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 Feb 7 2007, 01:47 PM
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ok well, ever since i was little i had two best friends
one guy and one girl and we've been friends since 3rd grade we did everything together when we were kids i had feelings for him since i was little i knew who he liked for a long time and i tried to get them together but she never liked him and three years later , i heard a rumor that he liked me so we were together "mutally" for a month and 2 months and i kept on waiting for him to ask me out but he never did so i ignored him  and he tried everything to talk to me but i was stubborn so i never gave him a chance. until the middle of that year i really missed him so i tried everything to talk to him but it was a little too late so he completely ignored me  i gave him a birthday present but he never took it and i said sorry to him many many times and now this year i kno that hes moving but i still have feelings for him and im really scared to tell him cause i kno he would say no but for some reason this year he seems to notice me a lot more than last year he is the first guy i met in america and my first best friend its been 2 years since we havent talked we pass each other in the hall all the time and thats the only time when i can glance at him it hurts a lot to kno that from now on hes not gonna be here anymore and a lot of my friends are telling me to move on so.. i have 2 questions 1. should i keep on trying or move on? 2. should i give him a present before he goes? please help me, it would mean a lot
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Feb 7 2007, 07:20 PM
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 thanhnie Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,059 |
Aww, that's the cutest thing yet really sad, too.
 I think that you should try to move on, but still give him a present before he leaves so he knows how much you care. I think a little note from you would give it a nice personal touch, too. Who knows, maybe because of a simple gesture like that, he might rethink his feelings.  Good luck! 
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Feb 7 2007, 08:36 PM
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aw, this is so sad. :( you should write a book, lol.
well, i think you should have "closure" or whatever. i think you'd feel much better if things got somewhat resolved and you two were at least okay with each other again. if he left and y'all didn't make-up, wouldn't you regret it for a loooong time? |
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Feb 8 2007, 10:22 PM
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^ yu shuld write a book ^^;
tell him. before its too late. give him a present. everything will work out fine! go! HURRY! TELL HIM! =]] |
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Feb 8 2007, 10:38 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
Honestly, you need to move on.
Before he leaves, you might want to tell him how you felt all this time so you can get that off your chest and start a new chapter in your life and push this all behind you. It doesn't matter if you give him a gift, just let him know how you felt so you can move on and not wonder "what ifs". |
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Feb 8 2007, 11:56 PM
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 cvchango Group: Human Posts: 492 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 332,717 |
QUOTE(xxHeaven's_Tearsxx @ Feb 7 2007, 1:47 PM)  ok well, ever since i was little i had two best friends one guy and one girl and we've been friends since 3rd grade we did everything together when we were kids i had feelings for him since i was little i knew who he liked for a long time and i tried to get them together but she never liked him and three years later , i heard a rumor that he liked me so we were together "mutally" for a month and 2 months and i kept on waiting for him to ask me out but he never did so i ignored him and he tried everything to talk to me but i was stubborn so i never gave him a chance. until the middle of that year i really missed him so i tried everything to talk to him but it was a little too late so he completely ignored me i gave him a birthday present but he never took it and i said sorry to him many many times and now this year i kno that hes moving but i still have feelings for him and im really scared to tell him cause i kno he would say no but for some reason this year he seems to notice me a lot more than last year he is the first guy i met in america and my first best friend its been 2 years since we havent talked we pass each other in the hall all the time and thats the only time when i can glance at him it hurts a lot to kno that from now on hes not gonna be here anymore and a lot of my friends are telling me to move on so.. i have 2 questions 1. should i keep on trying or move on? 2. should i give him a present before he goes? please help me, it would mean a lot I went through almost the same thing. I liked this girl. She's my neighbor. I had just moved there, so I just thought she was being nice. So that whole summer, we hung out. I didn't make my move and thought we were just friends. School started and for the first two months it was crazy for me. When I got settled down, I realized that I needed her. I tried getting back with her. But she just did not seem interested in me. And even worse, she told me that she liked me over the summer. I went crazy, because I realized I missed my chance So I can up with this crazy plan of ignoring her. and it all went downhill from there. anyway, the point is... it took stupind me a year and a half to realize that my friendship with her was the most important thing to me. Today, we aren't best of friends, but we still hang out on occasion. now about you... It sounds like he has moved on. I think you should stop trying, and try to restore the friendship. If you really cared about him, then you should realize the importance of your friendship, because you are not going to get anything more. It hurts I know. best of luck wow that was long... my bad |
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