Girls,I need advice, GIrls always know what to do,so help? Options

[magicfann]

i bet you suck at life

[Stefanny]

Don't let a guy take control of your life right now.
21 days is NOT good enough for marriage. Wait until you've finished high school to get married, or at least wait until high school for engagement.

[amyx312]

21 DAYS? & you guys are in love. i don't think so. i don't think you both know if you guys really love each other. & you guys are really young. just have fun you know. just don't take your relationship in a whole level like getting married & everything. i remember when i was 13 i thought i loved this guy but it turned out i didn't & it also turned out that he was trying to get in my pants. just think about it.

[voguelove]

..youre 13, and youve only been together for 3 weeks.
obviously, it should be no.


are you really ready to assume all responsibilities of a wife? i mean, you're only 13 for gods sakes. some people date for YEARS before the word marriage is even brought up. and why are you already thinking about sex? do you really believe that you can carry a child in your mini adult body and actually care for it?





think about what youre trying to ask us, here. because, it's ridiculous.

[-sincerely]

you're in middle school. no.

[Sammiebanks]

it's too early hun. my little sister is in the same boat as you, she 'LOVES' this guy and theyve been together for 7 months, she's 14 and thinks he's her life forever from now on, but let me tell you, your wrong.


i may not be the right person to be dictating to you as i got engaged at 17, but this was to someone who i had been with for nearly 4 years, only then did we think about it. If this is a way of you two getting together just to have se.x which is what your post sounds like, dont do it! it isnt as good as it's made out to be, im being frank with you, but the younger you are, the more it hurts! my sister lost her verginity at 14 and when she went to the doctors they likened it to hitting a peach with a brick! your insides just arent ready for it and thats why theres an age limit, dont do anything silly as it really isnt worth it!

you may feel like he's perfect now, but youre only 13, there are so many more males out there, and you need to maybe experiment a bit before settling down, especially at the age of 13 :D

if your still together in 3 years, maybe think about it again, but certainly not at the moment

Sammie x

[cancholac]

Only 21 days you should deffinatley wait longer plus your too young to think about marrage
especially after 21 days

[*Uronacid*]

I don't even know why you guys waste your time in this topic... Blaire obviously doesn't care about what we think because she hasn't replied.

[shortnsweet88]

At that age relationships rarely work...they do work...but rarely. My suggestion is that if yall get engaged its going to be a very, very bad move. You have to understand that you are very young and its a big decision that some people have trouble making at much older ages even. Plus, the fact that yall think you are in love...after dating for 21 days, its just not going to cut it. I was in love with my boyfriend for five years, people split though, and you dont want to do that in the middle of an engagement. Be careful, take it slow.

[xylophonist]

You're waaayy too young. And I can guarentee that you guys aren't in love. Getting engaged is for more serious relationships that have been going strong for months or years. 21 days isn't a long time at all.

Plus, i doubt your parents would allow you to get married anytime soon.

Good luck on staying together though.

[mszladyp]

Woah.. engagement are for people who wants to get married. You're like 13 only plus you've only met the guy for 21 days. WTF!? (no offence)

[y0urelectrikk]

i bet you suck at life

......lol

ah 13.. so you're like in middle school?
I serioulsy thought this was a joke at first.

[Kontroll]

i think you need a reality check. instead of focusing about falling in love in just 21 days how about focusing on your school work? your only 13, focus on your GRADES.

Tolly. Love knows no age, but in this day and age, people are less mature at younger ages. School is more important than a boyfriend right now. I'm gonna love when you're like 20 and see how much of an idiot you are.

[*Monochrome.*]

Honey. i really think you shouldent worry about all of this just like right now.
after all you are only 13.

[pinacoolada]

Well there are two problems here...XD
1. You're 13, and you're probably just infatuated because...
2. You guys have been dating for 21 days.
Take it slow, and if you guys last a few years, then maybe you should. Just enjoy what it is for now and don't worry about the future =]

[hmm_dragon]

thats the stuff that makes teens lose there virginity at such a young age because the girls believe them

[Aerjae]

You should think about it first. I mean, come on, it's the rest of your life.

[lanbexx]

why is it that the guy's always have the shortest, the most realistic, and the most meaningful answers

[*Uronacid*]

Well, I have already been serious in this post... so...

STOP BEING SUCH A f**king IDIOT AND DUMP THIS MANIPULATIVE MORON!!!

[Lacey;Elizabeth]

Erik and I have been dating for 21 days.That is all.And he and I think we really love eachother.I'm not quite sure about my feelings for him,and I don't know if he is just trying to get in my pants.But,most of the time,he really does seem very respectful,and he does make it seem like he really does love me.I'm 13,and he's 15.And I am always wondering if I really love him like I say I do.So I don't know what to do.And,on top of that,he is a fifteen year old guy,and God only knows what the plans in his head are.But last night,he mentioned to me he wnted to marry me,but we are too young.But he then said after that that we are not too young to get engaged.I have had people tell me that I need to get my prioritys straight,and focus more on school.But I really don't know what to do.I need to clear my head.

If this is a serious question thats crazy. Im gonna be 18, have a kid on the way, and Ive been with my boyfriend for over two years and Im not gettin engaged cuz i know im too young. Dont ruin your life. Your 13 years old you got plenty of years to go before you find the one your gonna marry. Hey maybe you guys will stay together till your actually old enough to make the right decisions but odds are your not gonna! Dont get engaged until you have your life on track. Finish school, go get a degree or something, then get a house, then get engaged!

[*Uronacid*]

AS SERIOUS AS YOU ARE ALL BEING... THIS STUPID GIRL HASN'T RETURNED TO THIS POST IN AGES!!!! DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME THINKING ABOUT SOMETHING NO-ONE IS GOING TO READ...

[*Frénésie*]

I didn't read the whole text. After seeing:

Erik and I have been dating for 21 days.

And

I'm 13,and he's 15.

My answer is HELL NO.
I'm sure you know why. You're not stupid.

[deletethisplease]

you guys are a little young, not that there's anything wrong with that, but, how many people have you dated? Rushing into something such as engagement and marriage along is mere stupidity unless your 100% sure that that person is everything you need and want. so the answer is don't get engaged, because chances are you don't want that either.

[me1issaaaa]

That just wasted a good minute or two of my life.
This deserves a slap in the face. Actually, about 10 slaps. And then some.

[deletethisplease]

That just wasted a good minute or two of my life.
This deserves a slap in the face. Actually, about 10 slaps. And then some.

agreed, try 25