this situation needs some help |
  |
 Dec 28 2006, 08:36 PM
Post
#1
|
|
 This Conversation Is Over  Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 465,013  |
ok so theres this guy im totally crushing on
 but in the past i called him a loser,dork,weird and so on from elementry school to middle school.and moved to his neighborhood in the mid 7th grade.now its hs aka sophmore year and hes at my bus stop-sigh- and didnt like him and for ever since like a couple weeks ago.its kinda hard for me to talk to him now.not that i ever did then except when i was making fun of him.he proberly thinks i hate him.every chance i got i was mean to him since 8th grade.now i feel so bad and sorry.he proberly |
|
|
|
|
Dec 28 2006, 10:08 PM
Post
#2
|
|
 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
why do we have to be smart enough to answer this question? a lot of people on this site ... aren't smart
and why would you even make fun of him if you liked him? you probably think he's a loser, dork, and weird if you called him this... and why do you underline, bold, and italicize words that aren't even important? i guess that shows how smart you are? |
|
|
|
|
Dec 28 2006, 11:39 PM
Post
#3
|
|
 http://gus Group: Member Posts: 11 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 490,988 |
you like this guy right? so.. what you need to do is.. let the past go, and accept that people change. when you do, hopefully, he will as well. Holding on to what you did in the past will only mess you up in the future. you cant let mistakes, and other actions hold you down.
Because EVERYBODY makes mistake. But not EVERYBODY learns from them call me dr.phil |
|
|
|
|
Dec 28 2006, 11:42 PM
Post
#4
|
|
 ♥ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,066 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,393 |
^ Well put, Dr. Phil!
 Basically... just start talking to him, make conversation. Let him know you're sorry about teasing him in the past. Hopefully you haven't already ruined your chances... |
|
|
|
|
Dec 28 2006, 11:53 PM
Post
#5
|
|
 I reject this reality and substitute it with my own! Group: Member Posts: 276 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 486,863 |
Well actually.. I think it depends on how you made fun of him.
Did you have a look of hate and annoyance when you did? In that case I think it'll be difficult to patch things up. But if you making fun of him in a jokingly manner.. I called a couple of kiddos some names back in the day.. (more like a few years ago!  )But I didn't come out being too serious when it came down to the immature name-calling so it didn't go too bad building a friendship with them. Start it off nice in easy if you haven't been to harsh on the guy. Take in a big breath and try to look at him like if he's just a regular guy you just know/want to know. Casually say hi, mention a thing or two you guys have in common. TRY to have a decent casual conversaion so maybe he'll think "hey, this isn't the same girl that called me weird and a loser!" Errrr can't think of anything else to help you out. Sorry. 
|
|
|
|
|
Dec 29 2006, 12:09 AM
Post
#6
|
|
 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
just come out to him.
tell him that you were only mean to him because you liked him. |
|
|
|
|
Dec 29 2006, 12:16 AM
Post
#7
|
|
 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
Yeah, just be nicer to him from now on and eventually you two will get to start talking more casually and you can explain to him why it is that you teased him. Teasing others to show you like them is a common thing in elementary school. You probably just kept it up during middle school because you were so used to treating him like that.
|
|
|
|
|
Dec 29 2006, 01:38 PM
Post
#8
|
|
|
This Conversation Is Over Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 465,013 |
QUOTE why do we have to be smart enough to answer this question? a lot of people on this site ... aren't smart and why would you even make fun of him if you liked him? you probably think he's a loser, dork, and weird if you called him this... and why do you underline, bold, and italicize words that aren't even important? i guess that shows how smart you are? you dont acually have to be smart. just have common sense.and i wanted to bold those words so you acually read the whole thing. any more ideas? and it wasent serious when i was making fun of him. |
|
|
|
|
Dec 29 2006, 05:04 PM
Post
#9
|
|
 thanhnie Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,059 |
I'm sorry, I don't want to be mean, but I had a slight problem reading your story.. Does your word 'proberly' actually mean probably?
Anyways, I like what unconfirmed_existance said. |
|
|
|
|
Dec 29 2006, 07:46 PM
Post
#10
|
|
 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
I think you should just be nice to him, hang out with him more, &talk to him more. You shouldn't dwell on the past. Let go whatever has happened in the past &move on with the present/future. Have a fresh start with him &this time be nice.
|
|
|
|
|
Dec 29 2006, 09:01 PM
Post
#11
|
|
 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 108 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,064 |
just forget about what happened before, and act natural around him, maybe if you're that scared or w/e then just start off with like small talk or something, try and find common ground with him, that's all you can do. If you're feelin brave, then tell him that you're sorry about the things you said to him in the past... and take it from there
|
|
|
|
|
Dec 31 2006, 07:09 PM
Post
#12
|
|
|
This Conversation Is Over Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 465,013 |
thanx
|
|
|
|
|
Dec 31 2006, 08:31 PM
Post
#13
|
|
 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 277 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 172,698 |
QUOTE(Cake. @ Dec 29 2006, 2:08 PM)  why do we have to be smart enough to answer this question? a lot of people on this site ... aren't smart and why would you even make fun of him if you liked him? you probably think he's a loser, dork, and weird if you called him this... and why do you underline, bold, and italicize words that aren't even important? i guess that shows how smart you are? Wow, thanks for helping. You seem like the biggest bitch I've ever met. Ever. Anyway, talk to him. Just say that all those years of teasing was just...immaturity? Meh, I'm not very good in these types of things... |
|
|
|
|
1 User(s) are reading this topic (1 Guests and 0 Anonymous Users)
0 Members: