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 Jun 7 2004, 03:02 AM
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te quiero  Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678  |
this happens in phases..i tried to make it simple:
phase 1: my friend (angela) has a boyfriend (jose)she's been going out with for 2 years...and she's got a boy who's almost crazy about her (jonathan). Jose is protective of her and won't let her talk to other guys, and she's scared to break up with him. Jonathan is sweet and he's willing to wait as long as it takes for her to break up with her boyfriend, jose. phase 2: jose breaks up with angela because he thinks she's cheating on him. but of course... he's expecting to get back together in a week, because that's what always happens. he breaks up with her, he asks her back out, she says yes. but this time... she doesn't say yes. so now... her and jonathan are not going out yet... but close to it phase 3: she goes to the prom with jose (he's a senior) and they start acting more and more like a couple. jonathan gets mad because she's flirting a lot with jose and lets him kiss her and all that. angela gets mad at jonathan for getting mad, because she thinks, it shouldn't matter, since jonathon + her aren't even going out yet. so she asks me for advice, and i tell her that it's not RIGHT to play around with both of them. i told her she has to choose one or she'll end up hurting both of them. phase 4: now angela and jonathan are both mad at each other and i'm like... "in the middle". so i'm talking to jonathan after school one day and he gives me a hug (we're really good friends). she sees him hug me and she gets mad. so now she's not talking to both of us. .....DID I MISS SOMETHING??? is it me? or is she being VERY hypocritical? it's been a month since she's said a WORD to me. |
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Jun 7 2004, 08:38 AM
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what i think is that ur friend is just being too hypocritical.. theres no fault in you.
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Jun 7 2004, 08:47 AM
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 FUNKosaur-robot-ninja-pirate Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,320 |
wow, sounds a bit... complicated. you need to talk to your friend. explain everything to her. sit on her if you have to. but make her listen. its not your fault at all, if anyones fault its your friends. shes being hypocritical and self absorbed.
and jose sounds like one of those guys who you know is gonna turn out to be a future wife beater of america. sorry, excuse my dribble. good luck! 
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Jun 7 2004, 12:14 PM
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 Your Fired! Group: Member Posts: 51 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,713 |
QUOTE(im___radx @ Jun 7 2004, 8:47 AM) wow, sounds a bit... complicated. you need to talk to your friend. explain everything to her. sit on her if you have to. but make her listen. its not your fault at all, if anyones fault its your friends. shes being hypocritical and self absorbed. and jose sounds like one of those guys who you know is gonna turn out to be a future wife beater of america. sorry, excuse my dribble. good luck! what she said |
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Jun 7 2004, 01:33 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
ughhh thats long but i read it! caus ei was eating at the same time hehehe but if she doens't talk to you, YOU go talk to her... wow she gets mad sooo easily reminds me of my freind... i can't stay mad... i'm just stobborn though anyways back to you... need to tell her why tell her kinda what u told use like the last phase? well yeah hope everything works out between u ppl.
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Jun 7 2004, 02:04 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
interesting... wow... who cares.. if shes gonna be like that let her be... u dont have any explaining to do cuz u didnt do anything wrong
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Jun 7 2004, 06:59 PM
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 3,565, you n00bs ain't got nothin' on me. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,761 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,565 |
Tell both Jonathan and Angela that you're not going to choose a side. Tell them that if they're going to get mad at you, you're not gonna help them at all.
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Jun 7 2004, 07:58 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
aw. he sounds sweet.
you have to talk out everything with her. and angela has to decide on what she wants. jonathan or jose? it's kind of her fault.
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Jun 8 2004, 09:45 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
0MG UR FRIEND IS BEIG A DUMBASS...EXCUSE THAT LANGUAGE L0LS BUT ERMM... IT`Z HER FAULT F0R LEAVING 2 GUYS DR00L 0VER HER. IT'S N0T UR FAULT, MELISSA. MAN UR FRIEND IS WEIRD. CUS U HUGGED UR FRIEND MEANS S0METHING BAD? I MEAN J0NATHAN LIKES ANGELA...AND HE JUS LIKE U AS A FRIEND AND HE JUS NEED S0ME0NE T0 HUG T0. S0 YEAH WATS UP WITH ANGELA. D0ES SHE LIKE J0SE 0R J0NATHAN? GEZ WAT A SELFISH GIRL L0LS. AND KISSING WITH J0SE DURING PR0M NIGHT? I CALL THAT G0ING 0UT...MAN... J0NATHAN SEEM LIKE A SWEET GUY. AND ANGELA SEEMS LIKE A T0TAL L0SER F0R HURTING HIM AND HURTING J0SE IN A SAME WAY... YEAH I THINK SHE WAS CHEATING DURING HER RELATI0NSHIP WITH J0SE...BUT U KN0W SHES UR FRIEND. IF SHE D0ESNT WANT T0 TALK T0 U, THEN D0NT TALK T0 HER. BUT SHE WILL C0ME BACK T0 U WHEN SHE NEEDS S0ME0NE T0 TALK T0 L0LS. I MEAN SHE CANT JUS HURT 2 GUYS IN A SAME TIME. GEZ... L0LS
. . S0RRY F0R BEING RUDE B0T UR FRIEND, ANGELA...BUT WAT SHE'S D0ING IS SUCHA BAD THING. |
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