Forgive or just simply forget?, I can't take the feeling I get from seeing him anymore. |
 Jan 7 2007, 01:40 PM
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 I reject this reality and substitute it with my own!  Group: Member Posts: 276 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 486,863  |
What I have just done a year ago stirred within me.
Bothered me to put it in simple words. There was a boy named Tuan. We had a english class together, he liked me and I was in the process of getting to know him to see if it was a guy worth diving into a relationship with. But as I got closer to this person the more I found out about him. But then suddenly lies and truth got mixed up and I got so confused on what to believe him or his friend who were giving me two completely different stories. I'm known as quite a oblivious girl at school, so I perfer to have friends that don't take advantage of me by lying to me and snicker at the fact they can get away by doing so. And who wants to be friends with a snake with a forked tongue correct? Well, I got frusterated by all the things tuan was telling me was true, and his friend telling me what Tuan said was false. So I made one topic, the last straw. I gave Tuan a secret online, gave it only to him. I told him not to tell a soul about it. Only to find out as I went to the mall somehow his friend happened to know this only a few days later. I took that as the tie breaker between trusting Tuan or trusting his friend. I was hurt that one of the two lied to me, and finding someone responcible for one of their crimes, I didn't want to start trouble by hurting them physically or verbally.. But still upset that perhaps Tuan was the liar feeding me simple lies all along. I broke off what friendship I had with Tuan and gave him the cold turkey ever since. It's been a year since then and I don't know whether my actions a year ago was right or wrong. Everytime I see the kid, I'm reminded of what happened for us not to even talk anymore. It's been bothering me for awhile, I wonder if it was about time I did something to get it off my chest.. Createblog, do you think what I did was too servere and I should forgive the guy and apologise for being so harsh or perhaps I am better off not talking to the person? |
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unconfirmed_existance Forgive or just simply forget? Jan 7 2007, 01:40 PM
happykmd I think you'd be better off still not talking/... Jan 7 2007, 01:43 PM unconfirmed_existance happykmd-->There's a chance they both migh... Jan 7 2007, 01:48 PM miceylulu I think you shouldn't talk to him. If you tri... Jan 7 2007, 01:52 PM happykmd Aw Your welcome. You've given me advice plenty... Jan 7 2007, 01:56 PM unconfirmed_existance miceylulu---> True, perhaps forgiving them wou... Jan 7 2007, 02:04 PM Fragil_BlackRose Oooh, maybe don't talk to him.
I sorta had th... Jan 7 2007, 03:24 PM LostRenaissance well there can be 2 sides
1. Tuan lied to u about... Jan 7 2007, 09:21 PM Uronacid Hey, you can forgive the guy, but you don't ne... Jan 8 2007, 03:29 PM guessewho i would juss forget. any one who is willing to lie... Jan 8 2007, 05:47 PM xmoon_lightx If yu really think hes worth it then i think yu sh... Jan 8 2007, 06:38 PM unconfirmed_existance Note: I want to thank everyone for expressing thei... Jan 8 2007, 08:39 PM krnxswat How about forgive and forget? Jan 9 2007, 04:11 PM
iROCKYOURSOCKS this is probably the best thing that you can do. F... Jan 9 2007, 09:47 PM  |
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