Need Help With This, Love Advice |
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 Dec 14 2006, 12:22 PM
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Newbie  Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,681  |
Um--Can I get some help on this one?
Here's my little craptacular problem: I met this guy through a friend last January. He ASKED me to "be something more" to him after talking on the phone for about a month. I thought I was his gf in the beginning, but because of his "attitude" towards me( he was just a horny SOB), I realized I wasn't (thank goodness I never slept with him!), but we decided to be friends still. Still hung out with him, until I decided I didn't want to see him anymore.<<<All of this took place LAST YEAR. Fast forward...  I haven't seen him since last year. We DO keep in touch (occasionally) through IM. Sad part about this is, I have feelings for him (always did), yet I mask them because of what happened between us before. Mind you all, I have a hunch that he likes me, but I dunno exaclty how--if it's real or he's just suffering from blue balls. I told what I wanted before, yet he still talks to me (and I sadly, to him). What should I do? State my true feelings (again) or just let it go?  FYI: He's 21 and I'm 20. |
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Dec 14 2006, 01:05 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 332 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 485,651 |
Just talk to him again. Get to know each other better & make sure he likes you for YOU & not because he wants to hit that! & when you talk to him, tell him that you don't like to hear all the perverted stuff & if he stops,then thats a start of him respecting you. Before I let a guy in, I usually go with my motto: Respect,Trust & Love. I know from experience that you can't have Love without Trust & you can't have Trust without Respect.
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Dec 14 2006, 09:55 PM
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Genin Group: Member Posts: 196 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 471,009 |
^^ Yeah I agree.
Talk to him and see if he still wants sum before considering anything. Tell him how it makes you feel uncomfortable(I'd straight be like, "Dude, you're grossing me out. Stop.") But to be honest, I'm not even sure if you should try. He just sounds like a horn-dog to me. I could be wrong though, he may actually like you for all I know. |
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Dec 14 2006, 10:17 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,388 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,129 |
Find out if he likes you. If he does, then you might want to be careful seeing that things happened before. So if you two really do like each other, then you should talk to him about how you felt about what happened last year. But if it's just a crush thing, get over him! "There's other fish in the sea!"
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| *krnxswat* |
Dec 14 2006, 11:32 PM
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Sorry, but it's not love.
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Dec 15 2006, 12:58 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
next time you guys talk on IM bring up how you felt about last year's incident, maybe then you guys could work something out
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| *a painefull euphoria* |
Dec 15 2006, 01:24 AM
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i think you should talk to him and see if hes a bit more grown up in the head.
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| *Uronacid* |
Dec 15 2006, 11:34 AM
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QUOTE(a painefull euphoria @ Dec 15 2006, 1:24 AM)  i think you should talk to him and see if hes a bit more grown up in the head. I agree. I may have changed, but you can never know for sure. I think you should talk to him, and hang out with him. See if you really like him. |
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