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 Jan 8 2007, 06:44 PM
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So on x-mas me and my bf were going on a date. That day it was around 39 degrees F.being the stupid one i only wore a hoodie. Lets just say his name is Tony. Well tony was around 30min late and he made me pay for my ticket. should i stay with him or just forget break it between us?? Hes really nice but hes not romantic at all.
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| *suddenly she* |
Jan 8 2007, 06:50 PM
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This is one day, and we have, hm, three details?
Didn't you ask him for an explanation on why he was late? Is he broke? You seem pretty troubled over it and it's been over a week. Maybe if it was some giant serious bogus then not resolving it in less than a week would be all right, but it seems like you and Mr. Tony have serious communication problems. But I could be totally wrong! It's difficult to tell anything with so few details though. |
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Jan 8 2007, 06:53 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 405,463 |
QUOTE(suddenly she @ Jan 8 2007, 6:50 PM)  This is one day, and we have, hm, three details? Didn't you ask him for an explanation on why he was late? Is he broke? You seem pretty troubled over it and it's been over a week. Maybe if it was some giant serious bogus then not resolving it in less than a week would be all right, but it seems like you and Mr. Tony have serious communication problems. But I could be totally wrong! It's difficult to tell anything with so few details though. This isnt the first time he made me pay nor is it the first time he was late ): |
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Jan 8 2007, 06:54 PM
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Well if you aren't happy, then I don't think you should continue to be with him.
 Maybe you should try talking to him about it.
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Jan 8 2007, 06:56 PM
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QUOTE(xmoon_lightx @ Jan 8 2007, 6:44 PM) So on x-mas me and my bf were going on a date. That day it was around 39 degrees F.being the stupid one i only wore a hoodie. Lets just say his name is Tony. Well tony was around 30min late and he made me pay for my ticket. should i stay with him or just forget break it between us?? Hes really nice but hes not romantic at all. hmm... i did say ignore him a bit or be mad at him and see if he changes if not.. then i did say have a talk with him if that dun work find someone else.. |
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| *suddenly she* |
Jan 8 2007, 06:57 PM
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^Ignore him... manipulative much? Haha. But you're a guy and I'm not so maybe it works and guys need to be manipulated occasionally!
 QUOTE(xmoon_lightx @ Jan 8 2007, 7:53 PM) This isnt the first time he made me pay nor is it the first time he was late ):  If he makes you unhappy, then leave (what My Cinderella said). But if you like him like a crazy fool (which here might not have a negative connotation), then find yourself some guts and speak up. Dates don't always have to cost something. When I actually used to be able to get away with things, my boyfriend and I would just meet up and wander around the city. |
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Jan 8 2007, 06:59 PM
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 Krista. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,380 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,319 |
^x4 Wow. He's done it more than once? That's not good. First, I would talk to him and see if he's serious about the relationship. Like Ruth said, you guys don't seem to be communicating well. If he's not taking it seriously, I wouldn't stay with him.
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Jan 8 2007, 07:11 PM
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 Sing to Me Group: Member Posts: 1,825 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,808 |
well... first things first, you should talk to him like the people above me suggested. maybe he always gets caught up when he doesn't mean it. and the making you pay thing, it's expected for the guys to pay but it's definitely not something they have to do. maybe he's low on cash. you're your own person and you should be able to take care and provided for yourself. paying a few times for your own ticket isn't horrible or something to break up with a boyfriend for unless you want your boyfriend to. and i think, you're asking if it's worth it or not because you want someone to say, no it's not worth it, so you have a reason or someone else who supports your decision to break up with tony. just talk to him. if you're unhappy, no point in dragging it out. |
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| *a painefull euphoria* |
Jan 8 2007, 09:29 PM
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wow thats horrible i mean a girl should pay once in a while but not too often and that was really rude and incosiderate for him to come 30 mins late.
id say leave him if its happened too many times before unless hes got a really really good reason for his lateness |
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Jan 8 2007, 09:53 PM
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 my michelle. Group: Member Posts: 792 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 267,094 |
Wow, that really sucks. Something's up and he's avoiding something i guess. But please do try to speak up or at least talk with him nicely about what's going on. Don't sound too mean, you don't want to rid him right away since you don't know the whole story behind this.
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| *x1227x* |
Jan 8 2007, 09:58 PM
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I guess he doesn't like you ALL that much? It's fine if he tells you to pay once in a while, but all the time? Uhh... No. You can try to have a little talk with him about it and to see what's up with him being late everytime you guys have a date. Do you love him? If you dont love him ALL that much, and you want to break up with him, do it. If you love him enough to stay with him and you want to work it out, you guys can have a talk about it. I hope it works out!
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Jan 8 2007, 10:14 PM
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well some guys just don't have that much money you can't really blame him for that. Idk if you should break up for him just because of that one event, but if there are a bunch of things like this where he's like always late, and you don't like that he's not romantic then maybe decide to break it off. Or try talking to him about it :/
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