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![]() long time no CB. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 3,889 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 493,502 ![]() |
since im only a freshman, if you have a boyfriend you cant really go on a "date". we cant drive and actually have a "date". so if you ask somebody out, you just label them as your boyfriend and thats all?
+ also, how would you ask somebody out? |
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![]() Pocketful of Sunshine ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 ![]() |
Umm.. I know people in middle school who can actually "date." It's called sneaking out or lying.
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![]() Photoshop Mii Life(;* ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 236 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 489,110 ![]() |
i had friends from other middle school who dated and went out. im pretty sure they lied.
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![]() live + laugh = life [[you don't need love]] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 191 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 441,854 ![]() |
that's true you just label them as your bf/gf but some of my friends i know they actually like go to each other's house and hang out and stuff so i guess you can count that as a date
oh yah to ask someone out you can do that by sending them a note or some people have their friends ask the person for you or the best way to do it is to just ask them straight up |
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yea i never really went on "dates" in middle school. it was more of a, "so you wann be my gf/bf??" and tahts it.
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![]() R U A Q T ? [; ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 7,276 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 421,631 ![]() |
i really don't get the 'dating business' in middle school (i'm in middle school
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![]() young enough to not give a f*ck ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,149 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,060 ![]() |
I think that middle school kids are just desperate for a bf/gf,so they just..yeah.( i'm in middle school but whatever. ) And plus, have a bf or gf makes you "cool" because then you can say "i love you" to them and not mean it at all ! :O
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Yeah, it's more of just a small scale relationship.
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![]() Internet-aholic ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 84 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 405,192 ![]() |
I really don't think a middle schooler should date because dating is for high schoolers, not little preteens who have no idea what dating could be.
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![]() roosternamedingo. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 ![]() |
it's possible.
my ex and I took the bus to the movies..etc. |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 844 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 362,677 ![]() |
I'm in high school. But my middle school friend is 'going out' with someone. you're right. they can't drive, they don't go out, they just use each other as a label. so f**king retarded.
QUOTE I really don't think a middle schooler should date because dating is for high schoolers, not little preteens who have no idea what dating could be. totally agree. i mean, wtf, now-a-days, it's like, 'oh, yeah i have a boyfriend.' 'that's nice. how old are you?' '11.' WTF?! ![]() |
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![]() my michelle. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 792 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 267,094 ![]() |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 569 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 490,667 ![]() |
Well yea you have that tittle and of course I would hope you guys have parents that would be supportive of you being in a relationship to take you guys to the movies or go on walks or something. How old are you guys? If your younger than 13-14 I think you still need a bit more time before getting in a dating relationship. You may want to make sure they can date so your not just a couple at school...a lot of people are not allowed to date until their 15-16. So maybe waiting til' high school would be the best because you do get a bit more freedom. Anyway to ask someone out is your own choice in the words you choose. You could ask them if they would like to go to the movies with you sometime, or just blunt and ask them if they would like to be your girlfriend/boyfriend.
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![]() i'm maggie =] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 ![]() |
why cant you go on a date? ask your parents or his parents to drop you off somewhere.
and if you want to ask someone out, just ask them! |
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![]() daughter of sin ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 ![]() |
... Why? ...
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![]() The Official Romanista ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,222 ![]() |
Idk, plan something where you can watch a movie and there are restaurants around walking distance. Also, it's better if it's a nice night, and not raining.
That's what I did back in my middle school days, then again, everything is central in Rome.. |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 183 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 432,493 ![]() |
Well you don't have to drive to a date. You could make like sandwiches or something and walk to a park and just hang out. If someone asked my out, it would take more than once for me to label them as my boyfriend...
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![]() define our lives for us. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 ![]() |
well, I know people who have their parents drive them. Or they walk to places together, or walk over to each other's house. Or they just "hang out" behind their parent's back (at a friend's house, lying to their parents). I'm not sure if any of the relationships at my school (Im in Junior High too) actually involve them labelling as bf/gf. Well, I don't pay attention to that crap. Not like I care. My last bf, we didn't just 'label' each other.
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![]() Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 ![]() |
The way you ask some one out is actually quite simple. 'Will you go out with me?' At least that's how it's done here, or at least how I do it. haha. At this point in your life, you don't need to be going on dates. Hanging out is your best bet. I mean, the purpose of a date is to get to know some one. Right? Well, considering you don't drive and you're in middle school you should just hang out with him. I never took any of my girlfriends on dates. Wait. I took one of them on a date, but we were already going out and it was wierd. So, don't think so much. Haha. Just go with the flow. When problems arise with either of you, then you should start thinking about it. But you have something good. Keep it that way.
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![]() durian ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 ![]() |
Umm.. I know people in middle school who can actually "date." It's called sneaking out or lying. ![]() And I usually ask someone out along the lines of "You. Me. Bed. Now. ![]() ![]() Hahahhahahahha. <3 I don't know you, but you're really funny. ![]() My friends sometimes had boyfriends that lived near them, therefore they went to each other's houses or they went to the park. Sometimes, my friends told their parents about it and they went to dates, like to the movies and such. Pssshhh, even in highschool I sneaked out and lied in order to be with my boyfriend. But when we first dated, basically we just said we were boyfriend and girlfriend.... The first date came a while after we started going out. ![]() |
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