telling ur dad ur GAY, wut would he say? Options

[jEllyBeaNs]

well i kno im not a guy, but on movies and stuff, when a guy tells his dad, that he is gay, the Dad gets very upset and starts doin the usual...cussing, screaming, and usually disowning their son. i kno thats not wut would happen for all guys, but what would ur dad do if you told him u wur gay? (even tho ur not gay, just reply to wut ur dad might do, if u told him, and u wur jokIng.)

[hiromi]

I think there would be more sensitivity to the subject from my MOM rather than my Dad. He'd mostly likely be shocked for a few days, but will accept it. My uncle would likely keep his cool though. He's one of those uncles that are open minded and would probably joke about it in a playful manner.

[freeridefight]

At first my parents would say nothing, then be mad and be like ok do u need to talk to someone? Then eventually they would accept it

[*a painefull euphoria*]

when i told my dad i was bi.
he thought it was awsome.and was happy for me.
=/

so i dont know what hed say about my brother being gay.

[LostinaJungle]

I think he'd kill me.

[Joss-eh-lime]

mm..my dad would tell my mom would would talk to me. probably for a long time. then we'd have diff family members calling to talk to me. ehh itd be a mess. :/

at least i think..i know my family pretty well.

[Spud]

i won't ever have to worry about it

[ReggieM]

wtf gtfo of my house faggot(maybe not the faggot part =p) . if my son if i had one i would do the same...

[graffmastapnoi]

im not gay but damn my life would suck if i was hahahhhaha..

[mmhmichelle]

aha. if i were a guy. and was gay.
my dad would probably keep me away from guys and my brothers.
that's all i have to say.
:DD

[*My Cinderella.*]

My family wouldn't care, they'd just say. "Good...less population."

[PingPong]

if imma be a homo.. im gunna be a hobo..

my parents would.. err.. freak.. but good thing im not gay =D

[Starter]

He's very understanding, but he'll be a bit upset if I told 'em

[*x1227x*]

poised' date='Sep 20 2006, 12:43 PM' post='2289673']
Hm. My parents would probably freak out for a week, then try to seek out counseling.

They think homosexuality is a disease or something.

thats what my parents would do.

asian parents.

[TehJusty]

Allow me to reenact what happened when I told my Step Dad I was gay...

Me: So yeah... umm... I totally sleep with men...

Dad: Jesus Christ took you long enough... did you get lost in that closet?

Me: ._.;

Dad: Oh yeah, and your boyfriend is coming over for dinner tomorrow night.

Me: ._.;;;

Dad:Oh and one last thing before you go, I figured tomorrow we could go to that sex shop off Seventh St. and get you some real toys since I know that you're active and all that jazz...

Me: ::contemplates the numerous ways he could kill himself with the objects within reach::



Yeah, if you think I said that all to be funny... well... I'm sad to say that you're wrong... My family is totally Pro-Gay.

And on a side note: In the end we really did end up going to the Sex Shop off of Seventh Street... I purchased a variety of very informative books... >.>;;

[*IVIike*]

i would turn up missing

[elaboratedream]

when my bf came out to his dad (he's bisexual) he was kicked out of his house.
He lived in his car for a few months.
then his parents got a divorce and he moved in with his mom.
now, 2 years later, his dad's finally talking to him again.
but he still thinks his son's going to hell.

as for my parents, when i told them i was a lesbian (a bit of an exaggeration, but admitting to being bisexual is the worst thing to do... then they wouldnt let me hang out with guys or girls) they freaked.
they sent me to a priest and asked for an exorcism.

[IncantoDream]

well i kno im not a guy, but on movies and stuff, when a guy tells his dad, that he is gay, the Dad gets very upset and starts doin the usual...cussing, screaming, and usually disowning their son. i kno thats not wut would happen for all guys, but what would ur dad do if you told him u wur gay? (even tho ur not gay, just reply to wut ur dad might do, if u told him, and u wur jokIng.)

Well, my dad everything you said maybe even more. He indirectly said he wanted me dead...he's come around but I'm not interested in maintain a relationship with him. How could I?

[Bonobo]

i am scared to think of that, he would probably jump out a window screamin F**CK YOU SELV!

[ryan_wasn't_here]

my dad wouldn't care...

[MrStrife]

Good Luck Kiddo.

[x_curse_of_the_c...]

haha! my dad would be like well i love all god's children. (i wish he wouldn't BS me but i know he would) and my mom would be like well i once had a cousin who had a friend who was a lesbian and she was cool so good for you.

my cousin just came out as a lesbian so thats how i know how they would react. my dad was the worst he just kept telling her that she wasn't going to go to hell and i was like omg dad okay she gets it.

[EmoEyelinerx]

Well seeing that im a girl if i was a guy and i told my dad i was gay he wouldent care

[Amaranthus]

My dads no longer living, but if he was and I told him...he'd like freak out and try to send me to church or sumthin( he's one of them pious, bible can save you type of christian)

My mom wouldnt care though. She'd probly be curious :)

[USCavalry]

haha! my dad would be like well i love all god's children. (i wish he wouldn't BS me but i know he would) and my mom would be like well i once had a cousin who had a friend who was a lesbian and she was cool so good for you.

my cousin just came out as a lesbian so thats how i know how they would react. my dad was the worst he just kept telling her that she wasn't going to go to hell and i was like omg dad okay she gets it.

my dad would totally bs me too. mom would put on her fake smile or get all emotional (sometimes it's like she wishes i was a girl).

[Watttt]

i DID have too tell my dad i was gay...it went well actually...u