Relationship Help, Some people just don't get it. |
 Feb 21 2007, 04:12 AM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer.  Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316  |
I've been apart of this group for a little while now, and it just seems that the people are so damn ignorant. I try to tell them that they should just do what they feel is right. You know, use common sense, but it seems that over and over, I always here that same sad story. I feel like I should pull out my violin or something and play them a song.
How do you think I should get them to listen to me and stop crying about their stupid little problems? |
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Feb 21 2007, 05:38 AM
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 Holla if ya hate me Group: Member Posts: 2,386 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,819 |
Simple really, just ignore them.
Ignore them, it's not your own problem anyway. Let them to figure it out for themselves for once. No need to elaborate on this one. |
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Feb 21 2007, 12:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Human Posts: 659 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 494,019 |
Well, before you can do that you need to stop crying yourself. It would help if you weren't such a bitch. haha. joking dude. The majority of the randomly opinionated on this site are between the ages of 12 and 16. Of course they're not gonna listen to you, you can't relate to "their" problems. Because it's not like you haven't been through the exact same thing. Plus they don't actually want your help, just say they do in order to talk about the newest thing in their life. If you want them to actually listen, go to their houses and beat the sense into them, that is after they get back from little league and their paper route.
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Feb 21 2007, 02:55 PM
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 Oh My Goblet of Fire! Group: Member Posts: 222 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 504,421 |
I think a lot of people are so influenced by fairy tales and love stories that they forget they're in REALITY where people fall out of love. Everyone's looking for that one person. You should show your friends how big the world is and how many people you can meet. Take them in the city and make it your goal to meet a lot of people. Get their minds off of it and they will eventually see it your way.
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Feb 21 2007, 05:25 PM
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QUOTE(Funky Buddha @ Feb 21 2007, 5:38 AM)  Simple really, just ignore them. Ignore them, it's not your own problem anyway. Let them to figure it out for themselves for once. No need to elaborate on this one. I agree, you really need to ignore them... I am one of the most frequent users of this forum. I know... there are some problems that are so f**king stupid on here. You just need let life take it's course. |
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Feb 21 2007, 05:49 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,614 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,903 |
I think you need to tell the person straight up that you really don't have the time to sit there and listen to the same stuff over and over again. You need to let them down easy.. and not like.. " BITCH, I DON'T CARE! " I mean come on they are your friends. I would also tell them that you have problems that you have to deal with also and you just don't have the time to worry about other people when you have shit to deal with in your own life.
YEAH! |
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Feb 21 2007, 08:50 PM
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 CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
People best learn from their own mistakes. Trial & error.
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Feb 21 2007, 09:12 PM
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SLAP THEM IN THE FACE AND TAKE AWAY ALL THEIR MONEY.
People only whine about their own problems because they're too f**king ignorant and blind to see that their problems aren't worth a shit's shit. ^_^ |
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Feb 21 2007, 10:08 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
QUOTE(JakeKKing @ Feb 21 2007, 4:12 AM) I've been apart of this group for a little while now, and it just seems that the people are so damn ignorant. I try to tell them that they should just do what they feel is right. You know, use common sense, but it seems that over and over, I always here that same sad story. I feel like I should pull out my violin or something and play them a song. How do you think I should get them to listen to me and stop crying about their stupid little problems? You start learning the violin. I can help you there. |
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Feb 21 2007, 10:53 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 628 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,376 |
QUOTE(mishyerr @ Feb 21 2007, 10:12 PM) People only whine about their own problems because they're too f**king ignorant and blind to see that their problems aren't worth a shit's shit. i totally agree. there are those who are dying, have no food, have no homes right now; they are worrying if they'll live tomorrow. (dramatic much?) while some are worrying what they are going to wear tomorrow and/or how to lose weight.. get your friends to meet hobos or go to africa...then they'll understand. |
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Feb 21 2007, 10:54 PM
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 ♥ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,066 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,393 |
It's a shame, but you can't force maturity. It's something they'll have to learn on their own time. Be glad you've got a good head on your shoulders.
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Feb 22 2007, 05:30 AM
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Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
QUOTE(oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo @ Feb 21 2007, 5:49 PM) I think you need to tell the person straight up that you really don't have the time to sit there and listen to the same stuff over and over again. You need to let them down easy.. and not like.. " BITCH, I DON'T CARE! " I mean come on they are your friends. I would also tell them that you have problems that you have to deal with also and you just don't have the time to worry about other people when you have shit to deal with in your own life. YEAH! They aren't my friends. Just random people. Read my post again, then Jeremy's. It will be really obvious what I'm talking about. QUOTE(Funky Buddha @ Feb 21 2007, 5:38 AM) Simple really, just ignore them. Ignore them, it's not your own problem anyway. Let them to figure it out for themselves for once. No need to elaborate on this one. I know this has nothing to do with this topic, but are you in our club? I'm just wondering cause your signature says 'The Holy Trinity' I don't know if you're just goofing around, but it's funny. QUOTE(BitterSweetness @ Feb 21 2007, 10:53 PM) i totally agree. there are those who are dying, have no food, have no homes right now; they are worrying if they'll live tomorrow. (dramatic much?) while some are worrying what they are going to wear tomorrow and/or how to lose weight.. get your friends to meet hobos or go to africa...then they'll understand. Dude, I love you. That's my total outlook on selfishness. You have it better than so many other people, why are you crying about your life? Exactly. THANK YOU! SOME ONE UNDERSTANDS! QUOTE(Chérie. @ Feb 21 2007, 10:08 PM) You start learning the violin. I can help you there. haha. Yeah, I actually have a violin bow in my room. It's for my guitar. I know. Doesn't make much sense, but it sounds awesome. Haha. I need to learn how to fiddle to cheer up the selfish bastard emo kids. haha. QUOTE(Uronacid @ Feb 21 2007, 5:25 PM) I agree, you really need to ignore them... I am one of the most frequent users of this forum. I know... there are some problems that are so f**king stupid on here. You just need let life take it's course. Haha. Yeah, it is pretty sad that we joined this forum at the same time pretty much and you have almost three times as much posts as I do. Loser. Get a life!   Dude, if I ignore them I wont get a spot on Top Ten Poster of the Day. DuH! QUOTE(The Abominable C-Pillar @ Feb 21 2007, 12:43 PM) Well, before you can do that you need to stop crying yourself. It would help if you weren't such a bitch. haha. joking dude. The majority of the randomly opinionated on this site are between the ages of 12 and 16. Of course they're not gonna listen to you, you can't relate to "their" problems. Because it's not like you haven't been through the exact same thing. Plus they don't actually want your help, just say they do in order to talk about the newest thing in their life. If you want them to actually listen, go to their houses and beat the sense into them, that is after they get back from little league and their paper route. How can I not relate to their problems? That's the point of advice. To get information from some one who has been there already. Obviously if I can answer their questions I've had to deal with it one time or another in my life. Some advice to you. Stop masterbating so much and get a real job.           LOOK I"M OVERDOING IT LIKE JOSH DOES!
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| *Monochrome.* |
Feb 24 2007, 08:43 AM
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Sometimes all you can do is give the advice and walk away.If they dont listen...f**k em.
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Feb 24 2007, 10:49 AM
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Holla if ya hate me Group: Member Posts: 2,386 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,819 |
QUOTE I know this has nothing to do with this topic, but are you in our club? I'm just wondering cause your signature says 'The Holy Trinity' I don't know if you're just goofing around, but it's funny. Why would I want to be in 'The Unholy Trinity' ? The Holy Trinity is where it's at :P |
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Feb 24 2007, 11:57 AM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
^ Hey, which one are you? Blossom? Buttercup? Bubbles?
Seriously, if they don't care for what you say, let them be. In a few years, they'll look back and would've said "Damnit. That guy on the forum was right. Now I'm 17 and pregnant and the father left me. Boo-hoo-hoo." |
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Feb 24 2007, 11:59 AM
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Holla if ya hate me Group: Member Posts: 2,386 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,819 |
QUOTE(tic tac. @ Feb 24 2007, 11:57 AM) ^ Hey, which one are you? Blossom? Buttercup? Bubbles? I'm the professor bitch >=D |
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