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 Jan 22 2007, 10:28 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig.  Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202  |
I just made the first move.
And Im nervous and scared but excited. Sometimes, complete happiness can feel like complete terror. AAACK. So, how do you feel when you make the first move ? I love but hate this feeling. |
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Jan 22 2007, 10:30 PM
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 Beauty in the Breakdown Group: Member Posts: 256 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,917 |
Its a feeling of accomplishment when you do but I HATE doing that lol.
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Jan 22 2007, 10:30 PM
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Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
I know. But the problem is i LOVE shy boys. But I'm so shy myself when it comes to boys I like. So usually I'm all hesitant and shy, and I know he's not going to do anything because he's shy but I love it.
Sigh. |
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Jan 22 2007, 10:33 PM
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Beauty in the Breakdown Group: Member Posts: 256 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,917 |
Aww...thats so cute. I personally am outgoing but when it comes to guys and making moves Im very very shy. Im always scared to do anything so I like guys that arent shy at all...because then I dont have to do anything first lol.
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Jan 22 2007, 10:36 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
i avoid it at any cost.
i'm old-fashioned. |
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Jan 22 2007, 10:40 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
QUOTE b' date='Jan 22 2007, 7:28 PM' post='2428327'] I just made the first move. And Im nervous and scared but excited. Sometimes, complete happiness can feel like complete terror. AAACK. So, how do you feel when you make the first move ? I love but hate this feeling. Pretty much like how you described it.  Sometimes it's not always as nerve-wracking though. |
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Jan 22 2007, 10:43 PM
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i have no problem with making the first move.
its a turn off for alot of guys. but then again im not discouraged because if they get all pissed off and intimidated by that. then they arent the one for me --- Moved to Relationships. 
This post has been edited by mona lisa: Jan 22 2007, 10:44 PM |
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Jan 22 2007, 11:07 PM
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Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
^ Yeah I heard most guys find it a turn off. But Ive also heard guys love it.
So, I dont really believe all I hear (: QUOTE(Shortnsweet88 @ Jan 22 2007, 7:33 PM)  Aww...thats so cute. I personally am outgoing but when it comes to guys and making moves Im very very shy. Im always scared to do anything so I like guys that arent shy at all...because then I dont have to do anything first lol. thats exactly how I am. People are usually amazed that I get all stuttery and shy when it comes to boys I like. But I don't know. It's just like, I shut off. And I get all shy and red ): |
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Jan 22 2007, 11:19 PM
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 I reject this reality and substitute it with my own! Group: Member Posts: 276 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 486,863 |
Go you making the first move!!
 Personally if I was a guy I'd be delighted to have a girl with guts. At first I thought I was going to have a heart attack when I made my "first move" luckily I choose a nice guy not to mention someone that obviously liked me. But I agree with the statement guys usually don't like girls making the first move. I've told only two guys how much they impacted my life and how I wanted to be friends with them as long as possible. And from that I got somewhat of a negative response that pissed me off. Kind of funny it's two guys that I'm still close friends with. Eh, maybe girls making the first move leaves an impression on a guy although it's not always the best impression? |
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Jan 23 2007, 03:22 PM
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 what do you think it says....if so obvious. Group: Member Posts: 1,838 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,420 |
QUOTE b' date='Jan 22 2007, 11:07 PM' post='2428388'] ^ Yeah I heard most guys find it a turn off. But Ive also heard guys love it. So, I dont really believe all I hear (: thats exactly how I am. People are usually amazed that I get all stuttery and shy when it comes to boys I like. But I don't know. It's just like, I shut off. And I get all shy and red ): ohmigosh ....you acted exactly how my ex before when i was a shy vulnerable kid . most dominant women are like that . but now not anymore i totally changed after that. i was more open , and a little bit more spontanteous after that , so she wasnt into me anymore . |
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Jan 23 2007, 06:14 PM
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Aw good luck!
I'm lucky if I can even get that far. I freak out and start shaking right before. But once it's done it really is a great feeling. Hope everything works out! |
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Jan 23 2007, 06:54 PM
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Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
^ I knooooow ! I got all like, jittery and shaky.
It felt like something was throttling me from the inside haha. |
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Jan 23 2007, 07:45 PM
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Beaaaaaaaaaaast. Savaaaaaaaage.
Yes, Bella! Na, I don't make the first move.Dude always does it. Hahaha |
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Jan 23 2007, 11:21 PM
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'Scuse my ignorance, but what exactly was your "first move?" What does that mean exactly? You kissed him? You told him you liked him?
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Jan 23 2007, 11:26 PM
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I'm always kind of nervous if I do, because you never really know how they'll react.
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Jan 23 2007, 11:28 PM
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Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
QUOTE(skillxz @ Jan 23 2007, 8:21 PM) 'Scuse my ignorance, but what exactly was your "first move?" What does that mean exactly? You kissed him? You told him you liked him? Nahh it aint ignorance. I engaged in oral sex with him. HAH ! JK. I told him i liked him. |
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Jan 23 2007, 11:40 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 222 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 497,291 |
hahah...sheesh..I thought I couldn't be THAT outa' the loop.
Anyway..good on ya', really, hope you get the reaction you're looking for. How did you tell him? Whenever I've told or been told, I must say, it really gets your heart pumpin for awhile.. |
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Jan 24 2007, 12:02 AM
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Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Yeah, it does. It felt... like WHOOSHING.
I basically told him I'd always been too shy to talk to him, but I thought he was cute and I'd like to get to know him. |
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Jan 24 2007, 12:34 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 222 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 497,291 |
nicely done..not too much n' not too little, how'd he react?
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Jan 24 2007, 03:10 AM
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QUOTE I know. But the problem is i LOVE shy boys. But I'm so shy myself when it comes to boys I like. So usually I'm all hesitant and shy, and I know he's not going to do anything because he's shy but I love it. Sigh. That is me right there! :) Good luck. ^^ |
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Jan 24 2007, 02:11 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
I know that feeling =P That's how I felt after asking my boyfriend out...it was just like...whoa, did I actually ASKED him out? Knowing that he liked me definitely made it a lot easier but it was just...wow. I was in an overly happy hyper mood for the rest of the day after he said yes
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Jan 24 2007, 11:11 PM
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Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
QUOTE(skillxz @ Jan 23 2007, 9:34 PM) nicely done..not too much n' not too little, how'd he react? It was aaaaall good until my feelings started change, sort of. I still like him, and everything but Im not sure anymore. Im so self-conscious and I always put myself down and think I'm not good enough for him. So i'm trying to stop that, and maybe we can pick it up. But I dont think I can have a relationship with someone until I have confidence and believe in it. Cos otherwise it ain't gonna happen. |
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Jan 24 2007, 11:38 PM
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 Home is where your rump rests! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,235 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 451,969 |
QUOTE b' b' date='Jan 22 2007, 7:30 PM' post='2428332'] FOR SEEEEEEEEEEERIOUSLY. A mi tambien.I know. But the problem is i LOVE shy boys. But I'm so shy myself when it comes to boys I like. So usually I'm all hesitant and shy, and I know he's not going to do anything because he's shy but I love it. Sigh. So you know how some boys find it a turn off, but usually shy boys love it 'cause well, they can't do it, so when the girl does it's like YES SHE LIKES ME TOO OMFG.  No really, though, congrats. I get that feeling everytime, too, so good luck with everything.
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Jan 25 2007, 12:54 AM
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 oh baby! Group: Member Posts: 210 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 404,785 |
Awesssomme, I'm not the only girl that likes to make first moves! Girl power! It's such a rushy feeling.
Congrats, though. I hope he give's you the perfect response. |
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