just had sexx..., knd of freaking outt..read ples= ) Options

[DixieDaCutie]

i can type in proper grammer, its just easier to not sometimes. ghhg i don't knoww why i went here.. i just freaked out cus i knew i had made a huge mistake. im willing to work anything out but i dont want my parents involved... but im going to try and get the pill or w/e else. n yea i know you guys arent doctors, its just easier 2 talk 2 people you don't know sometimes

[*KCreateBlog*]

I don't understand why everyone is bashing her.

Did I miss something really important?

[marzipan]

^ Read the thread, KC. =P

[aznxdreamer]

if you cant figure out whether or not having unprotected sex could possibly lead to pregnancy then you shouldnt be having sex.

when i first did it i was worried too but fortunately for us, we used a condom and im not pregnate so HAH!

[*KCreateBlog*]

^ Read the thread, KC.

I did read the thread, even if she did make the mistake of having unprotected sex, and is oblvious about whether you can get pregnant the first time , how does bashing her help?

Of course me personally, I wouldn't make a thread like this to begin with.

[marzipan]

^ Yeah, I agree.

[asung88]

excuse my french, but get a f**king morning after pill already! Its not that hard to diffuse the problem. Well right now.

[cassjamminx]

i can type in proper grammer, its just easier to not sometimes. ghhg i don't knoww why i went here.. i just freaked out cus i knew i had made a huge mistake. im willing to work anything out but i dont want my parents involved... but im going to try and get the pill or w/e else. n yea i know you guys arent doctors, its just easier 2 talk 2 people you don't know sometimes

well you can get Plan B, which isn't the morning after pill, it's just an emergency contraceptive. it prevents you from becoming pregnant after having unprotected sex or if it ripped or whatever. but you have to take it within i think 72 hours of the intercourse.

if not, then you should get the morning after pill, but that obviously only works if you're actually pregnant. get tested. you can buy them, i know they sell them at the dollar store by my house, haha.

[*sofakinglazy*]

No, although the guy that banged you might be....

[LOWinSKANK]

you were born in 1990, so i assume you're like 17. in some states, that's enough to get it without a prescription. but most, you got to go to a doctor.

i think that`d make her 16, no? i think it does depend on state laws and such.


also, did you and the boy even DISCUSS consequences and/or use of protection? or was it more like "oh well who cares about all the almost preventable things that might [and probably will] happen!?"
if you couldn`t even talk to him about it you shouldn`t be having sex with him.

use this experience in the future when you have to choose between being smart or stupid &hope you learn something..

[cassjamminx]

^ true.

i totally disregarded your age. but yes, if you are 16 or 17, you can't get any of those things i mentioned without a prescription so go to a clinic or to your doctor.

[GREASEbaby]

you were probably wasted..
that's my guess.

so maybe you weren't able to make good decisions.
just do something about it NOW.
go get a pill, go to planned parenthood, TELL YOUR PARENTS.

[Comptine]

well you can get Plan B, which isn't the morning after pill, it's just an emergency contraceptive. it prevents you from becoming pregnant after having unprotected sex or if it ripped or whatever. but you have to take it within i think 72 hours of the intercourse.

if not, then you should get the morning after pill, but that obviously only works if you're actually pregnant. get tested. you can buy them, i know they sell them at the dollar store by my house, haha.

if she was already pregnant, then the morning after pill would be an abortion pill. The Morning After Pill is an emergency contraceptive. Plan B and Morning After Pill are the same thing except different 'brands'. It prevents the fertilized embroyo from attaching successfully to the uterus.

Going to Planned Parenthood. It's is a godsend place. It's confidential and costs next to nothing.

[cassjamminx]

if she was already pregnant, then the morning after pill would be an abortion pill. The Morning After Pill is an emergency contraceptive. Plan B and Morning After Pill are the same thing except different 'brands'. It prevents the fertilized embroyo from attaching successfully to the uterus.

Going to Planned Parenthood. It's is a godsend place. It's confidential and costs next to nothing.

the morning after pill is the abortion pill, but Plan B isn't.

"Plan B® is not RU-486 (the abortion pill); it will not work if you are already pregnant."
(http://www.go2planb.com/ForConsumers/Index.aspx)

and i've heard that planned parent hood is free, but i saw this on their website...

EC Range of Costs
Plan B $10 — $45
one pack of combination pills $20 — $50
two packs of progestin-only pills $50 — $70
visit with health care provider $35 — $150
pregnancy test $10 — $20
Range of Total Cost $10 — $240

maybe those are the prices if you got it elsewhere? but elsewhere is free.. except over the counter of course. oh well.

[femmefatale4160]

First off, go to planned parenthood. Ask them what to do. If in a few weeks you still think that you may be pregnant, tell your parents. And don't EVER have unprotected sex again. Unless of course you're prepared for the consequences.

[AngelinaTaylor]

I did read the thread, even if she did make the mistake of having unprotected sex, and is oblvious about whether you can get pregnant the first time , how does bashing her help?

Maybe it will at least knock some sense into her empty head and make her feel stupid. Which, I think, she is.

I don't think she'd want to make the same mistake after this :)

[lalalaLANUH]

Alrighty, time to stop picking on the girl who was asking for our help and understanding now methinks.

[ima_fake_]

umm wow. some of u are being total asssholes to her. she came here to talk to people she doesnt kno so that shes not asking her friends who might flip out on her.

my advice considering i have alot of friends who get pregnant alll the time. go to a clinic and get the morning after pill. u dont have to tell ur parents.

be safe and get it. but theres always the chance ur not pregnant.

u dont always get pregnant when u have unprotected sex and u DONT ALWAYS GET DISEASES GUYS.

and grammar? what the hell does that have to do about ANYTHING?

[coconutter]

what does you ranting after the topic is pretty much been resolved have to do with ANYTHING?

[ima_fake_]

ummm im not ranting ok? im writing my opinon. if it doesnt matter to you why would u fcking read it? maybe it matters to someone else.

[AngelinaTaylor]

umm wow. some of u are being total asssholes to her. she came here to talk to people she doesnt kno so that shes not asking her friends who might flip out on her.

my advice considering i have alot of friends who get pregnant alll the time. go to a clinic and get the morning after pill. u dont have to tell ur parents.

be safe and get it. but theres always the chance ur not pregnant.

u dont always get pregnant when u have unprotected sex and u DONT ALWAYS GET DISEASES GUYS.

and grammar? what the hell does that have to do about ANYTHING?

1. Sure, pass on that you DON'T ALWAYS get pregnat/get STDs while having unprotected sex. That's a great thing to pass on to teenagers! Kudos.

2. The worse you type, the more idiotic you seem. That's all :)

[ima_fake_]

1. Sure, pass on that you DON'T ALWAYS get pregnat/get STDs while having unprotected sex. That's a great thing to pass on to teenagers! Kudos.

2. The worse you type, the more idiotic you seem. That's all :)

ok im not trying to pass on something bad im just trying to make her feel better and let her kno that it doesnt ALWAYS happen but at the same time it can. just a little reasurance that she may be ok. lol

and about the typing i understand but it has nothing to do with the topic. lol

[AngelinaTaylor]

ok im not trying to pass on something bad im just trying to make her feel better and let her kno that it doesnt ALWAYS happen but at the same time it can. just a little reasurance that she may be ok. lol

and about the typing i understand but it has nothing to do with the topic. lol

Haha, we always go off-topic :D

By making her feel better you're not necessarily helping her. Just so you know :)

[rainie8847]

wouldn't ur bf be smart enough to put on a condom?! O__o

[*WHIMSICAL 0NE*]

...And to think you could've spent the time learning more about the English language.

Anyways, I agree with the actual information on the thread. Go talk to someone at PP. They, by law, cannot give out your information. Hopefully you will NEVER make a mistake like that again.

I don't think that people were necessarily "bashing" her. But I think that the way she typed made her seem immature which just added to her stupidity of having unprotected sex. I hope it felt good, never let it happen again until you're doing it to actually have babies.