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[bitesnkisses]

What do you do when your boyfriend is getting constantlyhit on by girls.....
His parents hate you.....
and there's nothing you can do about it because you're not allowed to talk to him...

???

[*mishyerr*]

If you're in middleschool~ get over it. It probably won't last anyways.

If he constantly gets hit on, just think about it positively: he's dating YOU, not those other girls. :)

And if his parents hate you, that basically sucks. There's not much you can do about it except attempt to change their opinion. They probably don't really hate you; they're just be protective parents.

[luvnhate]

Well if he's consistent on it and really wants to go out with u then he shoul dtry to convince his parents that u're not bad or whatever the reason they hate u for he should try to make it work

but if ur the one who is onli trying to make it work then u shouldn't really try because whats the use then.

[*My Cinderella.*]

Well if you really believe that you like him then you should show it. Don't worry about the other girls that hit on him because YOU'RE the one with the man candy. If his parents don't like you, make them like you! Be extra nice and polite.

[alysaphobia]

well, why do his parents hate you?
they could be just protective of their son... or are you actually doing something that makes them uncomfortable? try to be as polite as possible around the 'rents (:

and how come you're not allowed to talk to him? have you done something to offend his parents or your parents?

and ... as long as your guy doesn't obviously enjoy the being hit on or flirt back crazily, you're fine. because he's dating you, not the other girls.

[LimaBean]

If hes the one getting hit on, than its not a big problem. If hes hitting on them back then you have a problem. Dont worry if his parents dislike you, its not like your getting married, take it easy and let things flow. eventually theyll see that your cool. if your not allowed to talk to him then dont call his house lols if the situation is stressing you I think you should just move on and find another guy who doesnt come with issues

[bitesnkisses]

Well, his parents don't like me because, I'm not white, I'm not preppy, and I'm not like evry other girl... some people think I'm weird.... and his mom just doesn't like me, and unless I can change the color of my skin somehow (wouldn't do it) I don't know what to do to make her like me.

[cupcakex]

I pretty much agree with what everyone else has said.

He's dating you, and not the girls that hit on him.

Look at it this way, you can make them all jealous, because you're with him.
;]

Anyways, if his parents don't like you because you're not white, then that's on them.
Being racist gives you a very heavy weight to hold.
If their son likes you, then they just need to get over it.
Not to say you guys are going to end up getting married, but if he prefers girls that aren't white, they'll have to get over it someday.

Just don't do anything to make them dislike you as a person.
When you're around them, do your best to make small talk, and be very friendly.

Maybe they'll figure out you're a great girl, and that your skin color doesn't make you who you are.

Good luck.

[*mishyerr*]

Well, his parents don't like me because, I'm not white, I'm not preppy, and I'm not like evry other girl... some people think I'm weird.... and his mom just doesn't like me, and unless I can change the color of my skin somehow (wouldn't do it) I don't know what to do to make her like me.

Maybe you could offer to 'hang out' with them more? Like let his parents get to know YOU more, so they can judge based on your personality rather than the first appearance. :)

[NgocQuyen]

awwh, i'm kind of in the same situation right now!
first off, about girls hitting on your boyfriend, the best thing you can do is trust him :)
about his parents not liking you, i don't really know. see, his parents never really met me, they only talked to me on the phone, and they don't like me so far because my boyfriend and i are constantly on the phone with eachother all night, every night. lol. i mean i talk to his mom and she seems very nice and sweet so i just talk to her. i mean you can just try to visit them often and just chit chat i guess you could say? bring gifts? i have no idea. lol
if you really wanted to stay in the relationship, then you can get through this! hehe i hardly get to talk to my boyfriend any more either because his mother found out about me, but i don't want to give up on us just because of that. things are getting a wee bit better. things always get better if you think positively

[*suddenly she*]

Let's see.

My boyfriend gets hit on to the point where I think it's just hilarious now. I don't really think it's such a big deal anymore - he's mine and I'm his and we've proved that beyond all reason.

My parents hate him and his parents love me; but I'm not allowed to talk to him ... which doesn't really matter because we have mad connections! It's like a giant messenger system.

If you don't trust him while other girls are getting all on him... well then, you can't do anything about it.

Now walk it out.

[alysaphobia]

well, it's their problem they're racist.
at least you guys aren't like getting married or anything. because then you'd have a real problem.

if you and this guy's relationship isn't worth that much to you, it may be best to just walk away, because you seem uncomfortable with him getting hit on a lot (and i don't blame you) and because his parents don't like you very much. but if this relationship is worth something to you, don't let his parents rule over it. act as polite and nice as possible to them to prove you are a girl they'd want your son to date. win 'em over ;)

[ifonlyyouknew]

My boyfriends mom took my boyfriends net away, also cell, and wouldn't lemme see/talk to him at all for about a month but then me and her talked and shes okay with me now.
I'd say get to know his mom. My boyfriend has like, 20 girls that like him, if he truly loves you, you'll be the only girl he notices.