If you could change one thing that happened in 2006, what would it be? (relationship wise) |
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 Jan 8 2007, 05:46 PM
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 <-[RaWR]->  Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,133  |
i kind of regret meeting this guy. because he changed my life forever and now im not so sure that i can let him go. so i wish i didnt have the chance to meet him. then maybe i wont have a reason to care so much about my life. im not saying this in a bad way, im just trying to say that everything i do, either is for him or somehow having to do with him. so i just wish i never met him
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Jan 8 2007, 06:51 PM
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 Forever Lost Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 377,638 |
...are u guys going out...? if u are... why u wanna give up someone so imporant to u..
me: if i wanna change one thing back in 2006 it def would be to get to know the girl i like rite now... then i wouldn't have to go through so much crap rite now hahah.. |
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Jan 8 2007, 08:31 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
I wish i had actually gotten a boyfriend
 I'm sorry about that guy... that happened to me 2 years ago. but i think in the end, it was a good thing, because i learned so much from it. |
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Jan 8 2007, 08:34 PM
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I would have broken up with my last boyfriend much sooner. It's just that we shared so many friends and everytime I'd say I want to, our shared friends would start talking about all the fun we'd had as a couple and it'd remind me why I got with him in the first place. It took my untill Dec. 24th to finally break it off...
 I would have broken it off in like january... I spent more money on him than he spent on me... so it wasn't a very good relationship anyways. I'm very happy in the relationship I'm in right now 
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Jan 8 2007, 09:04 PM
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 I reject this reality and substitute it with my own! Group: Member Posts: 276 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 486,863 |
I wish I didn't listen to peer pressure.
I was only with my last ex because of the advertisement given. Him telling me what a great boyfriend he was to his exs, his friends always talking to me trying to tell me how great it would be if we hooked up and what a great boyfriend he would make. We had absolutely nothing in common besides p.e and our feelings. Couldn't open up to each other.. He didn't know how to express himself and tell me about himself even though I wanted to be the sort of person that accepted him for anything he was. Drugs, illegal stuff, beating up others.. I didn't care.. But he made less effort to talk to me, and didn't try to work out what problems he had in our relationship with me. Only kept silent and bitter about problems in our relationship. He hurted and scarred me when it was all over. For the longest time I'd tell myself what low peice of shit I was and blamed myself for our relationship not working out. I was a depressed, low esteemed girl that would cry nights, classes, in her closet and on her pillows. I hated myself so much. Crying for justice, crying because nothing made sense, crying like a baby that couldn't do a thing right.  I wish I was strong back then. I wish I told myself back then that it wasn't all my fault.. I wish I expressed to him what a jerk I felt he was. I've recovered a lot but there's still a bit of me cauious and insecure. Wondering if there would ever be another guy walking into my life, That would make me feel low as sh!t as Tony Vuu did.
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Jan 8 2007, 09:18 PM
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i would have busted my ex boyfriends arms[both of them mind you] sooner than when i did.
you dont treat me like your dog |
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Jan 8 2007, 09:33 PM
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That my parents actually got their divorce and not got back together. Thats the only thing I wish would have changed in 06'. I suppose thats pretty much relationship wise since you do have a relationship wtih your parents.
I don't think I would change anything relationship wise, I'm quite happy with how my relationship has turned out this year. One year anniversary 
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Jan 8 2007, 11:09 PM
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1TRIPZ FUCC UP Group: Member Posts: 311 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 482,242 |
I'd keep mandy or said bye to her. ):
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| *Uronacid* |
Jan 8 2007, 11:31 PM
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I have to say, there are things I wish I didn't say... there are things I wish I didn't do, but all in all I love the relationship I have... :] *sigh*
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Jan 8 2007, 11:33 PM
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Forever Lost Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 377,638 |
QUOTE(unconfirmed_existance @ Jan 8 2007, 9:04 PM)  I wish I didn't listen to peer pressure. I was only with my last ex because of the advertisement given. Him telling me what a great boyfriend he was to his exs, his friends always talking to me trying to tell me how great it would be if we hooked up and what a great boyfriend he would make. We had absolutely nothing in common besides p.e and our feelings. Couldn't open up to each other.. He didn't know how to express himself and tell me about himself even though I wanted to be the sort of person that accepted him for anything he was. Drugs, illegal stuff, beating up others.. I didn't care.. But he made less effort to talk to me, and didn't try to work out what problems he had in our relationship with me. Only kept silent and bitter about problems in our relationship. He hurted and scarred me when it was all over. For the longest time I'd tell myself what low peice of shit I was and blamed myself for our relationship not working out. I was a depressed, low esteemed girl that would cry nights, classes, in her closet and on her pillows. I hated myself so much. Crying for justice, crying because nothing made sense, crying like a baby that couldn't do a thing right. I wish I was strong back then. I wish I told myself back then that it wasn't all my fault.. I wish I expressed to him what a jerk I felt he was. I've recovered a lot but there's still a bit of me cauious and insecure. Wondering if there would ever be another guy walking into my life, That would make me feel low as sh!t as Tony Vuu did. dun worry about it... things pass... if u keep letting it bother u then it would never get any better.. and u did jsut be living in the past, somewhere out there is a person for everyone... we just have to go and search till we find that one person... of coruse there will be bitter experiences and such.. but in the end isn't it worth it because it builts who we are today and strenthen's us. and another thing is that NOT all guys are like that... i did say a good amound... are sorta like that.. but... if u shut ur self up completely... ur scars aren't going to cure by themself no matter how hard u try... it'll leave mark.. and the person who is able to fill in those holes and scars is the one person on this earth that is rite for u .. and when u find him.. dun ever leave them.. thats all my advice for u. |
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| *Uronacid* |
Jan 9 2007, 02:25 PM
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*wrong topic*
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Jan 9 2007, 06:00 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Oh...maybe the whole fight with my ex friend over the guy that I'm with right now. She was with him...not officially as she had a bf...and me and the guy liked each other...ended up with me choosing him over her. Even though we're together right now...sometimes I feel that I did something wrong by letting a boy get in the way of our friendship and choosing to be with him as opposed to sticking with her as a friend. Oh well...I wish we had a sensible conversation over that as opposed to us both bitching and complaining about each other to our friends.
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Jan 9 2007, 07:19 PM
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I wish I punched my ex-girlfriends father right in the face.
-Ant |
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Jan 9 2007, 09:08 PM
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 never settle for less than what you deserve. Group: Member Posts: 485 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,920 |
I reget liking a guy who wasn't interest "beyond friendship wise" w/ me, who wanted only athletic/sports wearing girls, who toyed w/ my feelings, who was scared to even say I dont like you, and I regret spilling my feelings to him by e-mail..and I really regret liking him at all.
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Jan 9 2007, 09:19 PM
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I wish I wasn't as needy as I was, and I wish I hadn't led on those few people... whoops.
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Jan 9 2007, 09:21 PM
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I honestly regret being such a ahole to my family members.
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Jan 14 2007, 08:50 PM
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well i dont really regret it, but i wouldve not gotten with my ex boyfriend....we were together for about a month then i broke it off (this was in aug.) and now he's still on my ass.
Also i wish i couldve done more of my school work so i wouldnt been screwed over now that finals are jsut a few days away. |
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Jan 14 2007, 10:10 PM
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 live + laugh = life [[you don't need love]] Group: Member Posts: 191 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 441,854 |
hm.....i won't agree to date this guy cause he was the best bf to me not perfect or maybe that i should've never hold back my feelings i should've just let out and let him know i really like him and stuff but too bad he's someone's bf now
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Jan 14 2007, 11:08 PM
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I wouldn't have hooked up with my ex. That caused a lot more drama than it was worth as well as the end to our friendship and civility.
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Jan 14 2007, 11:59 PM
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 The Official Romanista Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,222 |
If I had to change something, it would probably be not meeting Becky, I wanna go out with her, but I'm moving soon, so I don't wanna hurt her.
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Jan 15 2007, 12:49 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,343 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,767 |
Nothing. We live and we learn.
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Jan 15 2007, 01:05 AM
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I would have changed .. the fact that my last relationship was hella shit. I wish I would have realized it wasn't even THERE && I kept pushing ti without realizing it. That's not even AS important as the fact that we couldn't even stay friends.
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Jan 15 2007, 02:43 PM
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 Peggy. Group: Member Posts: 2,508 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 214,025 |
I wish I haven't led on these two guys to like me.
I feel like a jerk. |
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Jan 15 2007, 04:12 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 558 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,872 |
I wish my bf never cheated on me and made me feel like a worthless piece of crap..
but then again... I learned from the whole experience. |
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Jan 15 2007, 04:41 PM
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haha, nothing really. single in 2006, single now.
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