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Do you feel awkward, if the guy is younger?
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post Dec 20 2005, 12:05 AM
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um i tried searching and i dont see a topic on this one but yea.. I know everyone says age doesnt matter in love but honestly if the guy is younger then you.. do you ever feel a little weird?? i just want to know everyones opinion.. cuz i kinda feel weird.. well i guess it wouldnt matter if i really liked the guy.. rolleyes.gif
 
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post Feb 12 2006, 12:19 PM
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Yeah, it is a bit awkward. Mostly because of what other people would say/feel about you. I guess dating younger people to others is a bit desperate.
 
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post Feb 12 2006, 01:00 PM
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my limit right now is 1 year younger. but when i get older, the limit will get wider and wider. cause right now... i'm a freshmen and dating a 7th grader seems kinda awkward. but if i'm like 35 i won't really care if the guy is 32. (but hopefully i'll be married by then!)
 
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post Feb 12 2006, 02:36 PM
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As strange as it is, I only go for younger guys or same age shifty.gif BUT! Not to worry, I'm no petifile. _unsure.gif
 
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post Mar 3 2006, 04:57 PM
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totally. I've dated guys a couple years younger than me, and most of the time it's not an issue (I don't date <i>immature</i> guys). But especially this year when I'm getting ready to apply to universities and stuff, and he's still in grade 11 bio. It was really more about the different crowds we hung out in. (I've only ever dated one guy who went to the same school as me)

One time I hooked up with a guy two years younger and at least a foot shorter. THAT was weird... I had to hunch to kiss him! He was practically on his tippy toes!
 
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post Mar 3 2006, 07:09 PM
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1 year is okay.
more than that. _dry.gif ..yeah. weird.
 
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post Mar 3 2006, 10:14 PM
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personally, i dont think i'd ever find attraction in a younger guy. i guess because i have a younger brother (he's only a year younger than me) and so it'll only be awkward for me to date someone that is my brother's age-- its just all too awkward. and plus, i like older guys. :)
 
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post Mar 3 2006, 10:34 PM
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not exactly, if it is one year.
otherwise, younger than that.
nope.
 
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post Mar 4 2006, 12:43 AM
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I don't like dating younger guys.....I like guys my age or older. I guess it's just a maturity thing.
 
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post Mar 4 2006, 01:02 AM
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QUOTE(lil_gymnast6 @ Dec 20 2005, 10:28 PM) *
As long as he's mature enough, then what the heck? why not?


I guess so, but I never was one who reeled in the young ones. I like my men older than I am, with a side order of maturity, please.
 
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post Nov 24 2006, 11:33 AM
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If he's less than half a year younger, then it's all right. But if it's a year or more then I'd feel weird.
 
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im dating a uy whos one year younger
and its not that bad
but we do have our differences at times
 
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post Nov 25 2006, 02:16 AM
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i prefer older guys. even if the guy was just ONE day younger than me i still wouldn't go out with him
 
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post Nov 25 2006, 04:02 AM
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Well personally, well actually me and both my sisters don't date younger guys, for numerouse reasons, but yea if I were you I would go with older, that's my opinion...
 
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post Nov 25 2006, 12:34 PM
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I have no problem with a year younger but anything younger than that...eh.
 
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post Nov 26 2006, 01:56 AM
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No my BF is by a year
 
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post Jan 1 2007, 12:01 AM
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its whatever i guess depend i like this guy and he younger than me but that not stopping me from liking him pinch.gif
 
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post Jan 1 2007, 05:26 AM
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I used to think it would be really wierd, but my current boyfreind is a year younger htan me. Doesnt sound too bad, but I had a hard time with it at first becuase hes 2 grades under me...and I was more worried about what it looked like.

Age never really matters to you, its more if you can get past what everyone else thinks. I did...most ppl cant.
 
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post Jan 1 2007, 07:57 AM
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Rofl..

Well, younger guys = immature.
 
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post Jan 1 2007, 12:58 PM
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Honestly, it would be really weird at my age. I wouldn't date a guy younger than me because guys are on a lower maturity level than girls for the first few years of development. I'm dating someone a year older than me (I'm going to be 16 and he's 17) and I still feel like I'm more mature.

I would date a younger guy later in life, because when you're an adult, the maturity issue evens out.
 
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post Jan 1 2007, 07:10 PM
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if he looks younger.. then yeah.. its kinda awkward.
 
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post Jan 1 2007, 10:16 PM
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Personally, I would never date a guy younger than me. Once, I found out that a guy that I was kind of interested in was three months younger than me and immediately ended it with him. I find it so awkward and weird, probably because I have a younger brother and I'd feel like I'm dating him.

I've always been attracted to older guys though, for as long as I could remember and so those are normally the ones that I actually pursue.
 
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post Jan 2 2007, 12:23 PM
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yeah. this boy thats a freshman likes me. i live in alhambra and and he lives in longbeach. and im a sophomore. it was funny how we met, cuz a 3rd grader and her mom knew that he was hitting on me and i was absolutely clueless. he winked at me, and i was like "HI!!" ^ ^;; but yup. he has a gf and hes a known player so i play it off as a little boy's crush. accept the love people :) yeah, ive never had a bf, but a number of people like me... _unsure.gif like 8 people confessed lastyear 06? :/ also, i like a 17 yrold @^ ^@ hes very cute to be with :) i think he likes me too :D im 15 btw. hes a junior though.

QUOTE(BrokenxWingsx @ Jan 1 2007, 9:58 AM) *
Honestly, it would be really weird at my age. I wouldn't date a guy younger than me because guys are on a lower maturity level than girls for the first few years of development. I'm dating someone a year older than me (I'm going to be 16 and he's 17) and I still feel like I'm more mature.

I would date a younger guy later in life, because when you're an adult, the maturity issue evens out.

^^ thats what i always think :D and thats what i always try to tell me dear dear friends that are in love with people older or younger than them. (i like a older guy too, but its not like i want to marry him or do him or whatnot.)
 
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post Jan 6 2007, 10:28 PM
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i think any normal person would feel awkward... people just have that idea that youngers are less mature... but age is just a number remember
 
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post Jan 6 2007, 10:42 PM
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i personally like older guys. but if he's like 6 months younger, than whatever. tongue.gif
 

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