person is the one person you never can handle being around, the one person who you have so many great memories with but everything bad that happened SOMEHOW outweighs all the good and all you want to do is just forget about them.
your hurt. and suddenly you start to think was it all just lies from day one, and all your mind dwells on is finding bad in everything good. then you start to think, well was it even love or was i just blinding myself and pretending it was?

It was. for that time anyway. you see, as we grow our hearts will be broken, and then we'll start to realize to be more careful who we trust with such a fragile thing.because our whole view of love is just so shaken up from one person from back when you "thought you were in love"

....the question.."have you ever been in love"
and the answer "I thought so"
should never be said. because at that time in your life, that is was love was. therefore it really happened.

when you were younger you loved getting happy meals and hoped it was a different toy then it was the month before, and it's all you could think about, just hoping is was different, why? because you were ready for a change.

so basically what I'm trying to say is,
don't just give up on things because your opinion changed or something happened. because at one time that was your opinion, and if something happened, then it was obviously real.


that was tonight. this was last night. ::

how do we know when we actually find the person we're supposedly "in love" with? it could be anyone, you know. it could be the person you're with, the person you see everyday across the room, the person you'll never forget. who ever it is, they started off as being a stranger, and you meet someone new almost everyday, therefore, it could be anyone.

girls, you'll find him. you'll find that guy you've been looking for.
you know, the one that opens doors for you, walks you to your car and to your door..calls you just say say good night, calls you to say have a good day, one that actually calls you. the one that eats dinner with your family and hugs you from behind.
the one that kisses your cheek and reaches for your hand.
he is out there, somewhere. don't lose hope.

and guys, you'll find her.
she may not be your ideal "hot chick" package, because lets face it, not every girl is a model. some you say are too skinny then there is too fat, make up your minds. but your girl is out there, the one that you can call in front of your guy friends and have to hide the saying "i love you", the one that on a bad day brings you your favorite food for a suprise lunch, the one that when you're sick, brings you soup, and your favorite movie. the one that would give you massages and let you have your video game time. the one that doesn't make you pay for everything because she has too much pride.

there are few
and they don't seem perfect until you realize, that they are the closest to perfect you've ever seen, then you just have to get to know them,
so watch who you meet, because it all starts out being strangers.



so u agree?


Source: http://www.testriffic.com/story/smushiyy1/1407
-- Arjuna

This post has been edited by Arjuna Capulong: Apr 2 2007, 04:58 PM

[Imlearning]

i TOTALLY agree on that!

i love it.

[Kerfunkle]

i can admit i thought i was in love, but it all changed in a couple of weeks, except unlike you described it, it wasnt me who couldnt stand her, she just got tired of me and kicked me out of her life completely.... but thats over now so it means i have the chance of finding that perfect girl...

[y0urelectrikk]

..it all sounds so familiar.
this made me cry.

[ubeonmymind]

thiss issss soooo true mayn i love this

[xlitoxb]

This was really sweet. I knew I was in love, and truth is, I still kinda am. Only it's just a one-sided ordeal. I'm tracking your topic btw. =]

[lostgrl16]

i definitely agree. i was in love with a guy for a couple years, i really believe it, but we just went different ways. we just grew and change with what life handed us.

[EmoEyelinerx]

i totally agree. this made me cry it was really beauteful and it was well said. ♥i think i found my guy♥

[wishforhelsinki]

I've answered the question, "Have you ever been in love?" with "I thought so" before.
You're right though. I did love him. Somewhere in my heart, I still do.
And I swear you're breaking me everytime I look at the stuff you post.

[ksoyeah]

This is adorable! :]

[ANG33ZY]

thanks for posting.

[andyisasian]

i TOTALLY agree on that!

i love it.

:) thank you for reading it

i can admit i thought i was in love, but it all changed in a couple of weeks, except unlike you described it, it wasnt me who couldnt stand her, she just got tired of me and kicked me out of her life completely.... but thats over now so it means i have the chance of finding that perfect girl...

its life, love comes an goes when u have reached the point where love is no longer in this so called "equation" happiness is all yours

..it all sounds so familiar.
this made me cry.

aww im sorry i didnt mean to make u cry :/

thiss issss soooo true mayn i love this

ahh everyones crying

This was really sweet. I knew I was in love, and truth is, I still kinda am. Only it's just a one-sided ordeal. I'm tracking your topic btw. =]

hmm ive been in love to, or i thought i was one to many times

i definitely agree. i was in love with a guy for a couple years, i really believe it, but we just went different ways. we just grew and change with what life handed us.

thats true, wht life has planed for us really does change everything that happens :/
when your reached the emotion of love it hurts more when your just anther thing to the other person

i totally agree. this made me cry it was really beauteful and it was well said. ♥i think i found my guy♥

:) thanks for understanding wht i mean
aww congradulations <3

I've answered the question, "Have you ever been in love?" with "I thought so" before.
You're right though. I did love him. Somewhere in my heart, I still do.
And I swear you're breaking me everytime I look at the stuff you post.

hmm i have to sadly, im sorry i dont want to break u ://

This is adorable! :]

hah thanks

thanks for posting.

np

[HelplessCry]

preach on brother preach on! xD

yeah at moments i gave up on love but i always find it pulling me back haha.

[ItsFonetikkFYI]

Yeah! I can't wait 'til I really do find true love.
But that'll last for ever.

But when I do, I want it to be just like John and Yoko. Knowing that that's the person you were meant to be with... except without that whole breaking up the most influential band in history/divorce/adultery/marijuana thing.

it's a shame she had him, but then lost him.

♥

[niciDOOM]

it made me cry too
for me, i knew i was in love and i still am
the problem was was that he didnt feel the same
way about me. i still care for him and i want him to
be happy always, he just took me for granted.

[misoshiru]

So, I saw what Seon Ho said in your "About Girls" topic that was closed due to plagiarism.


Looks like you did it again.
http://www.testriffic.com/story/smushiyy1/1407

[Simba]

You really shouldn't be going around plagiarizing like this, sir.
This is your verbal warning.

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