Is it bad that I have up on love, [I'm only 16] Options

[AngelinaTaylor]

Aw, thanks, but, remember, you're the one with the self teem of 0.5?

People still love me!

But it's ok. I love you!!!!!!!!!1111111111oneoneoneone

[xxmisxtakexx]

You have to some how move on... what would allow you to move on?

can you think of anything?

When i think of things to make me feel better all I think of is him.

[phillerthekiller]

ha. ok i (think) i sort of (as much as a man possibly could) understand

um... i had a crush/thing/girl that really screwed up our mutual "like"

and after that we sort of decided to try again but my heart wasn't really in it and I ended up not calling her for a couple weeks (DON"T DO THAT APPARENTLY THATS UNFORGIVEABLE) and I still really have feelings for her but I guess we both took our turns screwing the "relationship" up.. funny how the relationship can be completely seperate from the two parties... anyways im rambling and by now this probably doesn't make sense but

(anyways) i say theres Always second chances especially if you both try and let the other know what your feeling.. if thats not possible then i guess a new direction is probably best...

-good luck

phil

[*Uronacid*]

Alright, well... you have to get the idea of him out of your head. Eventually you will naturally get over him. You have to accept the fact that it's over. He is not coming back. It sounds like you are hoping he will ask you back out again. You have to stop.

It's natural to be sad, and there is nothing with you. You're just hurting because of lost love. You will be able to love again. Be strong. I know it seems like the end of the world. When I broke up with my first girlfriend it was as if my whole world turned grey. I felt like everything was over. My life was worthless, but I was just being ignorant. I felt like there was nothing left because I had invested so much time and effort into her. All the time I had learned to spend on her was now free, and my life felt like there was a giant hole in it.

The truth is that there is so much more to life than just relationships. You're in highschool, and you should be having fun. Pick up on some of the old activities you enjoyed that were replaced with your relationship when you started dating your boyfriend. Hang out with some of the old friends you had. Participate in an after school activity. Do something, and enjoy yourself.

Don't take this relationship two seriously. This is one of many relationships you will probably have before you find the man of your dreams. Don't let this discourage you from entering the exciting world of relationships again. Instead, learn from the mistakes you made while you were in this one and better yourself.


Finding Nemo:
Dory: Hey there, Mr. Grumpy Gills. When life gets you down do you wanna know what you've gotta do?
Marlin: No I don't wanna know.
Dory: *singing* Just keep swimming. Just keep swimming. Just keep swimming, swimming, swimming. What do we do? We swim, swim.

[xxmisxtakexx]

Ha ha ha. Thanks!

Well it's just that It's been 7 months since we broke up and it's still really hard.

[*Uronacid*]

Ha ha ha. Thanks!

Well it's just that It's been 7 months since we broke up and it's still really hard.

Well, I know how that is... I dated my first girlfriend for over one year. It took about 2 years of slight depression, and about 3 years to get over her entirely. I wish I never wasted all that time.

Good Luck.

[me1issaaaa]

I understand you've had your heart ripped out, but trust me. Things WILL GET SO MUCH BETTER. I've definitely been there before. I thought things were horrible, but I came out of it a stronger, smarter, better person. You're only sixteen, dearest. Don't expect so much at this age - most guys don't even develop a brain until they're in their 20's.

[Kontroll]

Yes it's because or my Mr. Wright.

Not even kidding. His name is Brandon Lee Wright.
No I don't think my heart is there anymore. Could he still have it?

Damn. He doesn't have your heart. Just take a knife and cut your chest open. I assure you it's there. Such an emo. haha.

You're sixteen. Love is a word that is very much over used these days, so it might be likely that you didn't love him in the first place.

[*Uronacid*]

Damn. He doesn't have your heart. Just take a knife and cut your chest open. I assure you it's there. Such an emo. haha.

You're sixteen. Love is a word that is very much over used these days, so it might be likely that you didn't love him in the first place.

DO IT DO IT!!!! I WANNA SEE YOUR HEART!!!

We can use the adult stem cells from it and grow you a new one!!!!

[xxmisxtakexx]

ha ha ha.

maybe I did love him, maybe i didn't but it's still really hard.

[*mishyerr*]

It's ok, I used to feel the exact same way.

In fact, I was so messed up I carved a "bracelet" into my wrist swearing I would never love again.

Well, it's not true, because I am totally in love with the most wonderful guy in the world right now. And I'm almost a hopeless romantic. Hahaha <3

[xxmisxtakexx]

But how long did it take?