My Friend//Crush, My friend is going out with a guy i LOVE Options

[Liana_Way]

Okay so there's this guy and im 99.9% sure its love
My best friend likes him
he likes her
And he is one of my best friends too
so i saw a conversation her and him had on myspace
and they realy like each other but arent doing anything cuz of me
so i told her she can go out with him since he only likes me as a friend
and i realy LOVE him so it bothers me
what do i do?

[*My Cinderella.*]

I guess I can see where you're coming from. You told your friend that she should even though it bothered you? This is a tough situation. You can do many things.

1. Tell her about your feelings.
2. Let them be happy with each other.
3. Think about who you value more.
4. Think about whether you really do "love" this guy.

Moved to Relationships.

[skillxz]

Summed up nicely.

[*Uronacid*]

Well, I think it's great that your friend respects your feelings. I think that the best thing you can do is realize that it's just a highschool relationship, let it go, and have fun. There's no need to let life drag you down, there are plenty of fish in the sea.

[cmpunk4me]

Well right now i have this situation where i like this dude n my best friend is going out with him.I was really jealouzz cuzz i liked this dude since 1st grade n that is a LONG LONG LONG time for where i am at now.My friend said she would brake up with him for me.But i told her Alex,if i am going to be a good friend i can't let u do that because you are my best friend u can't give up him just for me.He doesn't like me he likes u alot.He would be really hurt n i don't want to see him really sad because of it.If u like him u stay with him,if u don't just brake up with him n tell him u are sorry u like some 1 else (wich i know she does she likes a kid named zack i told her how could she connor likes u to much)Well tonight before she goes out with him to the movies she is going to brake up with him.I don't know what to do this is the second time she has done this to him.Even though u like this guy u should be happy for them not tear them down (not that i am saying u r cuzz u didn't do anything) I tried to think i this sistuation in a good way that he is a happy guy because he is with her but i just feel bad bout tonight.I know this is like off topic (kind of) but hear are ur choices...


1.U tell him how u feel
2.you tell her how u feel
3.just be happy cuzz he is happy with her
4.forget about him cuzz he might not even notice u
5.be a good friend about it

[leifiram]

I had that happen to me recently, actually. Well, I don't love him, but it's pretty much the same situation. I told them both I was okay with it, and told them to get together. They ended breaking up a week and a half later because 1)she liked another guy, and 2)she didn't want our friendship to be over. However, taking the "easier" route, I stopped being friends with her for a few months. We reconciled, but things aren't as easy. We're all still trying, though.

What I think you should do is evaluate your friendship between each of them. Ask yourself whether you could handle them being together. Talk to them, most of all. Tell them exactly how you feel, and don't hold anything back.

Good luck!

[priyas]

I totally agree with My Cinderella.

[Liana_Way]

Thanks Guys
But yes I do REALLY love him
and um he knows i really love him
and he thinks of me as a best friend
but i think the best thing to do is treat him like a friend and be a little less shy more hyper?
Then do you think he will start to like me?
Cause my best friend said that if he ever likes me she has no problem with us going out
pleez help me please!!!

[xBUTTMUNCHx]

I had this same situation, me and my friend actually stopped talking just because if only she didnt lie about liking him. YOU should really really tell him about how you feel, it'll be better to not leave things unsaid....and TELL your friend how YOU feel, get things straight....its best everyone knows how who is feeling, then there wouldnt be any misunderstandings...