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Friends with benefits.
Is it wrong?
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smileeetina
post Oct 26 2006, 11:55 PM
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I say.. who cares.
 
*mipadi*
post Oct 27 2006, 12:24 AM
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"I before E, except after C, unless sounding 'eigh', as in 'neighbor' and 'weigh'."
 
*StanleyThePanda*
post Oct 27 2006, 12:47 AM
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^ XD.gif Michael, you are awesome.

Anyways, I said no.
 
smileeetina
post Oct 27 2006, 01:32 AM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Oct 27 2006, 12:24 AM) *
"I before E, except after C, unless sounding 'eigh', as in 'neighbor' and 'weigh'."


LMAO. Lol.
HAHAHAAHHHAHAHAHAAH, it sounds funny.
But I don't get it. mellow.gif
 
*xcaitlinx*
post Oct 27 2006, 06:09 AM
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^ you spelled friend wrong.


and i think the whole concept is ridiculous. someone always gets attached and hurt in the end.
 
*Infinite.*
post Oct 27 2006, 08:47 AM
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I didn't really get the poll

Friends with Benefits supposedly means to be physically active with a person thats only a friend. I find it wrong in many ways, and I highly doubt most people can keep it all at a friend level. Eventually one person is going to move on and the other is going to feel bad because they fell for the other person.
 
mznikki
post Oct 27 2006, 02:53 PM
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eh i don't really care, but in a way no because someone will get attached eventually and then mess things up and then the friendship will be lost. and someone will move on and then blah.
 
Gypsy Eyes
post Oct 27 2006, 03:02 PM
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Unless you can guarantee that you will never develop feelings for that person it's a bad idea.
 
oXMuhNirvanaXo
post Oct 27 2006, 04:01 PM
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um.. their was this point that me and my boyfriend were not going out.. "Break" and we were still making out and what not.. but then we got back together after a few weeks.. it was really confusing. Oh well. We are still together. :-)
 
Chii
post Oct 27 2006, 05:57 PM
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QUOTE(Gypsy Eyes @ Oct 27 2006, 4:02 PM) *
Unless you can guarantee that you will never develop feelings for that person it's a bad idea.

I agree but nothing is guaranteed (besides death but let's not be morbid) so I think it's always a bad idea...but that doesn't mean that it always has a terrible outcome.

That's how the relationship with me and my significant other started...we've been together for more than a year.
 
*sofakinglazy*
post Oct 27 2006, 06:17 PM
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It can work for certain people.
 
datass
post Oct 27 2006, 09:41 PM
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It's kind of weird to become physically attracted to your friend...to me it is.
 
Looow
post Oct 27 2006, 10:11 PM
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Shiiit I wouldn't having that title with a certain somebody right now
 
orgasm
post Oct 27 2006, 11:58 PM
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Anytime you get into something physical with someone, SOMEBODY's going to get attached.

It might be fun at the time, but someone's gonna be hurt.
 
tokyo-rose
post Oct 28 2006, 11:33 AM
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I don't think that FWB is a good idea. Eventually one of the people involved is going to mistake their physical activities for love/attraction and start to like the other person, and the other person won't since the point of FWB is to not like them. You will just end up getting hurt.
 
luckyxi3
post Oct 28 2006, 01:47 PM
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if you don't want anything serious, then go for it.
if you're not a type of person to be playing around, then don't.

simple as that.
it's called intuition.
 
pinayprincess
post Oct 28 2006, 09:29 PM
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DOES NOT WORK!!!!!!!
 
*.fire*
post Oct 28 2006, 09:40 PM
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*looks for a friend with benefits*
 
SimplicityGirl
post Oct 29 2006, 01:38 AM
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Well...it doesn't ALWAYS have a bad ending like Chii said. But 90% of the time it does, so you have to be careful if you're going to play around with FWB.

But then again, that's sort of how me and my bf got together. We weren't quite what you'd call FWB...but we held hands and essentially did everything that a couple would do minus kissing. And we got together because things just seemed too weird.
 
Mikael
post Oct 30 2006, 12:24 PM
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Friends with benefits. It's an option. Some think its wrong, some think its alright.

Who ever gets attached knew the risk when they started.
 
*x1227x*
post Nov 2 2006, 12:35 AM
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like someone said,
it can work for some people.

but it just wont ever work for me because i would feel weird when someone asks me "is that your boyfriend?" "oh no, we're just friends with benefits"

so i guess it pretty much depends on if you really want to have benefits with that person. :)

so i say,
maybe so/who cares
=]
 
*sofakinglazy*
post Nov 3 2006, 02:14 AM
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IN NEED OF FWB. Type 69 IF YOU WANNA HOLLA. ASL!!
 
thanhmai
post Nov 3 2006, 01:09 PM
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QUOTE(sofakinglazy @ Nov 3 2006, 1:14 AM) *
IN NEED OF FWB. Type 69 IF YOU WANNA HOLLA. ASL!!


I didn't know people still use "ASL"


Friends with benefits doesn't work. But it happens anyway
 
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post Nov 3 2006, 01:43 PM
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i had one and it was cool but we just broke up i guess lol. and neither of us got attached probebly because we didn't like each other at all.
 
moninja
post Nov 4 2006, 02:08 PM
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not really.
i hug guys a lot.


but who cares? shrug.gif
 
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