The youngest age where itz wrong to lose it... |
 Jan 1 2007, 08:58 PM
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Heii jus wonderin wat iz da age where it iz wayyyyyy 2 young 2 lose it cuz i alrede "done the do" [[if u get wat i mean]] n ik sum goody goody ppl r lyk datz way 2 young n othaz think itz fine so yea...... ??? n ik ppl will say itz lyk against God n u should w8 til marriage well yea ik all of diz but trust me i tried n i wanted it dat way but it didnt happen so yea ???
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Jan 1 2007, 09:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
i think it depends on your mental state of mind. Some people are more mature and have knowledge on sex and are ready, if you know everything there is need to know and you are in love with that person, then you're ready.
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| *WHIMSICAL 0NE* |
Jan 1 2007, 09:20 PM
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QUOTE(PRiiNC3SA @ Jan 1 2007, 7:58 PM)  Heii jus wonderin wat iz da age where it iz wayyyyyy 2 young 2 lose it cuz i alrede "done the do" [[if u get wat i mean]] n ik sum goody goody ppl r lyk datz way 2 young n othaz think itz fine so yea...... ??? n ik ppl will say itz lyk against God n u should w8 til marriage well yea ik all of diz but trust me i tried n i wanted it dat way but it didnt happen so yea ??? Deffinately not when you type like that... |
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Jan 1 2007, 09:23 PM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
um, personally..i think anything before the age of 17 is just..sick. you may be mentally ready, but that doesnt mean that your body has matured yet.
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Jan 1 2007, 09:58 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
uhhhhh there is no specific age.. it just depends who you're talking to. i think that any age under 15 is definitely too early. a lot of people lose their virginity during teen years anyway.. not like i give a crap what they do.. but i think by the time you're 15 or 16, you've had enough of sex education to know to use some damn protection so it isn't really that young.
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Jan 1 2007, 10:00 PM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
When your parents still treat you like a kid and don't give you independence. That's when you should not :)
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Jan 1 2007, 10:08 PM
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 `non;chalance Group: Member Posts: 700 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,113 |
Definitely agree with WHIMSICAL 0NE on this one.
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Jan 1 2007, 10:15 PM
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 101708 <3 (: Group: Member Posts: 253 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 382,431 |
QUOTE(PRiiNC3SA @ Jan 1 2007, 5:58 PM) Heii jus wonderin wat iz da age where it iz wayyyyyy 2 young 2 lose it cuz i alrede "done the do" [[if u get wat i mean]] n ik sum goody goody ppl r lyk datz way 2 young n othaz think itz fine so yea...... ??? n ik ppl will say itz lyk against God n u should w8 til marriage well yea ik all of diz but trust me i tried n i wanted it dat way but it didnt happen so yea ??? QUOTE(WHIMSICAL 0NE @ Jan 1 2007, 6:20 PM) Deffinately not when you type like that... i definetly agree with WHIMSICAL 0NE |
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Jan 2 2007, 12:24 AM
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 mrs. paul dano. Group: Member Posts: 907 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,992 |
QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Jan 1 2007, 6:08 PM) i think it depends on your mental state of mind. Some people are more mature and have knowledge on sex and are ready, if you know everything there is need to know and you are in love with that person, then you're ready. I have to agree with you on this one. |
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Jan 2 2007, 12:31 AM
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QUOTE(PRiiNC3SA @ Jan 1 2007, 7:58 PM) Heii jus wonderin wat iz da age where it iz wayyyyyy 2 young 2 lose it cuz i alrede "done the do" [[if u get wat i mean]] n ik sum goody goody ppl r lyk datz way 2 young n othaz think itz fine so yea...... ??? n ik ppl will say itz lyk against God n u should w8 til marriage well yea ik all of diz but trust me i tried n i wanted it dat way but it didnt happen so yea ??? first of all the term is "done the deed"  you shouldent have sex if you cant get sleek & classy terms for saying "ive had sex ". im just saying:mellow: |
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Jan 2 2007, 01:53 AM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
Aw, come on. "Done the do" always sounded classy to me.
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Jan 2 2007, 02:39 AM
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 (′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
QUOTE(PRiiNC3SA @ Jan 2 2007, 9:58 AM) Heii jus wonderin wat iz da age where it iz wayyyyyy 2 young 2 lose it cuz i alrede "done the do" [[if u get wat i mean]] n ik sum goody goody ppl r lyk datz way 2 young n othaz think itz fine so yea...... ??? n ik ppl will say itz lyk against God n u should w8 til marriage well yea ik all of diz but trust me i tried n i wanted it dat way but it didnt happen so yea ??? What are you talking about? I can't read a thing! |
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Jan 2 2007, 02:48 AM
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(′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
Ok fine, I lied.
But I did have trouble reading it. QUOTE Heii jus wonderin wat iz da age where it iz wayyyyyy 2 young 2 lose it cuz i alrede "done the do" [[if u get wat i mean]] n ik sum goody goody ppl r lyk datz way 2 young n othaz think itz fine so yea...... ??? n ik ppl will say itz lyk against God n u should w8 til marriage well yea ik all of diz but trust me i tried n i wanted it dat way but it didnt happen so yea ??? Hey just wondering what is the age where it is way too young to lose it 'cause I already had sex and I know some goody goody people are like that's way too young and others think it's fine so yeah. And I know people will say it's like against God and you should wait till marriage well yeah I know all of those but trust me I tried and I wanted it that way but it didn't happen so yeah. You type funny. |
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Jan 2 2007, 02:56 AM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
ii h@b t0 ag33 wiif Angelina Taylor.
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Jan 2 2007, 03:19 AM
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What age is it, as you put it, "z wayyyyyy 2 young 2 lose it". Well, I could tell you age seven and it would answer your question.
How old are you? And why would it matter if you already, "done the do." |
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Jan 2 2007, 07:38 AM
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 cookies=love Group: Member Posts: 236 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,467 |
If you have to ask, you're not ready.
I'd say that most people aren't ready for it when they're 16 or younger. That's why most people don't do it until they're in their twenties... But it's too late now, isn't it? So I don't want to say anything discouraging. How's this: GREAT JOB! YOU HAD SEX WHEN YOU WERE'NT READY! What do you *want* people to say to you?? Bad idea coming to this forum for this... |
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Jan 2 2007, 12:41 PM
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The Ginger Group: Member Posts: 58 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 492,203 |
i was 20 - and i was appauling lol. now i know i'm a lesbian
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Jan 2 2007, 04:15 PM
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Suzzette. Why are you such a damn genius.
 Or at least, more eloquent than most. Sorry if you feel like I'm sucking up to you; it's unintentional.
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Jan 2 2007, 04:22 PM
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ok sorry about the way i wrote i have perfet grammar skills believe it or not... it was just way faster to write it like that anyways... im 18 now & i lost it when i was 17 & im still with the same guy that i lost it to... i love him and all and personally my mind was mature, i knew what i was doing... so yea but some of my friends were talking about that one day ;not talking about my case in particular just about that same topic ;were saying that even 17 was way to young ... i just stayed out of it ...personally i didn't think so to me if you want it and you love that one speical person and you think that you will last, then it's fine at any age as long as you're not a child ... and about the done the do and done the deed you know what i meant to me that's a perfect way to describe it and just because i didn't say it right doesn't mean im not ready and the way anyone writes has nothing to do with if your are ready or not i just wanted to see what you guys all thought about the ages but thanks
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Jan 2 2007, 04:27 PM
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^Hey, maybe you were mentally mature. But you have to keep in mind everything that would or could happen, not just that you wanted him.
Lots of people think they're going to last. I personally know someone who got pregnant at fifteen... she had the baby and married her boyfriend. They stayed together for six years, then got a divorce. Just out of curiosity, what do you mean by being mentally mature? |
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Jan 2 2007, 04:31 PM
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 my michelle. Group: Member Posts: 792 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 267,094 |
QUOTE(WHIMSICAL 0NE @ Jan 1 2007, 6:20 PM) Deffinately not when you type like that... I could barely read that  Personally, i don't think a certain age should really stress this factor (?) I just think like, whenever you're ready and you love e/o, etc etc. A friend supposedly tells me that he knows some 8th graders who have done it already. that sort of scares me |
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Jan 2 2007, 04:46 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 26 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 492,027 |
by mentallly i mean that i know everything that could happen to you he lost it to me i lost it to him but before that just to make sure i had him get a test to see if he had an std in case he wasnt telling me the truth i trusted him thought but you know not just beacuse i love him i had to be smart and its better to make sure you know? ... i mean i am an adult now... 18 i lost it at 17 then i knew to use protection and at the same time birth control and all i was ready to take care of a child if i was to get pregnant and all and he was too. and about the 8th graders i've heard that too this girl that used to go to my church ended up pregnant at age 13 had the baby gurl at 14 and she said that she had lost it at 12 to some 18 year old and after him had done 14 other guys .... now that is what i call not ready and immature!!!
by mentallly i mean that i know everything that could happen to you he lost it to me i lost it to him but before that just to make sure i had him get a test to see if he had an std in case he wasnt telling me the truth i trusted him thought but you know not just beacuse i love him i had to be smart and its better to make sure you know? ... i mean i am an adult now... 18 i lost it at 17 then i knew to use protection and at the same time birth control and all i was ready to take care of a child if i was to get pregnant and all and he was too. and about the 8th graders i've heard that too this girl that used to go to my church ended up pregnant at age 13 had the baby gurl at 14 and she said that she had lost it at 12 to some 18 year old and after him had done 14 other guys .... now that is what i call not ready and immature!!! |
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Jan 2 2007, 04:55 PM
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my michelle. Group: Member Posts: 792 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 267,094 |
It's good to know that you seemed pretty ready and all when you lost it and that's a good thing.
^ and yeah, that is absolutely immature. And she goes to church? that's all the wrong combination. |
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Jan 2 2007, 05:00 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 26 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 492,027 |
yea she went to church that's the sad thing but then again i cant say much im a pastor's daughter(but then they do say oreachers kids are the worst ;p) anyways she only went because her parents made her go she hasn't been back in like a year
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Jan 3 2007, 09:37 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 32 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 463,960 |
QUOTE(x___F0RG0TTEN @ Jan 1 2007, 10:15 PM) i definetly agree with WHIMSICAL 0NE i tottallyy agree |
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